Wang Weiguo, Chairman of the China Next Generation Education Foundation: Nurturing babies and growing up healthily according to law

Hosted by Tencent News and Tencent Parenting, the 2021 TWP Tencent Smart Parenting Annual Ceremony was successfully held in Beijing on January 11, bringing together experts and scholars in the field of parenting, maternal and infant big V, industry associations and institutional representatives to "go to the future· As the theme, it analyzes and discusses the current parenting environment, children's education hotspots and maternal and infant trends, and seeks valuable and innovative parenting concepts in order to achieve the healthy development of mothers and babies. Wang Weiguo, Chairman of the China Next Generation Education Foundation, as the first speaker of the grand ceremony, delivered a keynote speech entitled "Raising Babies according to Law and Healthy Growth".

Wang Weiguo, Chairman of The China Next Generation Education Foundation

The following is a transcript of the scene:

At such a moment when the "Family Education Promotion Law" was officially implemented, Tencent News, Tencent Parenting held the Tencent Wisdom Parenting Annual Ceremony with the theme of "Journey to the Future" here, which is of great significance for promoting the high-quality development of family education and leading the new trend of scientific parenting for the majority of parents. Children are the future of the country, the hope of the nation, and the happiness of our hundreds of millions of families, there are more than 250 million children aged 00-14 in our country, there are nearly 500 million families. Promoting the healthy growth of children, implementing scientific family education, and cultivating new people of the times with lofty aspirations are the inevitable requirements for building a socialist modern power. The great significance of the promulgation and implementation of the Family Education Promotion Law this time is to elevate family education and traditionally believed family affairs to state affairs, and to make it clear that it is an important responsibility of the family to cultivate socialist builders and successors for the all-round development of morality, intellectuality, physical fitness, beauty, and labor. With this as a sign, family parenting has a legal basis.

I really appreciate the concept I just mentioned called "Defining the Power of Parenting in the New Era", so here I would like to share four points with you.

First, it is necessary to establish a family outlook in the new era and form a vivid situation of happiness and well-being of the family. From the perspective of family education, the core point of understanding the family concept in the new era is to sublimate the patriotic feelings of patriotism and love for the family in four aspects, guide children to establish the ideal of synchronizing the family and the country through the subtlety of parents, have the ambition of being loyal to the country, and be a good son of the Chinese nation; we must build a family relationship of mutual affection and love, and through the parents' taking the lead in setting an example, guide children to cultivate and release love, love with elders, peers, and share happiness with family members; we must carry forward the family virtues of upward goodness. Guide children through parents' physical practice, uphold good tutoring, inherit good family style, so that the traditional family virtues of the Chinese nation are endless and passed on from generation to generation; it is necessary to reflect the pursuit of co-construction and sharing of the family, and through the words and deeds of parents, guide children to be virtuous and good, and work with family members to build a shared and harmonious family.

Second, it is necessary to construct a future-oriented concept of children's growth and cultivate new people of the times who will shoulder the great responsibility of national rejuvenation. What are the hallmarks of healthy growth for children? My understanding is to empower our children with a healthy mind, a healthy body, a healthy spirit, and a healthy body. In the final analysis, it is to develop morally, intellectually, physically, and beautifully, and to hope that the child will become a dragon and the daughter into a phoenix is a common saying of ours, but it expresses the wishes of all families and parents, and in all fairness, I think we should not simply interpret or detract from the will of the people that exists in this universality.

What should we do as family educators, as child workers? What we should do is to guide parents to correctly recognize and understand what a dragon is. What is a phoenix? How do I cultivate dragons? How to cultivate phoenix? Pampered and over-spoiled, in the greenhouse can not cultivate dragons and phoenixes, to promote children's mental health, physical strength, comprehensive ability, good deeds in the wind and rain and experience, to create the next generation to become healthy development of people, become useful to the family, to the society, to the country.

Therefore, we must vigorously advocate the all-round development of children's growth concept, based on the progress of the country and the nation, to conform to the objective law of children's healthy growth, to lead the pace of development of children to climb the peak, and to cast the chinese nation in the new era with the brilliant life of hundreds of millions of children.

