Through short contact, to learn more about the content, the innermost content, this is a test of a person's ability and wisdom, as well as a grasp of details. If during a relationship between a man and a woman, both partners will try to cover up their shortcomings, then this is especially true when they are on a blind date.
Through deliberate obedience and deliberate disguise, to disguise the original appearance and real desires, in order to arouse the imagination of the other party and gain the other party's favor.
But these things, after all, are disguised, cannot withstand the scrutiny of time, and are very easy to affect people's judgment and choice.
Therefore, we must also learn to capture the innermost content and the deepest content of the other party in the details, so as to grasp the true face and true color of the other party in order to make a relatively correct choice. Completely attracted by the beauty of disguise, the pain is self-inflicted.
Teach girls: how to understand the blind date and judge whether the real fit is appropriate!
1, a boy loves not to love clean, look at the details.
Details are often places that people can't pay attention to, and because of this, the real content is exposed. Go out to wash your hair, get a hairstyle, change clothes, this does not represent anything, and even scruffy boys will pay attention to their own image, after all, this is a blind date, need to show their charm.
The most directly exposed places, the most easily noticed places, he will certainly pay attention to and modify them, and only inconspicuous places are the real content of his life.
For example, look at his shoes, nails, pants cuffs, and so on. Shoes, in particular, can also represent his taste.
A boy who really loves cleanliness, especially can pay attention to details, that is, really diligent, simple, clean life content, pay attention to the quality of life, in fact, the real quality of life, is to use the details to pile up, not perfunctory themselves.
2, too much sales of their boys, often unreliable.
Selling yourself, this is understandable, but also the desire of people to show, but too much sales of themselves, may be insufficient confidence, strength is not enough. Just as the so-called more a person shows off something, the more he lacks something, because he does not have it, he must sell himself too much and cover up his missing parts.
For example, I always mention some of my achievements in the past years, and who I know, how powerful and capable.
In fact, this kind of boy is also a very good face, often put himself in the first place, and often has an inhuman desire to control in his feelings. High-profile, means arrogant, arrogant, means vanity, and vanity most likely means that he is flowery and only interested in women with posture.
If you can maintain a humble posture, it is possible to prove that he has connotations, is responsible for emotional loyalty, and is willing to explore deep content.
3. The attitude towards outsiders exposes his true character.
For example, in the face of the old, weak, sick and disabled, they always show a look of superiority and superiority, but when they see the magnates and nod their heads, it is very likely that they are people who bully the soft and fear the hard. This kind of person has no empathy, no pity for his partner, and may be fine when he is good to you, but when he is not good for you, it is also very bad.
That is, whether he is good or bad does not depend on the love for you, only on his own emotions.
There is a very interesting saying, saying: "The attitude of men to waiters before marriage is the attitude towards you after marriage." "It actually makes sense, the respect and tenderness towards you at the moment, just because I haven't gotten you yet.
So when a woman looks for a marriage partner, most women value whether he loves himself or not, to be honest, more important than whether he loves you or not, whether he is a person who has love in his heart.
4, a simple meal, can also help you recognize him.
Mainly to see if he is very selfish. For example, when ordering food at dinner, he completely ignores you, does not consider your tastes and habits, he likes to eat spicy, he orders a table of spicy meals, and does not ask your opinion at all, indicating that he is selfish and strong.
For a selfish person, he only has himself in his eyes, does not consider the feelings of others, and always defends his own views when chatting, which is inconsistent with his own ideas and views, which are all wrong.
At the same time, there is no responsibility, good at evading responsibility, facing failure will only find objective reasons, and will never be aware of their own problems.
Strong also includes domineering, even if it is a matter of two people, he is always habitually making up his own mind, and he is always very harsh on his partner.
5, through the figure, look at the degree of restraint on himself.
Although it cannot be generalized, under normal circumstances, through his stature, he can basically infer his real life rules and habits. For example, those who are too obese are often lacking in self-control, not enough restraint on themselves, and not enough self-discipline, which leads to the situation.
This is enough to show that he is a person who does not have high requirements for himself, always indulges all kinds of desires, likes to eat and drink, and cannot control his mouth.
This matter can be big or small, and if it is more serious, it means that it is easy to indulge yourself and do things completely according to your own preferences and desires. It also includes the lack of certain management of their own emotions, as long as the temper comes up, they will ignore it.
In fact, there is a saying that goes well: "As long as you have enough experience, people can look good." Character is written on the face; character is carved in the eyes. Lifestyle manifests itself in stature; emotional ups and downs are revealed in voice. Tutors look at standing posture; taste looks at shoes. Throw or don't throw in, eat a meal and you will know! ”
This is really the case, so you must be able to see the essence through the appearance of things, ensure that your thinking, do not be deceived by the beauty of disguise.
Your feelings, sometimes also deceive people, don't believe your feelings and eyes too much, because you can easily enlarge and beautify in your imagination according to a certain beautiful feature of the other party.
Of course, the words and demeanor are frivolous, these are the most direct exposures, and they are not in tune or mature. But what is maturity, not smooth or will come, but the temperament and richness cultivated in the years, can accept the broken parts of life.
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