Parenting experience knows that every time they take their younger children out, they may not react much when they see strangers, but when they see someone, they cry loudly, and my daughter is like this.
When she was about 4 months old, I took her to the neighbor's house to visit the door, when the neighbor's grandmother happened to be sitting in the doorway, and our daughter cried loudly in the arms of the front, in order to avoid embarrassment, I quickly explained to the old man and carried my daughter home.
Unable to see the neighbor's grandmother, the daughter no longer cried, but was well-behaved and obedient. On other occasions, she was like this, and whenever she saw the neighbor's grandmother, she would be terrified, followed by a lot of crying.
So I told my grandmother about it, and she told me that there was a superstition in the folklore that children who could not speak would see things that adults could not see. I was surprised, but also curious, and began to flip through the materials for the purpose of not believing it.
Unexpectedly, there are certain reasons why the baby will suddenly cry when he sees someone, and there are many special points, perhaps the older generation does not know, but as parents we must understand.
The perspective of a baby before 3 months
A few days after your baby was born, what do you think he will see? Whether it's a relative who often comes to visit, a light in the room, or a smirking dad, these babies can't actually see.
Only when the mother is breastfeeding, 20 to 25 centimeters away from his eyes, he can see clearly, if you give him a toy, or give him a baby book, he simply ignores, the eyes are confused, dodgy, and even a little impatient.
So what does the baby like to watch at this time?
If the father accidentally gets in front of the baby, he may be very interested, because there are experiments that have shown that the newborn baby will be particularly fond of more three-dimensional contours and angular things.
The male face is exactly in line with these characteristics, and they also like to look at black and white things, such as: chessboard, bullseye, etc., of course, the reason why babies in this period will cry when they see some people, it is likely that these groups are elderly.
Because from the baby's visual point of view, the face of the elderly, the facial features are not three-dimensional and not very smooth, the above is full of wrinkles, the baby sees almost all the distorted contours, so it will cry in horror.
The baby's perspective after 4 months
With the continuous growth of the age, the baby's vision will slowly develop, compared to before they have made great progress, at this time the baby can see more and more clear objects, more and more likes.
But they will also cry when they see some people, such as: when my daughter was 6 months old, the neighbor Aunt Li came to visit my house, and my daughter was very happy to see her, and she reached out to hug her, but after a few days, Aunt Li came again, and the child was scared to cry.
It wasn't until later that I understood that the reason why the baby had such a contrasting behavior was that Aunt Li wore particularly bright and beautiful clothes when she came for the first time, but black clothes when she came later.
So after 4 months, the baby is particularly interested in color, especially bright colors, they will be more secure, if some people wear very dark, the baby may cry after seeing it.
What else can make a baby cry when he sees someone crying?
Of course, in addition to the above factors, there is also a big reason is the psychological aspect, to know that the baby has just come to this world, can give them enough security is basically close to his family.
If it is a particularly strange and uncommon ordinary person, the baby may be very rejected, and the heart is full of anxiety is also a reason why the baby cries, especially when they are held by strangers, they will be more afraid.
Therefore, parents with babies at home should pay attention to no more superstitious ideas, but should stand in the child's position to look at the problem, and should adapt to the rhythm of the baby.
Especially when he finds that he sees strangers crying, he must try to soothe his emotions as much as possible, and do not let the negligence of his parents bring a serious lack of inner security to the child.