Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Friends are people who are very close to us in this world, so in the process of getting along with many people and friends, the good feelings gradually increase, they know each other more and more, they become more and more familiar with each other, and they are more and more unrestrained in front of each other, and they show their mood and thoughts at will. However, friends are only friends after all, no matter how close the relationship between each other, it is still two people, there can be no situation that you do not care how you are in front of each other, so when getting along with friends, remember not to really help each other as their own people who have nothing to talk about, leave a line of distance between each other, and let each other have a free space in this relationship. The following are some things that you can't say to your friends, so be sure to pay attention.
First, make excessive jokes
Joke this thing, when everyone is happy to say that everyone is happy, say it when everyone is not happy to adjust the atmosphere, but also pay attention to, although the joke is said to be playing with a laugh, but in the end it is a matter of laughing at the bad places of others, so we must pay attention to the proportions of the joke. Just as you don't joke with strangers, you must also grasp how to open the joke and to what extent.
The simplest way to tell if a joke can be made is to think in a different position while maintaining a friendly heart to others. When you feel that this joke is on yourself, although you are not very happy, but you can also pass the fun, don't open it. Because many times your feelings about yourself are overestimated, you feel that you can digest the other party is not necessarily, find another topic to continue to talk, the joyful atmosphere can still last.
Second, say bad things about another friend
We have a lot of friends, friends have a lot of friends, and for various reasons we will also become friends with friends of friends, everyone is familiar with each other, they are each other's friends, and the relationship is at least superficially very harmonious. So, when you feel that some of the behaviors of a certain friend make you very uncomfortable, it is best not to talk to a mutual friend. On the one hand, he is caught in the middle and can't do anything, on the other hand, if he wants to do something wrong, it may be something wrong, and in the end, it will make your one confession become the fuse of parting ways.
Third, complain about their parents
Many misfortunes in life can be told to friends, which is the important role of many friends, after all, after the painful things are said out, they will be relieved, and the mood will naturally get better. However, when these unhappy things involve parents, it is best not to complain to friends.
Parents are elders, juniors to talk about the elderly things do not know how to comfort you, so many times can only hug you, hope you do not cry, and, parents are their own so close people anyway, others say nonsense, in the end will be afraid of whether to say something wrong, after all, everyone does not want to be the girlfriend scolding scumbag, and then in turn by the girlfriend dislike to affect their feelings.
Uncle Epilogue:
Friends in the end is only friends, no matter how close do not put their hearts out of the whole, a person walking in this society, must remember to leave three points for themselves, not only make themselves more mysterious, occasionally find small surprises can also make the other party want to understand you more, but also can make friends breathe a sigh of relief, do not have to be a friend to be a mother, bear your negative energy.