"Mom, I'm going home, I don't want to go to school." Every time school starts, it's like a history of a big disaster. The children in the kindergarten will cry and argue.
Parents look in the eyes, the pain is in the heart, but the child always wants to leave the arms of the parents. Go to kindergarten alone to socialize with other children and learn new knowledge and skills. Therefore, even if parents are reluctant to do so, they must let their children's stomachs adapt to school life.
But the expression of the child crying a handful of snot and a handful of tears is really unbearable for parents, but in fact, not all children are so inseparable from their parents. A kindergarten director said bluntly, in fact, the child just came to the kindergarten to cry or not? The key is how parents educate. Those children who come to kindergarten without crying usually come from the following three kinds of families.
First, families that teach their children prematurely in advance
Some parents will educate their children in advance in order to adapt their children to school life as soon as possible, on the one hand, in order to be able to give their children some knowledge and skills as soon as possible, on the other hand, to expose their children to more future campus life, to be able to adapt to school learning and activities as soon as possible, and to cultivate their ability to adapt to the new environment.
Indeed, parental preventive measures will leave enough psychological preparation for children, so that children will not be helpless in an unfamiliar environment, and with the parents' advance arrangements, children can naturally solve problems and problems when they encounter them.
Therefore, when the child first steps into the kindergarten, he actually has enough psychological preparation for the problems he will face during the kindergarten and his emotions. When this emotion occurs again, the child can also adjust himself in time to maintain emotional stability.
Second, the family that cultivates the child's ability to be independent
Many intelligent parents pay special attention to cultivating their children's independent ability when educating their children. Whether the child can do it well or find it difficult, parents will try their best to create an environment for their children to show their own space.
Because these parents know that they will not be with their children forever. The growth and mature thinking mode that brings children to their minds is the wealth of a child's life.
Therefore, in ordinary life, whether it is a big thing or a small thing, children can face the problem with a positive attitude, optimistically, and try to find a way to solve it, rather than blindly crying. Therefore, even in a new unfamiliar environment, children can quickly adjust their state and will not be too dependent on their parents like other children.
Third, families with good character
In addition to educating children in their thoughts and behaviors, there are also family-educated children who will not cry in kindergartens, and such families are families with good character and politeness. The educational philosophy of these families is to try not to bring trouble to others.
Therefore, under the education and companionship of parents, such children can grow into more confident and considerate children, they will not lose their temper when they encounter problems, but through the education they receive, they will perfectly shape their personality, quickly adapt to unfamiliar environments, not only can they solve the problems they encounter, but also bring help to other children.
Whether the child cries or not when he goes to the kindergarten, it can be seen that the parents' preparatory homework should be complete. Did your child cry all the time when they first went to kindergarten? Parents are welcome to leave a message in the comment area.
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