Author | Inspector (1471 words, about 4 minutes to read)
Some time ago, a novice bao dad "fire", it turned out that this bao dad was happy and anxious to give birth outside the delivery room, but when the nurse took the child out, this baby dad directly issued a soul question:
"What's going on, how come it's a single eyelid, is this my child?"
It turned out that this bao dad was a double eyelid, and bao mom was also a double eyelid, but the newborn baby in front of him was actually a single eyelid. So the father suspected that the child was not his own child or that he had made a mistake.
The original joyful atmosphere was a little stiff, and at this moment, the mother lying on the bed was also a little shocked, why did two double eyelids give birth to a single eyelid? It does seem to be counterintuitive and logical. Even the mother-in-law is asking, "Doctor, do you see if this baby is holding the wrong one?" ”
At this time, it was still the little nurse who took the lead in breaking the embarrassment with a smile: "What, I suspect that it is not your own birth?" Who said that double eyelids can not give birth to a single eyelid, you have more of this situation. When Bao Dad heard this, he was also relieved for a while, but he still asked half-believingly: "Is it true?"
Hearing this, the nurse was also a little helpless, and directly looked at Bao Dad with disgust: "This is still fake, you see this small mouth, small nose, which is not exactly the same as your length?" Your daughter-in-law is still lying on the bed, don't you hurry over to comfort her? Hearing this, Bao Dad carefully examined the child for a while, and then he could relax his heart and see his wife go.
But the problem is not over, after the video was fired on the Internet, I did not expect it, and it directly triggered a hot discussion among netizens, and even netizens directly made moves:
"Two double eyelids, absolutely can not give birth to a single eyelid son, or go to the paternity test!" 」
"Is there really someone who doesn't know how to pretend to understand, isn't it a big deal?" How can you conclude from a single eyelid that a child is not biological? Have you ever learned about dominant recessive genes? ”
Netizens argue endlessly, Bao Dad and Bao Mom are also confused, so can a couple with double eyelids give birth to a single eyelid child?
The answer from a professional point of view is: "Yes", some parents should not think too much!
Biologically:
"Double eyelids are dominant genes (AA or AA), single eyelids are recessive genes (aa), in the case that both parents have recessive genes, that is, they are all Aa, then through the combination of arrangement, the genes of the child's eyelids will be AA, Aa, aa, so the child may also be a single eyelid recessive gene, which means that the child has a probability of being a single eyelid." But there are no absolutes, and we also have to consider the possibility of inheritance from generation to generation. ”
That is to say, although parents are double eyelids, the parents may not show two dominant A genes in the body, if the child inherits this recessive gene, it is likely to appear single eyelid situation.
Although the theory is somewhat complicated, it is enough to remember one sentence, that is: "Although both parents are double eyelids, it is also possible to give birth to a child with a single eyelid, and this is normal, there is no need to be surprised or worried." ”
But what can the newborn child see, in case it's an inner double? And the newborn baby's face will be somewhat swollen, the skin is shrunk into a clump, so if the eye area is a single eyelid, it does not explain anything for the time being, and it is not too late to wait until three or four months have opened before concluding.
Bao Dad should respect Bao Mom and take into account Bao Ma's feelings
Speaking of this, it is estimated that the father can also put his heart at ease, but I have to say that the daughter-in-law has just left the delivery room, and the husband is indiscriminately so "suspicious", which is really hurting the heart of the mother.
Even if the father-to-be has doubts in his heart and does not spit unhappily, he still hopes to worry about his wife's feelings, even if he asks the nurse or doctor privately behind his mother's back, it is better than doubting in public.
Therefore, here, I also hope that the fathers will maintain a certain respect for their wives and not directly issue questions such as "the child is not mine". It doesn't matter what your child looks like, as long as it's your own child, it's the best.
At the same time, I also hope that all parents-to-be can read more about parenting knowledge before giving birth, have a normal heart, and do not have to expect too much from the child's appearance, otherwise the disappointment may be greater.
Spicy Mom Quotes:
Children can have a pair of double eyelids and large eyes, which is what many parents are most looking forward to, but what aspects of the child will inherit the parents is a matter of permutation and probability, and we cannot decide.
Therefore, with a natural mentality, eat some healthy and nutritious foods during pregnancy, so that children can develop more perfectly and healthily, which is more important than the appearance of the facial features.
Parents, whose eyelids does your child inherit? Is it double eyelids or single eyelids?
(Image from the Internet)