Yesterday, when my husband and I went to the hospital for obstetric examination, we saw Lu Yu with a bandage wrapped around his head, sitting quietly in a chair alone, and I heard that his wife was also pregnant, and should also be waiting for the obstetric examination.
A few days ago, my girlfriend Xiaowei told me that Lu Yu and the woman had fought again, and the wound on her head should have come like this. Although I didn't want to listen to Lu Yu's gossip, Xiao Wei was happy with it, and would add a sentence every time: "Deserved."
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I didn't look at Lu Yu any more and left the hospital with my husband. Lu Yu was my ex-husband, the closest lover I had ever had, and now I didn't want to see him at all. The hurt he brought me was a nightmare that I never wanted to remember again.
01
Lu Yu and I are college classmates, he is a student of the Department of Business Management, the backbone of the student union, the captain of the basketball team, he is humorous and funny, sunny and handsome. And I'm from the Department of Foreign Languages, quiet and introverted, and only deal with books all day long.
In the eyes of outsiders, our appearance is extremely matched, but our personality is the opposite. It was two people who didn't seem to intersect, but they met at a school event.
That year, the school celebration was going to rehearse an English stage play "Romeo and Juliet", and because we didn't have a suitable male lead, we borrowed Lu Yu and let him play the male and female protagonists with me.
Lu Yu's English is very good, but it is not up to our level, so in addition to rehearsals, I am also responsible for helping him correct his pronunciation.
In frequent contact, we gradually developed a good feeling for each other. When the performance was over, Lu Yu and I also kept in touch, but no one broke through the window paper.
It wasn't until one time their varsity team played against an outside school that he invited me to watch a ball game. Watching Lu Yu shoot handsomely on the field and listening to the screams of the little girls in the audience, I was thrilled at that moment, and I felt that I also wanted to jump up and cheer for him.
In the end, our varsity team won. At the celebration banquet, his teammates coaxed and said: It is not the same to have a sister-in-law to cheer, but Brother Yu has exploded a small universe!
In this way, we naturally came together, and the relationship during the four years of college has been very stable. He was sleek in school, made many friends, and as soon as he graduated, he was introduced to a well-known local company and worked as an assistant in the operation department. Because of my excellent results, I also went to a foreign company to do business translation.
After a year of work, we got married. The colleagues and friends who came to congratulate us all said that we are talented and beautiful, and I also feel that I am very lucky, and I will always move towards happiness in the future.
But life after marriage was very different, and it became the darkest day of my life. It is most appropriate to describe my life as Zhang Ailing's "life is like a gorgeous robe, crawling with lice" to describe my life.
02
We both come from small counties and hope to have a stable little home in this first-tier city. For this goal, we decided not to have children first, and worked hard for a few years while we were young.
Lu Yu quickly rose to prominence in the company, and two years later, he was promoted to the new director.
Our conditions are getting better and better, with the support of parents on both sides, coupled with the savings of these years, we bought our own house, although not big, but very warm.
With the promotion of the position, Lu Yu gradually socialized more, often came back late, and was drunk. I told him to pay more attention to his body, and he would say, wife, I'm not for this family yet.
Once I noticed that in addition to the smell of wine, there was also a faint smell of cheap perfume. This made me very unhappy, but he said lightly: "There are women in the customer, is this not normal?" ”
Their department often gathers for dinner, and sometimes they will call me to go, I don't like this kind of wine table culture, but Lu Yu likes this feeling of stars holding the moon, and likes everyone to take him as the focus.
He likes his colleagues to frequently toast him at the wine table, praising him for his ability to lead the department and the company to good results.
Once, after getting drunk, two subordinates sent him back, and I saw him upstairs lying on one of the female subordinates, and I felt very uncomfortable.
For this reason I had my first argument with him since I got married. I'm not a woman who likes to lose her temper, but I'm really angry. I said you and the girl are so indistinguishable? You're married, can you think about how I feel?
