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Not paying attention to cleanliness and not loving tidying up is a problem that most children will have, but as they grow older, their image is closely related to life and health, and if they are not corrected, it is bound to have an adverse impact, after all, no one is willing to be friends with scruffy people.
School bags are messed up into a pot of porridge, and sloppy children are easy to be looked down upon
A few days ago, a friend went to school to pick up her daughter, and she didn't expect that the scene that came into view simply made her jaw drop. A third-grade boy's school bag was as messy as a scavenging.
The zipper of each compartment of the bag is open, not to mention, the books and test papers inside are even more unbearable to look at, some of the test papers are twisted and folded, and some are directly grouped up by hand.
The most exaggerated thing is that the little boy also put a jump rope in his bag, but one end of the jump rope is in the bag, and the other end is dragging the test paper on the ground to "crawl forward".
Then look at the little boy leisurely shaking his own small steps, putting the bag straps that should have been on his shoulders at the two elbows, looking completely uncaring.
Seeing that the books in his bag were about to "escape from prison", his friends followed him all the way to remind him, but even if he didn't hear it, he continued to move forward, and he had no choice but to pick up the books and test papers he dropped on the ground and give them to his grandparents who picked him up.
"Messy" children are also difficult to be excellent when they grow up
In fact, the child's school bag is messy, and it is not good to carry the school bag, which is a manifestation of inner looseness.
Not to mention that it is orderly, because it is true that many people do not like to clean up, but to do at least neat and tidy, is an excellent basic requirement.
If we only talk about school bags, we can only play a watchmaking effect, and we can't reach it, if we want to fundamentally solve the problem, we still have to improve the children's requirements for themselves.
Parents are the initiation teachers of children, and children are a mirror of parents. It can be seen that the influence of parents' words and deeds on children is very far-reaching, and some personalities and qualities in children can always find the source in parents.
In family education, what kind of image parents show their children, what kind of personality and morality will be formed by children in childhood.
During this period, their imitation is their main way of learning, and this imitation is not selective, not only affects the child, but may even be fully accepted by the child.
If the mother does not love to be clean, and the hygiene at home is relatively poor, then the child is naturally like this.
Don't let sloppiness affect your child's development
The sloppy habit of children is not only disliked by others, but also affects future work.
An employment agency in the United States once did such an experiment: selected two groups of people with mediocre academic qualifications and neat appearance and rich academic qualifications for interviews, and finally found that the admission rate of the former was 30% higher than that of the latter.
In this regard, the explanation given by the interviewer is that a person's appearance is largely the embodiment of the heart, and people with clean and tidy appearances show that they have requirements for themselves in their hearts. If you don't pay attention to managing your own image in such a serious situation as the interview, we can't believe that he can be seriously responsible in his future work.
As can be seen from the above experiments, sloppy habits are actually self-disciplined behaviors. If you throw and throw things everywhere in your daily life, and lack of constraints, once you develop such a habit, it is difficult to change.
There must be a cause and an effect, and there is a link between them.
As psychologists say: sowing an action will reap a habit; sowing a habit will reap a character; sowing a character; sowing a character; reaping a destiny.
Therefore, parents should pay attention to the problem of children's habits, teach them to learn to take care of their own clothes and manage their own lives from an early age, which is beneficial to their children's future life without harm.
So how do you help your child change their sloppy behavior?
1. Let the child understand the disadvantages of sloppiness
Parents can use assistive tools to let children understand the disadvantages of sloppiness, such as picture books, TV shows, stories, etc., and tell them that not paying attention to hygiene will not only damage the environment, but also affect the impression of others on themselves, and may even pose a threat to physical health.
In addition, if conditions permit, parents can take their children to observe the bacteria under the microscope.
2. Parents lead by example
Most of the children's habits are inseparable from the parents, so if parents want their children to change their sloppy habits, they must set their own examples, set a good example for their children, do not throw things everywhere, and learn how to manage their lives and images.
3. Create a clean and tidy living environment for children
In addition to paying attention to personal hygiene, the living environment is also important.
Parents can invite their children to participate in cleaning, such as mopping the floor, wiping the table, etc., and give them appropriate rewards after the child completes the task.
4. Teach children how to organize and tidy up
When the child's toys are thrown everywhere, parents should help the child sort out together, do a good job, teach the child that different toys should be placed in different places, how to place in order to make the best use of space, and gradually cultivate the child's awareness of storage and sorting.
5. Work with your child to set standards and supervise each other
The sooner the child's habits are cultivated, the better, such as making beds, folding quilts and other things within the scope of the child's ability, should let them take the initiative to learn to do, rather than blindly by the parents to do it.
As a parent, we must set a good example, patiently help children stay away from sloppiness, and harvest a perfect life from an orderly life.