What are the characteristics of the early childhood of "smart children"?
In early childhood, some of the little ones can skillfully express their thoughts in language very early; some have super memory; some children are thoughtful and have efficient action; some children have flexible minds, strong adaptability, etc., showing a variety of extraordinary abilities.
What are the characteristics of "smart" children? Is there a correlation between parenting habits of parents?
Most of the children who are evaluated as "smart" are in early childhood, "tolerated by their parents to contact each other more", "have the opportunity to do and talk freely", and "have more communication between parents and children". These babies seem to be in early childhood, and both parents share common parenting habits and tendencies to promote their children's development.
Parents of smart children share common parenting habits and are characterized by tendencies that promote their children's development
1． Children are able to receive encouragement and affirmation from their parents
Children who are considered very smart in early childhood are often treated with tolerance by their parents in the family from an early age. You'll always hear, "You're so good!" Words like "It's okay", "You're doing a great job" affirmations and motivational words.
The educational effect achieved by parental praise and encouragement is far greater than the guidance of criticism
Often children in early childhood are lively and active, and they will always create "trouble" one after another, or from time to time there will be unexpected things happening. Parents often shout at their children, "Tell you not to do this!" "Hurry up and do it!" "How many times do you have to remember!" This happens frequently. In addition, parents always feel that time is very tight during parenting, and it is easy to ignore the achievements made by their children, so they cannot give their children timely praise and recognition.
In fact, rather than his parents forbade him to do certain behaviors, words of encouragement from his parents will be more effective. Parental recognition and praise will make children full of self-confidence and become able to take the initiative to think about how to do things better.
2. Parents should let their children think independently and learn to be self-reliant
If you ask the parents of smart children, how do you raise your children? They all replied in common, "I didn't do anything special, I just tried to let the child do things by himself, even if it failed, it didn't matter, encourage him to let him do it." "In the process of children's growth, failure is a process that children must go through in their growth, and only through the experience of multiple failures will they grow."
Let the little one not rely too much on the "parents" and learn to experience the joy of "doing it yourself",
Between many parents and young children, the most common word is to let the child maintain "endurance". Parents always want to do things for their children, and they also want their children to do things according to their parents' ideas. Therefore, it will lead to the child's negative personality and too depressed, and dare not say in words and deeds. These are all because of the accumulation of children's continuous "patience"!
3. There is more communication and exchange between parents and children
Parents need to pay great physical strength, endurance and energy in the daily life of raising their children to get along with them. Importantly, babies are raised by "listening, seeing, and imitating" the way their parents speak and behave. With amazing absorption ability, they will learn and master their parents' personalities, speaking styles and languages. Many studies have shown that communication and language communication between children and their parents is a huge learning opportunity. Parents have a lot of communication and exchanges with their children in early childhood, and they can have a good parent-child communication method, just like a valuable gift from parents to their children in the future.
Listen more to your baby's "talk" and be more sure. Let your baby know that his parents are the most trustworthy people. Helps improve language expression and communication skills
Parents need to treat their children calmly and "patiently"
Depending on the values, the criteria and terms that may describe "smart" vary. However, parents all over the world hope that their children will become a common desire to "play their own strengths and smoothly enter a better life". Therefore, parents can patiently listen to the baby from a young age, let him freely express and do what he likes, and constantly communicate and communicate with him.
Children who are treated like this by their parents in early childhood are like the wings that their parents have inserted to realize their dreams, and when they grow up, they will surely soar freely like eagles, to chase their dreams and succeed in their dreams!