People are good at investing, no matter what they do, first of all, they will definitely consider this result, what kind of advantages and disadvantages will be brought to themselves, try to make the benefits greater than the disadvantages, and the investment is greater than the returns.
Compared with women, men may be more rational in their feelings, and even regard feelings and giving as an investment, paying something themselves and wanting to get back more things. In fact, in love, what men really want is not the woman's flattery, but these 5 things!
1. Single-mindedness
A relationship that can really last, each other must regard each other as the only person in their lives.
In the relationship, men have a kind of possessiveness and regard you as their own property, so slowly he also hopes that you can pay real dedication to him and not be tempted by other men. When you give a man a focus, he will have a great sense of security in his heart.
2. Trust
In a relationship, what men need most is the trust of women. Men are not willing to easily touch feelings, that is, they are afraid of being betrayed by others, especially by the people they trust the most, and that feeling is tantamount to taking a knife to their hearts and watching the blood flow out drop by drop.
When you can give a man trust, the man will feel that everything he has given is worth it, will tell you everything, and treat you as the only partner in his life.
3. Wait
In fact, at the age of meeting love, most men have no real achievements, only with love and sincerity to keep a woman's heart, so the man's love at this time even seems a little humble, he is particularly afraid that you will leave, the heart really hopes that you can give him a deadline, let him have time to grow, have the ability to give you a really good life.
You give the man to wait, it means that you have given your youth to him, and the man's heart will receive an invisible encouragement, and he will take you as the driving force for his own efforts.
4. Understanding
Everyone has some bitterness in their hearts, and some words cannot be said, so men sometimes remain silent in front of you, even if they know that it is not their fault, but they are still unwilling to refute it, because he does not know how to say it.
At this time, a woman must learn to understand men, learn to understand men's suffering, and learn to think about things from his point of view, so that there will be a tacit understanding of the soul between you. What a man wants most is to understand, and if you give it to him, it will be easy to conquer his heart.
5. Accompaniment
Men and women are actually in the same position in the relationship, because in the relationship everyone is equal, there is no distinction between men and women, do not feel that men should accompany women, women should also give men the same companionship.
When you are accustomed to the existence of another person, there will be an indispensable feeling in your heart, only when the other party is with you, there is a sense of peace of mind, talking and doing things have goals, there is pursuit. So, if you give him companionship, it will be easy to conquer his heart.
Want to get a man's heart, it is useless to be good to him, just as the so-called favored are fearless, many times the better you are to him, the less you will take you seriously. In fact, being nice to someone is itself very cheap, and anyone can do it, and it will not be cherished.
We have to be the one who is unique, to be the one that the other party does not want to put down, we must meet his emotional needs, make ourselves valuable, and become his most important right and left arm, so that men will fall in love with you.
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