What should the man do when he witnesses his wife cheating? The man's approach in this case was clearly undesirable.
The People's Procuratorate of Pu'er City, Yunnan Province, recently issued a criminal indictment related to marital contradictions, in which the woman, Miss Murong (pseudonym of the wife, the same below), was dissatisfied with the arranged marriage and had a disagreement with her husband in her actual life in the future, resulting in many contradictions with her husband. Such a matter, which could have been handled through consultation, was ultimately irreparable tragedy and a criminal offence because of their own inappropriate practices.
When you are in the same bed and have different dreams, you should think about what to do later
Dong Xunhuan (husband's pseudonym, the same below) and his wife Miss Murong's marriage is an arranged marriage, mainly matchmaking, without too much interaction, under the arrangement of the parents of both sides, according to local customs, the wedding wine was done, which is considered to be a marriage. However, their marriage did not meet the provisions of the Marriage Law, because both of them were at least twenty years old when they married, which could only be regarded as a de facto marriage.
This kind of de facto marriage is very common in some remote rural areas and some ethnic minority settlements, and although it does not fully meet the conditions of the marriage law, it is a fact that cannot be ignored.
However, according to local customs, a banquet was set up in the village, and relatives and friends made a witness, even if they officially became husband and wife.
After marriage, perhaps because there is no emotional basis, or perhaps the reason for personality discord, the two often quarrel every day, and what makes Miss Murong even more angry is that sometimes Dong Xunhuan will beat herself, but when men do it, women will generally be discouraged and desperate. Although they lived together for 6 years and had a son, Miss Murong increasingly wanted to get rid of Dong Xunhuan and find a new life.
This bad marriage made Miss Murong feel very tired, and she regretted more and more that she had listened to the family's marriage arrangement so early. So one day, taking advantage of Dong Xunhuan's good mood, he tentatively proposed: Anyway, we did not get a marriage license at the beginning, and the life was like this, it was not good for anyone, it was better to separate early. However, Dong Xunhuan did not agree and immediately rejected Miss Murong's proposal.
But it was obvious that Miss Murong was already tired of this kind of life, and she became more and more disgusted with Dong Xunhuan and more and more yearned for the outside world.
So one day, Miss Murong made up her mind. She went to the county town to find a job in the supermarket, rented a house not far from the supermarket, and did not return home. Even if he basically got rid of the shackles of home, he also temporarily got rid of Dong Xunhuan.
If you don't go home, don't go home, anyway, how to live your life.
But after a long time, everyone in the village spread that Dong Xunhuan's wife ran away with others. At this time, Dong Xunhuan's face slowly hung up, and he felt humiliated and lost his face at home. He went to Miss Murong several times and begged her to quit her job and go home to work with her children. Of course, Miss Murong refused, she took this step with difficulty, and her urban life slowly got on the right track. Dong Xunhuan retreated and said that he had also moved to the county to live with Miss Murong and also find a job. However, Miss Murong was already tired of her, and of course this proposal was also firmly rejected.
Because Miss Murong's attitude toward herself became more and more cold, coupled with the spread of some gossip, dong Xunhuan slowly began to suspect that Miss Murong might really have other men outside. Once planted, the seeds of doubt take root and sprout quickly and grow rapidly.
In order to test his suspicions, he repeatedly crouched near miss Murong's supermarket to observe. The kung fu paid off, and finally let him find the clues.
Once, Miss Murong did not return to her residence after work, but got into a car. The driver was a man, it seemed that the two knew each other, Dong Xunhuan immediately wanted to follow, but he was not familiar with his life, and he would lose it after a while. Thinking that he had prima facie evidence, he was not reconciled, and he came up with a brain-opening idea.
One day in April 2020, Dong Xunhuan told Miss Murong that she was going to go to a field with her compatriots to find a job, and she might go out for a few days, and agreed to wait for him to come back to talk about the marriage between the two. Miss Murong was relieved to hear it, and she longed for Dong Xunhuan to disappear immediately, and immediately said that you should go, so crisp and cheerful without emotion, it seems that she is very happy about Dong Xunhuan's departure, Dong Xunhuan naturally and silently scolded Miss Murong in her heart, but thinking about her own plan to catch the adultery, she also silently endured.
He knew that miss Murong was on vacation the next day, and he thought that as soon as he left, Miss Murong would definitely call her lover to her home. So on the same day, Dong Xunhuan pretended to leave with a suitcase, but in fact found a hotel nearby to sleep for one night, and the next day he ran to Miss Murong's residence early to see the situation.
However, after looking through the window for half a day, I did not find anyone in the house. He guessed that Miss Murong might have gone out early in the morning to go on a date with her lover, or hadn't been home last night.
The more he thought about it, the more angry he became, and he thought that he must catch the adulterous affair between the two in person, so he simply climbed into the house from the window and hid, ready to arrest him.
