Author | Inspector (total 1378 words, about 4 minutes to read)
Whenever a new little life is born in the family, every member of the family expects the child to be a cute and sensible doll.
And if a dragon and phoenix fetus is born, then parents will often be more excited, because a fetus can make up a "good" word, and double happiness is at the door.
However, the probability of giving birth to a dragon and phoenix fetus is very small, and the family that can give birth to a dragon and phoenix fetus is also lucky.
★ The most "greasy" newborn baby is on fire, do not look for a doctor to find a mother
After several hours of "hard work", a mother finally gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, and when the nurse put the children in the incubator, they became crying and crying, no matter what the nurse did, they could not soothe the emotions of the two children.
The nurse finally had no choice but to carry the child to the mother's side, who knew that the two children had just stayed with the mother and stopped crying.
The brother also used his small palm to grasp his mother's fingers tightly, and everyone felt very novel when they saw this situation. Bao Dad even took this video and put it on the Internet, which attracted the attention of many netizens in a while.
Netizens have ridiculed: "Is this child not drinking Meng Po soup?" I grabbed my mother's hand before I opened my eyes, but I really loved my mother's newborn. "After that, it will be a proper mother-in-law."
"Ma Bao Male" is also because of this unusual behavior, really a fire, Bao Dad also continues to publish the daily life of "Ma Bao Man" on the Internet, so that everyone has liked this "Ma Bao Man".
When giving birth to a child, parents are happy and happy, but as the child grows up, the responsibility and pressure of parents will follow, especially for families with many children, it is necessary to invest many times in love and patience. So, in a twin family, how should parents raise and educate them?
Fairness and impartiality
In families with two children, the most common problem is "unfair treatment".
● What parents need to do is also to treat every child fairly, and not to be biased against any one.
Children are very sensitive, as long as the parents have a little bit of favoritism, they can feel it, parents should treat their children equally at this time, do not discriminate between their children because of gender or age issues.
Regardless of whether the child is male or female, because of the age of the child, it cannot be forced to be the big one to tolerate the small one, let alone to the endless accommodation of the small one. The palms of the hands and the backs of the hands are all meat, both are their own children, treat them with a fair heart, the children can be cared for, healthy and happy to grow up.
Individualized
Although the two children are twins and look exactly the same, they cannot be exactly the same in other aspects except for their looks.
There will still be many differences in the personality of the two children, and parents should understand the differences between the two children, teach according to their aptitudes, and let them shine in their own strengths.
Understand their differences
Although both children are their own treasures and should be treated equally, there will still be many differences in the way boys and girls are educated, and parents should distinguish them.
★ The focus of educating boys and girls is different:
● The boy should focus on cultivating his sense of responsibility.
Let them know how to become a man who stands tall in the sky, have responsibilities and ideals, and work hard for a better life in the future.
Girls should be taught to protect themselves.
Have their own bottom line and sense of principle, can not be too squeamish, to be strong in the face of every setback.
There are twins or dragon and phoenix fetuses in the family, on the one hand, it is happy, on the other hand, parents also have more responsibilities, and it is not easy to educate two children at the same time, if you want to have double achievements, then you have to pay double the effort.
Parents need to have a pair of eyes to observe the characteristics of twins, not to tie them together, and not to force one child to move closer to another child. Two independent individuals need to develop independently, and this requires parents to respect their children.
Spicy Mom Quotes:
Every parent has the obligation to take good care of their children, each child has its own characteristics and lifestyle, even if it is a twin, parents must understand the characteristics of each child to cultivate them separately, do not educate according to a fixed model.
In this way, children can grow up healthy and healthy, realize their own value, and become talents in their respective fields.
Parents, how do you raise your children?
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