The shortcomings in the child are not terrible, the terrible thing is that the parents who are the leaders of the child's life lack the correct concept of tutoring and the method of teaching children.
—Jenny Erim
Family education occupies an increasingly important position in early childhood education, and the importance of family education to children is also attracting more and more attention from preschool educators.
During the winter vacation, the kindergarten teacher has 10 words to say to the parents:
NO.1
Family is an important factor affecting children's growth
Family factors can greatly affect the growth of children. If there is a problem with family education, the child may have a hard time in the kindergarten, and the child is likely to become a "problem child" in the kindergarten.
Parents are the child's first teacher, the child's language learning, ideological attitude, behavior, good habits are all influenced and infected by the parents, and its influence is very large.
Therefore, doing a good job in family education is extremely important for the healthy growth of children's physical and mental health.
NO.2
Be a parent who leads by example
Parents are the initiation teachers of children, and children are the lifelong teaching materials for parents.
Parents leading by example can set a good example for their children and are the most convincing education. If parents do not know how to live, do not know how to treat others well, and even do not know how to treat their children well. Well, it is difficult for him to raise good children.
Education is no small matter, and everything is the truth. Parents' speech, behavior, style of thought, behavior habits, and handling of people affect children all the time. Parents should always teach by example, be a role model for others, and take the lead in setting an example.
NO.3
The relationship between husband and wife affects the character of the child
Parents love each other, and the child has a healthy and cheerful personality.
A family with a harmonious relationship between husband and wife can give the child a good family environment, and the personality of such children will be more peaceful, cheerful, not easy to move, because the parents have a good relationship, the child will also have a good feeling and yearning for marriage.
Couples usually blame each other, and living in such a family environment can seriously affect the way children behave in the world. Especially when the husband and wife have an argument, saying that the other party is not to the child, resulting in the child will not respect the parents in the future, and the child will become more and more sensitive, insecure, very stubborn, and obstinate.
NO.4
Knowing the rules is the beginning of parenting
"Those who cultivate people must first educate themselves, and those who establish themselves can establish others", the best education always occurs in the family. Tolerance and love are important in homeschooling, but rules and constraints are equally important.
Consciously cultivate children's sense of rules and social courtesy from an early age, so that children have a certain upbringing, so that children can get along more well with teachers and classmates in school.
Let your child become a cultured person, and the education begins with punctuality, queuing, not making loud noises in public, and not getting angry easily.
NO.5
Children's homestead habits are consistent
If you allow your child to throw toys everywhere at home, which is not allowed in kindergarten, then the child will feel overwhelmed and the good habits developed in kindergarten will be disrupted.
Good habits are jointly shaped through family education and kindergarten education, and home synchronization can consolidate good behavior habits and achieve the common goal of home co-education.
NO.6
"Standing at the age of three"
3-year-olds should start learning to eat on their own and develop good eating habits. Exercise your child's own things, such as getting on and off clothes, brushing teeth and washing face, urinating and defecating, and cleaning up toys.
It is necessary to let young children fully experience success and failure, have a certain ability to resist setbacks, and ensure that children have the consciousness to develop good habits.
NO.7
Do three things with your child often
One is to eat with your child.
The second is to invite children to organize toys, furniture or clothes together.
The third is to tell stories to children and invite children to tell stories themselves.
NO.8
Leave a little secret to the child
Everyone has their own little secrets, and kids are no exception. Children can realize the "self" from the age of 3, and will find that there are some things that are exclusive to them, so the secret gradually sprouts.
Parents should not intervene in the child's spiritual world because of worry, but should give the child the space to think independently. When the child has a little secret and is not willing to share it with the parents and the parents, the parents should take the initiative to talk to the child.
When children take the initiative to share secrets and ask you to keep them secret, parents should really keep their promises, and even make commitments in the form of "pulling hooks" with their children. Formal promises are more likely to win the trust of children.
NO.9
Guide your child to make the right friends
The child's growth needs peers, let the child have his own friends, and be wary of the child's bad habits of contaminating the companion before the child has formed mature rationality and judgment.
A child's freedom of friendship is a respect for the child, but not all friends will become the positive energy for his growth. Be a parent who knows how to respect his children, be a silent supervisor and guardian, and protect and guide children how to make friends with a gesture of reducing interference.
In interpersonal relationships, guide children to learn to share, listen, cooperate, express, keep promises, tolerate and love, so that children gradually establish correct values and concepts of choosing friends.
NO.10
Send your child into the kindergarten at the end of the holiday to smile and say goodbye
After the winter vacation, when sending the child to the kindergarten, I think of not seeing the child all day, and when I say goodbye to the child, the parents' feelings are very complicated, but don't let the child know this?
If you act sad when you're leaving, your child will act even more upset, and in this case they'll be more reluctant to be separated from you. Give your child a warm smile, and then give your child a big hug to fill your child with a good mood for a day!
epilogue
The words that kindergarten teachers want to tell parents are far more than this, parents should trust the kindergarten, communicate with teachers frequently, help children develop good habits, and jointly promote children's growth!
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