Mr. Yang Dai once said this:
"Only in a humble place is the most fortunate to see the truth of human nature."
And when a person is the most humble, it is often when he has no money.
Although it is often said that money is not a panacea, it turns out that it is difficult to move without money.
Although it is often said that money is not a piece of paper, it turns out that without money, your world has no temperature.
If a person is not really poor once, it is difficult for him to appreciate the sadness of "the world is hot and cold" in the human world.
A person, only if he is truly poor once, will he understand that there are actually three very realistic "truths" to face in life.
No money, no love
It is true that money cannot buy love, but without money, you often can't keep love.
Because love is not only wind and snow, but also more of a chai rice oil and salt that belongs to life.
As the writer Sanmao said:
"If love is not implemented in dressing, eating, sleeping, and counting money, these real lives will not last long."
Chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, food, clothing, housing or romance, which is inseparable from a "money" word.
If there is no money, what do you take to ensure the food and clothing of your family; if there is no money, what do you take to give the other party a stable home; if there is no money, why do you promise the other party a future?
When you don't have money, you can't guarantee your quality of life and how to give happiness to others.
Therefore, those who leave you when you have no money may not really be poor and love the rich.
It's just that compared to the illusory love, the first thing everyone has to do is to let themselves live well.
Whether it is the material satisfaction of the present or the beautiful expectations of the future, it is inseparable from the support of money.
It may sound very materialistic, but the reality is like this, it is cruel.
As a line in the TV series "The Age of Two Cores" said:
"Love and marriage are not maintained by face, and no matter how good feelings and marriages are, they also need money to maintain."
No money, no relatives
Olympic champion Quan Hongchan, the family is very poor, the family has a hard time, but there is no one to help.
However, just after she won the championship, a bunch of so-called "relatives" suddenly appeared.
Quan Hongchan's mother said: "Now I know that there are so many relatives in the family. ”
How ironic and how real!
Just in response to the old saying: the poor are in the downtown area and no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains.
When you are destitute, those people often hide from you far away, for fear that you want to touch their light and become their burden.
And when you are in power, those people will put on the face of "family", climb with you, and try their best to get closer to you, in the end, they just want to dip your light.
Lu Yao wrote in "Ordinary World":
"When we were young, we often regarded the word "relative" as beautiful and important. Once a person grows into an adult and begins to live independently, we quickly learn that kinship is often vulgar. ”
Relatives and family members are fundamentally different.
Your family will never turn their backs on you, but some relatives will only come close to you when you are prominent, and leave when you are down.
So you see, rich people are always a bunch of relatives, and those who don't have money are often lonely.
No money, no friends
Some say money can buy 99 percent of things, including friendship.
When you have money, you will always be surrounded by a bunch of friends, who will accompany you in everything and have support for everything.
If you want to drink a phone call, you can call out a group of people, and if you want to run an errand, someone will help you get it done.
However, if one day you are discouraged, you will find that the friends who used to call you brothers and brothers are gone.