Third, we must practice the scientific concept of family education and help children grow up happily. Family education is different from school education, and the characteristic of school education is that it is the cultivation of people's hearts, the education of the soul, and the project of casting the soul. The Family Education Promotion Law clarifies the legal requirements for raising children in accordance with the law, clarifies the status and role of family education, and clarifies the main responsibility of the family, the responsibility of school guidance, and the responsibility of social support for the implementation of family education. The Chinese nation has the traditional virtue of attaching importance to family education, and we talk about the mother-in-law's embroidery, the three migrations of Mengmu, and the painting of Ogi godsons, which provides us with a model of family education that has been passed down from generation to generation. The construction of a scientific family education concept in the new era is to take the moral tree as the first priority; to build the family into the first classroom of life; to let parents be the first teacher of their children's lives; and to help children tie the first buttons of life. These four definitions are the functional positioning and mission of family education in the new era.

Fourth, to cultivate good ideas, parents need to use good ideas to lead their children's lives. The great love of loving the party, the country, the people, and socialism is rooted in the hearts of children. Educating children to study diligently, practice will, strengthen their physique, love labor, and cultivate good conduct is to speed up the use of correct thoughts and actions to educate children to appreciate the truth, goodness and beauty, stay away from false and ugly, and advocate new trends. Cultivating good habits is to require parents to use their own good words and deeds to guide their children to love society, love nature, love others, love family, and love life. To implement scientific family education is to stick to the principle and not to replace school education or to overstep social education.

Mr. Zhu Yongxin, a famous educator, provided us with tips and secrets for family science parenting. It is to accompany often, no matter how busy our parents are, we must take a little time to accompany the child every day, and understand the child's mood through companionship. Every parent should be a caring person for the child, do not be a stranger to the child, read together, let reading become a channel for parents to learn and grow together with their children, and become an indispensable content and way for children's family life.

Learn to be respectful and create a friendly family environment for children. In the 14th Five-Year Plan, the state is limited to building child-friendly cities among 100 cities, and I believe that the key to building a child-friendly city is to build a child-friendly family, establish an equal and harmonious parent-child relationship in the family, respect the child's personality, understand the child's wishes, and use more appreciation and motivation to implement family education.

Be fully trusted. As parents, we must believe in the development potential of children infinitely, be good at finding children's shining points, and help children become the best of themselves. It is necessary to open up space for children's development in the family field, build a stage, create opportunities, and help our children build self-confidence, find themselves, and achieve themselves.

Being a parent, this is the natural mission of mankind, but to be a qualified parent must have the basic literacy of implementing scientific family education, we must continue to spare no effort to vigorously advocate excellent education, eugenics, to choose the most beautiful parents, with the power of example to establish a scientific concept of family education, to develop scientific family education practice, to educate children to learn to learn, to learn to be a person, to learn to do things, to learn to get along, and to focus on cultivating happy children, complete children and children with achievements.

The fourth point I share with you is to establish a family education mechanism for collaborative education and gather the power of parenting in the new era. The implementation of family education is a systematic project, the construction and improvement of the family education mechanism of home, school, and society, and the collaborative education of people, the implementation of the "Family Education Promotion Law", the strengthening of the responsibility of all parties in family education, the standardization of family education behavior, so that family education on the track of legal development.

It is necessary to accurately grasp the new needs of family construction in the new stage, the new expectations of parents for the implementation of scientific family education, and the new expectations of children for receiving good family education. At present, it is particularly necessary to focus on and pay great attention to the mental health education of children. At present, mental health problems have become a major problem that cannot be ignored in the healthy development of children, and psychological unhealthiness to varying degrees has become an important factor that cannot be ignored that interferes with the healthy development and all-round development of children.

There is a popular saying in society, afraid of suffering, can not bear hardship; afraid of tired, can not be tired; afraid of shame, can not criticize. But now the child

The Son has one who is not afraid, that is, he is not afraid of death. With a little grievance, a little frustration, he will die "bravely" to show you. This is the disregard for life, the neglect of life, and the lack of education.

It is necessary to pay attention to the education of scientific diet, small fat mounds, small sugar people, and small hypertension patients who sink in age; we must also pay attention to the safety education of the environment. Before I retired as a cadre of the Women and Children's Committee of the State Council, there were no accidents in the injuries of children, all the injury factors of children, the recipients of injuries are preventable, educatable and predictable; we must also pay attention to the education of human relations, and our children now do not know how to get along, will not get along, and cannot get along. We must strengthen the overall planning of the new three teachings of family education, school education, and social education, so as to promote the reform and innovation of family education.

Family education as an important part of family construction, as an important part of national education, as an important task of grass-roots social education, we must achieve the same heart and direction, the whole process of all-round, solid to promote the healthy growth of children, the goal of comprehensive development of education anchored in the family base point, implemented in the starting line of life, thank you.