He said he was drunk and didn't know anything. Looking at his innocent appearance, I had no choice but to remind him not to forget the identity of a married man. He frequently agreed, saying: "Wife, I love you the most, other women are weeds in my eyes, only you are the little flower that should be cared for." ”
I thought he would relent after this argument, but I was wrong. Men's thinking is different from women's, and I think the things that are worth caring about don't matter in his eyes, and my tolerance will also encourage his arrogance.
On the weekend, we were both resting at home, and Lu Yu said to me, "Wife, we want a baby." ”
I said, then you quit the bar, you have to raise your body first. He readily agreed.
But in the blink of an eye, a phone call came from his female subordinate: "Leader, this customer is so difficult, I just didn't get it done, can you help me next week?" ”
Listening to the childish voice on the phone, I couldn't breathe.
Lu Yu said that she talked like that, and her work was still good. This plan is very important, next week to get it done, just take a vacation, rest well, accompany your wife.
I told my girlfriend Xiaowei about this, Xiaowei said that she can play with your husband, but don't have any ambiguity between the two, you had better go to his company to see and swear sovereignty.
03
On the pretext of leaving work early, I went to find Lu Yu to go home with me, and went to his company to see the female subordinate. We've eaten together before, and I know her.
She greeted me with a smile and didn't smile: "Yo, sister-in-law is here!" ”
I said, "Yeah, go to work with my husband and go shopping." ”
"Our leader went out to dinner with the client, don't you know?" And it's a female customer! ”
I turned around angrily and left, who knew she followed, and said to me mockingly: "Your husband has a leg with a female client, so you are still in the dark, right?" ”
I called Lu Yu, and I shouted on the phone with all my might to ask him to come back immediately.
Lu Yu came home and saw me in tears on the couch and asked me what was wrong. I asked him if he really had anything to do with a female client, and he swore absolutely nothing, that it was the female subordinate who was splashing dirty water and firing her tomorrow.
Sure enough, the female subordinate automatically left her job the next day, and before she left, she called me and told me that Lu Yu actually had an ambiguous relationship with many women, played with her feelings, and kicked her away. She felt angry, and she didn't want to stay in this company anyway, so she exposed him.
The funny thing is that Lu Yu did not affect his work because of this matter, he jumped to a new company and began a new journey of vigor.
And his explanation to me was: "Wife, that's just a show, I only love you." "Successful men are like this, my heart and money are yours, isn't that enough?"
I was stunned by his righteous look, and I said you really disgusting me, let's get a divorce!
"Wife, I can't live without you, all this I have worked so hard to come to is for you, if my future does not have you, then what else do I want to do?" Let's start over! ”
Lu Yu knelt in front of me and wept bitterly, I don't know if he was really repentant, or whether he was slowing down, but thinking about the feelings of so many years, my heart softened. I'm a good-looking person, and I don't want my parents and friends to know that I'm having such a mess.
Lu Yu was also honest for a while. But it didn't take long for me to repeat the trick. Hurt me over and over again, ask for my forgiveness over and over again.
I don't know how the once sunny boy came to be what he is now, but I do know that not everyone loses themselves in a materialistic world. I insisted on a divorce, but he didn't agree. During the long tug-of-war, I suffered from depression.
04
Lu Yu took me to the doctor, and he said that we wanted the child to go up all the time, and he was in a hurry.
In fact, I didn't have a child because I didn't accept him, and I didn't want to have any contact with this dirty body. I could see that he was in a hurry after I fell ill, and he stopped going out to socialize and tried to stay with me at home.
But I knew it wouldn't do any good, and if my illness had healed, he would have continued his life.
I wanted to escape from this suffocating life, but he wouldn't let me go, even if I had committed suicide once, this selfish man wouldn't let go, he had been kidnapping me with so-called "love".
Friends around me didn't know what was going on, and they all advised me to give him a chance. They only saw his beautiful and elegant side, but they couldn't see the dirtiness in his heart, only Xiaowei had always been on my side.
Finally, the company had an opportunity to be sent abroad, and I applied with the leader to go to the field. Lu Yu said that I was not in good health and was not suitable for business trips. I said the two of us should be apart for a while and think about the future. When he saw me so determined, he could only agree.
