Hosted by Tencent News and Tencent Parenting, the 2021 Tencent Smart Parenting Annual Ceremony was successfully held in Beijing on January 11, bringing together experts and scholars in the field of parenting, maternal and infant big V, industry associations and institutional representatives, with the theme of "Journey to the Future, All the Way to Children", to analyze and discuss the current parenting environment, children's education hotspots and maternal and infant trends, and to seek valuable and innovative parenting concepts for the healthy development of mothers and babies.
Wang Weiguo, chairman of the China Next Generation Education Foundation, as the first speaker of the grand ceremony, put forward three views on "raising babies and healthy growth according to law": the first is to establish a family concept in the new era; the second is to construct a future-oriented concept of children's growth and cultivate new people of the times who are responsible for national rejuvenation; the third is to practice a scientific concept of family education to help children grow up happily. The characteristic that distinguishes family education from school education is that it is the cultivation of people's hearts, the education of the soul, and the project of casting the soul.
Wang Weiguo pointed out that the Family Education Promotion Law clarifies the legal requirements for raising children according to law, clarifies the status and role of family education, and clarifies the main responsibility of the family, the responsibility of school guidance and social support for the implementation of family education. Taking family education as an important content of family construction, as an important part of national education, and as an important task of grass-roots social education, it is necessary to achieve unity and synchronization, all-round staff, and solidly anchor the goal of promoting the healthy growth and all-round development of children at the base point of the family and implement it on the starting line of life.
Wang Weiguo, Chairman of The China Next Generation Education Foundation
Lu Qin, a well-known family education expert and chief education expert of China Children's Press and Publication Corporation, shared the five incorrect loves of many parents for their children with the theme of "The Trap of Companionship - Five Kinds of Love is Harmful". "Coddling" makes children become ruthless; "for love" makes children become incompetent; "scolding love" makes children become inferior; "hegemonic love" makes children full of hatred; "begging" makes children become undignified. Families need temperature, children need companionship, but companionship without temperature will fall into a trap.
Lu Qin, a well-known family education expert and chief education expert of China Children's Press and Publication Corporation
Parenting Gang founder, Forbes China's top ten mother and baby parent-child KOL Sunny Day Mother, parenting best-selling author, "Big J small D" founder Big J, pediatrician, "Parenting Classic" author Shrimp Mi Mommy, Little Red Sister Delivery Story founder Zhong Hushun discussed the topic of "promoting the three-child policy, how to conceive scientifically".
Talking about the process of parenting, Sunny Day Mom said, "The relationship and perspective of the whole family parenting need to change, and the child and everyone in the family as their partners will become stronger and stronger about the mother's psychological state, including the knowledge gained." Speaking of life perception, Teacher J proposed that "the first childbearing is instinct, and parenting is responsibility." "Therefore, when parents decide to have children, they must be clear about their future responsibilities and pay for their own choices, rather than blindly making choices without a way out."
As a professional pediatrician, She said that many parents hope to raise their children through some external forces or foreign objects, rather than pinning all their hopes on the outside world, it is better to turn to themselves and return to the original intention of their parents. Zhong Hushun called on men to "if you want to know life, it is best to go to the delivery room with your wife." "Fathers who experience the hardships of childbirth in the delivery room can more deeply understand the greatness of life and the greatness of love."
From left: Founder of Parenting Gang, Forbes China Top Ten Mother and Baby Parent-Child KOL Sunny Day Mom, Parenting Bestseller Author, Founder of "Big J Small D", Big J, Pediatrician, Author of "Parenting Canon" Shrimp Mi Mommy, Little Red Sister Delivery Room Story Founder Zhong Hushun
Kevin Xu, a doctor of clinical psychology and a psychiatrist, with the theme of "Parents Are Happy, Children Are Healthy - How to Reduce Stress for Children in the Era of Double Reduction", explained that the root cause of children's psychological health lies in the fact that parents are too unhappy and too anxious, and parents can't see what their children really want. The "double reduction policy" objectively reduces a lot of pressure for children, but parents are still in anxiety.
The more "hollow" the child, the less grateful, filial piety, and sense of responsibility he has. This is an era that needs the return of values, the era of Lide tree people, when education returns to Lide tree people, it is not necessarily the students of the highest school to be cultivated, but it can educate a happy and happy child, which is the real meaning of family education and school education.
Doctor of Clinical Psychology, Psychiatrist Kevin Xu
Sun Yunxiao, vice president of the China Family Education Society, Chen Zhiwen, editor-in-chief of China Education Online, and Chu Yin, vice president of the Digital Economy Think Tank, were guests at the roundtable forum to "Lean over and listen, how to become a qualified parent?" The theme revolves around the clarification of parents' responsibilities and the main points and methods of family education.
From left: Moderator Tian Yinnan, Vice President of China Family Education Society Sun Yunxiao, Editor-in-Chief of China Education Online Chen Zhiwen, Vice President of Digital Economy Think Tank Chu Yin
Sun Yunxiao proposed that the "Family Education Promotion Law" clarifies the main responsibility of parents and other guardians and the first responsible person for family education, not only that, the Family Education Promotion Law is a textbook law, which makes an answer to what family education is. Family education is summarized into five main points, moral character, physical fitness, life skills, cultural accomplishment and good habits. Chen Zhiwen pointed out that instead of desperately choosing a school, it is better to lead by example and be a good parent, and it is the parents who determine the future of the child, rather than relying only on the famous teachers of famous schools.
Chu Yin believes that parents teach their children to pay close attention and intervene cautiously, and children will find the laws of the world on their own, and this process of searching is the process of their mental growth. Huang Zheng, President of Bruke Education and Specially Invited Researcher of Intelligent Education Research Center of Zhejiang University, Yan Rongxia, founder of Huidaiwa, and Yang Xiao, Vice President of Weibo Education Research Institute, discussed the theme of "Looking Forward to the 5G Era, Trends and Challenges of Children's Education Industry".
From left: Moderator Tian Yinnan, President of Bruker Education and Invited Researcher of Intelligent Education Research Center of Zhejiang University Huang Zheng, Founder of Huidaiwa Yan Rongxia, Vice President of Zhibu Education Research Institute Yang Xiao
In the context of the 5G era, Huang Zheng said that according to social trends, children need not only knowledge training, but also thinking training, and emphasize three easy in the creation of the entire education product, that is, children's eBay, teachers and effects. Yan Rongxia believes that in terms of science and technology, no matter what kind of technology should be based on good education products and education systems, we must actively embrace science and technology, and use scientific and technological means to improve teaching quality and operational efficiency. Yang Xiao pointed out that children's teaching products should establish links between methods, paths, resources and parents to empower technology into a standardized teaching environment.
The confrontation of cutting-edge views and the bloom of innovative ideas are the main themes of the 2021 TWP Tencent Smart Parenting Annual Ceremony. Looking back on the magnificent year of 2021, full of changes and challenges, in this extraordinary year, many excellent industry forces that adhere to their functions and maintain their original intentions have been born. The ceremony pays tribute to the exemplary power of the parenting industry that has been working hard at the forefront of the childcare industry, promoting the development of the industry in good order, and contributing to the parenting motto for Chinese families. Facing the future, TWP Tencent Smart Parenting will continue to bring parenting power to Chinese parents with high-quality parenting content as the engine.