When men fall in love, generally speaking, they are the peak of their appearance and cultivation in life, and they are also the peak of performance and (false) generosity. Go to see the girl you like, wash your hair in advance, spray some perfume, chew a piece of gum, wear a handsome new dress, dress in front of the mirror, first try to win the woman's favor from the image; then invest appropriately, buy a bouquet of flowers, bring a small gift, buy two movie tickets, prepare some small snacks, rush to wait for each other in advance, go shopping for dinner and shopping, saddle up before and after the horse, boo han and ask warm very considerately; first ask the girl to order food, set a chair for the other party, clip the dish, and feed a few mouthfuls to each other's mouths when you are attentive Send umbrellas on rainy days, take the initiative to pick up and drop off when it gets dark, and leave each other with good night before going to bed. The woman in love, looking at such an excellent object, her eyes are shining, and she feels that this person is full of merits, handsome, generous, and considerate, and the passages and jokes told from time to time have just mobilized the emotions of both sides.
The highest cultivation when a person is in love: cherishing
When women fall in love, they are slightly different from men, and the general number of roads is also the same. Before the date, put on makeup and wear a nice dress; when eating, be careful to pick vegetables, for fear of revealing a trace of unladylike; go to the object's home, easily do not say much, a good look of a knowledgeable Dali; learn that the boy is coming to the house, put it neatly in advance, and tidy up spotlessly... It feels like a new woman who can live a life and pay attention to taste.
In love: What a painful realization
When they got married and had a baby, removed their disguises, unloaded their initial temptations and cautions, and revealed their true selves, they realized that the initial human setups established by the two sides had long since collapsed, and they couldn't help but look at each other. Today's him, a Saturday and Sunday main pajama series, socks do not wash, housework do not do, play games day and night, let him do what to do, do not let what to do the top of the cattle, go out and shout cold he said that the cold should be so old people do not know how to wear more, you want to hold hands with him to throw you away the suspicion that you are annoyed ... Is this still the same object as it was? These are clearly two different people. Nowadays, she wears a hat with oily hair, sloppy makeup before going out, men who want to buy things are often stuck, children do not obey the Hedong lion roar, the east parents west family twitter endlessly all day, not keen to delve into cooking "production" dishes can not be imported... Is this still the same woman as before? These are clearly two different people.
Remember the roads we walked together, the movies we watched, the words we said?
To say ah, when in love, men and women, in order to leave a good impression on each other, it is inevitable to do some appropriate whitewashing and packaging, not for anything else, just want to leave the most perfect side for lovers, so in this process, the cultivation and demeanor of the two people are the peak of this life. Therefore, it must be admitted that when you are in love, it is the ceiling of a person's quality, if this time is not so reliable, it means that the upper limit of the other party will not be too high, or that people do not take you seriously, and do not have too many unrealistic fantasies, because this person is not suitable for you at all, and the person who is suitable for you is elsewhere.
The hand of the son grows old with the son
As for the later blandness, it was a return to reality. After all, when it comes to the stage of real life, it is the plainness of chai rice oil and salt, no one can turn every day of marriage into every day of love, adults toss and turn in order to live, which moment is easy and easy.
We fell in love together on graduation day
【Original Statement】Zuo Qiuwen, currently living in Beijing, has been a freelance writer for seven years, a ten-year exhibition planner, and a corporate partner.
Emotional articles, all original.