I rejoice in my birth, when I am alone.
I met with an old friend yesterday.
She seemed to be in a particularly good mood, chatting with me while shabu-shabu, with a smile in the corner of her eyebrows.
I said, "It's true that we haven't seen each other in a while, but you're not so happy that you're going to fly." ”
She gave me a blank look and said, "Tell you, I'm getting married!" ”
The little fritters of fennel I had just clipped up fell back into the plate: "What the hell?! How did I not know??? ”
My old friend laughed and showed me a circle of friends that her boyfriend sent. The photo is a group photo of two people traveling on vacation, with the caption:
"If it goes well we get married, if it doesn't go well we get married later, I mean, I won't miss you."
She said: "Then I thought that if he had proposed to me that day, I would have married him in situ!" ”
My old friend actually had a rough emotional road before, so she once felt that no one would love another person with full sincerity.
Until the incumbent appears.
As Hu Xing'er said at that time, she was taught to be a sensible woman before, and she was taught to be a gentle adult, and only the current one let her be a happy and wanton child.
The old friend said: "When you are loved with your heart, you really understand what love is, don't ask, you have your own answers in your heart." So...... Don't be surprised if you receive my invitation one day! After all, if you really love someone, you want to get married~
In "Heartbeat", it is said: "If the Si people are rainbows, they will know that there is a party when they meet them." ”
You see, meeting the right person is really a very sweet and happy thing.
When he was young, Zhou Enlai wrote in his diary: "I think that I keep the two great doctrines of vegetarianism and non-marriage, and my life can be long for many years." ”
But after meeting Deng Yingchao, he said:
"I have been a staunch materialist all my life, only you, I hope to have an afterlife."
Celibacy, with lofty ambitions, can still lose its square inches and mess up its principles when it meets destined people.
I wanted to get married because I met you, and I didn't want to get married with anyone else.
Isn't that what love means at its best? Two-way rush, one life and one couple.
Suddenly I remembered that I had asked a friend who was already married, what made them decide to get a license?
Friends say that it is some very daily and very small and simple small things, piled up to a certain moment, they will be happy to do the wedding.
She said:
"The idea of getting married comes up a lot of the time.
One morning when you woke up and saw his face, you thought how he was so cute; one night after drinking some wine with friends outside, he came to pick me up and take me home without any annoyance, and smiled and said that my blush was very cute;
One night he was on a business trip and suddenly felt that the world was half gone, and after a phone call in the middle of the night, he was sleepy but patiently answered all my questions about security... Coming home from work with my favorite dishes, driving with me on weekends to the flower market far away to buy lots and lots of flowers...
These Sweet times have made me want to marry him countless times. ”
I remember her eyes shining brightly at me after she said it, "I'm so lucky, so is he." ”
What is it like to meet the right person?
Probably because of the crowds, you will no longer be afraid of loneliness, because you live with a person in your heart, which gives you a full sense of security.
Because the person who really likes you gives you the most precious favor in the world.
Haruki Murakami said, "Love full of prejudice is precisely what I love most prejudiced in this unreliable world." ”
We are all ordinary and ordinary people in this world, but because we are loved, we have become the most special people in the hearts of others.
So I hope we all keep in mind that marriage is not a necessity in life, but if you're going to get married, be sure to choose someone who really makes you want to get married.
When you are tired, someone can rely on, when you are happy, you can share, you can hide on the sofa on the weekend, play games and watch TV, go shopping together, travel together, and discover more beautiful existence in life together, this is the meaning of "two people".
Light up "Watching" and hope that someone will appear and make you feel that every day of your life is full of hope.
I hope you can start a new chapter in your life with him and put love into your daily routine day after day.
Don't give in, don't give in, be sure to live the life you expect with people you like in both directions, okay?
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