On a business trip, I met my high school classmate Mullin, who was admitted to the city in college and stayed here after graduation, and he had a crush on me. He wrote to me when he was in college to confess that I was already with Lu Yu at that time, so I politely rejected him.
He has been working on his career and is still single. We met and had a meal, and I knew he still had a crush on me. But facing a messy life and the current pathological psychology, I no longer have extravagant expectations for feelings.
I told Xiao Wei about this, and Xiao Wei said that the Mu lin people are very good, if you don't want to delay people, don't meet again; if you want to start a new life, leave Lu Yu immediately.
I thought about it for a long time, and I felt that Xiaowei was right, I can't go on like this, my life can't be ruined by a scumbag.
So after returning from a business trip, I said to Lu Yu: "During this time outside, I also experienced the kind of life you lived, and I had a Y love, which felt really exciting!" I looked at him sarcastically.
His face changed from red to white, from white to black, and my heart was very happy.
I said, "I thought about it, since you don't want a divorce, then let's play each other, I think it's good." ”
"Do you still want a face, a woman, to be so shameless."
He was frantically pulling at my hair and I felt like he wanted to kill me. I craned my neck, and I knew I couldn't back down. He just thought I was in control, so he didn't want to let me go.
"Do you want to hit me?" You dare to abuse me, I immediately hit 110, do you want to get together and disperse, or do you want to tear your face? ”
I don't think he'd ever seen me, a well-behaved girl, so tough that he slammed the door in anger.
05
In the days that followed, I often didn't go home at night, in fact, I lived in Xiaowei's house. I always called in front of him when I came back and talked to my colleagues.
I regained contact with Mu Lin, xiaowei told Mu Lin about my experience, and he encouraged me to bravely leave Luyu and start a new life.
I think I'm also selfish, and I haven't divorced yet, so I started looking for a spare tire. In fact, I didn't want people to see my jokes, and when I divorced, I had nothing.
I also told my parents what Lu Yu had done, and they came here from their hometown on purpose, and my father slapped Lu Yu twice and pulled me away from home.
Lu Yu later agreed to divorce and left me the house and half of the property. I think he was guilty, but the harm he had done to me could be compensated by money, and I unceremoniously accepted everything he had given me and swept him out of the house.
After dating Mullin for a while, I decided to leave this sad place and go to Mullin. But Mullin said that where you fall, you get up from where you fall.
He ended his job over there, took all his belongings to my city, and started his business again.
After his company was on track, we got married.
Mullin said, I'm going to spoil you and make others regret it. I said I just wanted to live our lives well and had nothing to do with other people.
Mullin said: I didn't expect to go around for many years, and I could meet you again. Maybe the old man under the moon didzed off and pulled the wrong line, and now he was awake.
Later, Xiaowei said that Lu Yu also remarried. The bride is a confidant of his red face in the kaleidoscope, saying that she is pregnant, and her parents have come to force the marriage. However, this time I am not looking for a good stubble, I heard that he talked to female colleagues with multiple smiling faces, and when he returned home, he had to quarrel.
Xiao Wei just said mysteriously on the phone: "I know you don't want to listen, but I don't say it's uncomfortable, Lu Yu and his wife quarreled with him again yesterday, and the child was gone in tearing." ”
I don't think it has anything to do with me anymore, and now that I'm pregnant, I just hope that this little life can grow up healthy in a family loved by my parents.
Sentiments:
In marriage, it is not terrible to meet a scumbag, what is terrible is weakness and tolerance. If kindness cannot be exchanged for the prodigal son's return, then he cannot be allowed to gain inches.
I hope that the experience of the protagonist in the text can make the sisters wake up, if they do not love, stop the loss in time, do not waste the good time in the tug-of-war of marriage, so that the only thing that can be lost is themselves. Stand up bravely, fight for everything you deserve, and then dash away and start a new life.
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Author: Free Space
Reviewer: Self-passed/ Gentleman of Linghu Lake
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