Miss Murong rented a small house, and there were not many places where people could hide. The wardrobe is relatively small, and it is stuffed with a bunch of clothes, which is very reluctant to hide inside, the safety factor is not high, and it is easy to be found. After studying for half a day, Dong Xunhuan felt that it was wrong to hide under the bed, first, he was relatively comfortable, and second, he was not easy to find. So he hid under the bed. But he thought about it for a moment, in case he fell asleep, he wouldn't be able to find Miss Murong back at the first time, so he climbed out and loosened the faucet in the kitchen and made the ground dirty, thinking that miss Murong would definitely clean up and make a sound when he entered the door, and even if he fell asleep, he would be awakened.
Sure enough, the development of things was exactly the same as Dong Xunhuan's idea.
Dong Xunhuan, who thought that "everything was ready", ate something and hid under the bed, slept like a dead pig for a while, and woke up several times in the middle, but did not hear anything in the room, Dong Xunhuan was a little discouraged, but he was not dead-hearted, thinking that he must find out the truth. Confused and went back to sleep.
Until more than 8 o'clock in the evening, he was suddenly awakened. The voice was obviously not the cleaning he had thought in advance, but came from the top of his head, and Murong Girl had been married for 6 years, and this movement from his wife was all too familiar to him, just with another person.
When the picture he had suspected a thousand times appeared above his head, Dong Xunhuan came out from under the bed and glared at the two people on the bed.
Murong Girl obviously did not expect Dong Xunhuan to come out from under the bed, and the Seven Souls and Eight Spirits were frightened and flew for a long time, leaving only a series of screams. The man next to her, Zhang Wufeng (pseudonym of the victim, the same below), was even more frightened and stunned, unable to move his hands and feet.
He obviously did not know who this person who suddenly appeared was, but when faced with dong Xunhuan's fist waved over, he naturally did not dare to tie his hands and grab it, during the two wrestling, Dong Xunhuan casually touched the satchel and fruit basket on the table and smashed it hard into Zhang Wufeng's head, all of which were blocked, and all the tools that could be used were used, and they did not hurt each other much, and Dong Xunhuan, who was angry and frustrated, took the fruit knife with his hand and stabbed Zhang Wufeng several times in a row.
Zhang Wufeng saw that things were not good, the other party was like crazy, if he wanted to save his life, he had to run away quickly, so he looked for an opportunity to cover his wounds and ran out, and the stunned Murong girl on the side no longer screamed this time, and finally came back to his senses, quickly got out of bed to stop Dong Xunhuan, and the crazy Dong Xunhuan also returned to the human world at this moment, calmed down, felt that he had given Zhang Wufeng a lesson, he stopped chasing, he stayed in the house to teach Murong Girl, asking what to do about this matter, He righteously asked Murong Xun to go home with him, and although Murong Girl was not lightly frightened in her heart, she still did not agree to go home with Dong Xunhuan.
The couple was still entangled, but the police came to the door.
It turned out that Zhang Wufeng was deeply in love and shallow, because the injury was too serious, and the rescue was ineffective and died. Dong Xunhuan was criminally detained on suspicion of intentional homicide. After investigation, the official determined that although Miss Murong and Dong Xunhuan in this case did not belong to the statutory marriage circumstances in the Marriage Law, they were found to be de facto marriages according to local customs and actual living conditions. Miss Murong proposed to break up but Dong Xunhuan did not agree, and during the conflict between the two, Miss Murong met Zhang Wufeng, who became friends with miss Murong Without knowing miss Murong's family situation, and was stabbed to death by Dong Xunhuan after being bumped into by her.
Dong Xunhuan failed to properly handle family conflicts, and deliberately injured the body of others, resulting in the death of one person, although the confession attitude after arriving at the case was better, but the consequences were very serious after all, after comprehensive consideration of the circumstances of the case, the court sentenced him to life imprisonment for committing intentional injury in the first instance; and also needed to compensate Zhang Wufeng's family for economic losses of more than 47,000 yuan.
Objectively speaking, in this case, miss Murong and Dong Xunhuan's actions were inappropriate, which together caused the occurrence of criminal consequences. Miss Murong's association with other men without being completely separated from Dong Xunhuan actually greatly intensified the existing marital conflict, and Dong Xunhuan's extreme approach to solving the problem was the main reason for the crime to lead to the tragedy.
Both set a bad example of their attitude toward marriage, but in the end it was their common innocent children who suffered. If there is really no feeling and cannot continue to live together, then the attitude is clear, good consultation and separation, disconnection or other intolerable deviant behavior in marriage are not a good way to resolve contradictions, and the longer the time lags in disputes involving feelings, the more sudden violent incidents will occur. For example, this case leaves us with too much deep thinking.