Ending song: Trouble Song - Jacky Cheung
In 2019, Caltech published a scientific study in the journal eNeuro that showed that the human brain not only senses magnetic fields, but also responds to them.
Remember the words of Rhonda Byrne in The Force:
"Everyone has a magnetic field around them, and no matter where you are, the magnetic field follows you, and your magnetic field attracts people and things with the same magnetic field."
In other words: everything you encounter, good or bad, is actually attracted to your magnetic field.
The people and things you hate come because of your negative energy
In the book Murphy's Law, there is such a story.
One day, a wealthy lady went to a jewelry store to pick out jewelry.
Just as she was picking the option chain, a man next to her accidentally stepped on her.
Without waiting for the other party to react, she yelled at the other party.
The man saw her angry and quickly said sorry.
But she did not appreciate it at all, and after scolding the other party, she slammed the door in anger.
On the way home, the lady encountered a traffic jam again, and she was already upset, and she was even more manic at the moment.
As she honked her horn wildly, she stuck her head out of the window and yelled at the front: "Will you drive at all?" ”
The traffic slowly moved forward, and in the midst of the noise, she finally drove out of the congested section.
At the next intersection, she encountered a large truck, and just as she was about to honk her horn to remind the other party to give way, the truck took the initiative to slow down and stopped.
The truck driver held out his head and smiled at her, motioning for her to pass first.
For some reason, the unhappiness in her stomach disappeared in an instant.
When she returned home, she found that her husband, who had thought she was lazy and lazy, had already made dinner; the child, who had always tossed the house into a mess, was sitting on the sofa quietly playing with toys.
In the past, when she came home from work, she looked at her husband and children and was angry, but now she found that the original family could be so happy and warm.
After changing from a state of complaint to a state of happiness, everything around her has slowly changed unconsciously.
When she complained, her world was a gray mass, and she stood in the center of that gray circle, constantly emitting resentment around her.
But when she was in a happy mood, the world she saw in her eyes turned out to be colored.
I've heard the saying that the more you're filled with negative energy, the easier it is to attract garbage people.
If a person always complains, he is full of hostility towards his surroundings.
The negative energy magnetic field around him will attract more and more emotional garbage, and eventually converge into an emotional black hole, which will attract more people with negative energy.
Everything you encounter comes with your magnetic field
A psychologist once did an experiment.
They placed two orangutans in two rooms full of mirrors.
The first orangutan, docile and lively.
As soon as it entered the room, it saw that there were many "companions" inside, and it greeted them, and those "companions" also responded to it.
It didn't take long for it to play with the "companion" in the mirror, and the atmosphere was pleasant.
The second orangutan, with a pessimistic personality, is dead.
As soon as it entered the room, it saw that the "same kind" in the mirror were all shrugging their faces, exuding an air of frustration.
It bowed its head and walked toward a corner, then crouched there every day, looking at the other "companions" who were also hiding in the corner, shaking its head and sighing.
Three days later, the experimenters went to check the status of the two orangutans.
When the first orangutan walked out of the room, he was still in love with its "partners";
The second orangutan, however, was too depressed, mentally apathetic, and dying.
At the end of the experiment, the researchers said:
"People are similar to orangutans, and what you can see is determined by your heart."
Your emotions and attitudes toward the outside world will eventually feed back into your own body.
I think of a senior in the media industry, when I first entered the industry, he specifically told me a passage:
"No matter what kind of work you do, ability is actually only secondary, the most important thing is your mentality and posture.
"Doing our business, there are many things and very complicated, so your mentality must be good, don't complain too much, don't complain, complaining will not only not attract anyone's sympathy, but also make people hate you more and more." 」
"If you have a better posture and an optimistic attitude, your ability will naturally come."
At the time, I thought I really understood these words, and it wasn't until I worked for several years that I gradually understood:
No matter what they do, those who complain and emit negative energy are difficult to have a day to emerge.
A person's situation is often determined by his own state of mind.
The more people who love to complain, the worse they actually are.
Psychology professor David Hawkins also said:
"A person with positive energy, his magnetic field will drive everything to become orderly and beautiful."
"And when a person's heart is full of negative energy, it will not only hurt themselves, but also make the surrounding magnetic field disordered and bad."
People who love to complain will form a negative emotional field around them, and in this negative magnetic field, everything you see is also negative.
The negative information you emit will eventually act on yourself in turn.
And when your mentality and posture are right, in the positive energy magnetic field, even if you encounter a big difficulty, you will not be discouraged, and you will not complain about the world.
As long as you maintain a positive and optimistic mindset, good luck will naturally come.
Your magnetic field determines your destiny
Everyone's emotional magnetic field can actually be determined by themselves.
When we are in negative emotions, how can we change our destiny by changing our magnetic field?
There are two small ways to share them with you:
First, change your external environment: move closer to the positive magnetic field and get along with positive people.
When Stetson was in his 20s, his legs suddenly fell disabled, and he was originally full of vigor and could only be confined to a wheelchair all day long.
He was confused, self-pitying, complaining everywhere about the injustice of fate.
His friend Liu Qing went to enlighten him and asked him to try to heal himself with words.
After Shi Tiesheng listened, he began to pick up his pen, and in writing and thinking, he found the courage to live again.
Later, Liu Qing encouraged him to write a script and write a novel.
At first, Stetson felt that he could not control it, and repeatedly pushed back.
But Liu Qing said to him:
"In my experience, you can definitely do a good job of writing."
When he fell into darkness, the optimism and positive energy emitted by Liu Qing infected him little by little.
He also successfully emerged from the predicament, became optimistic and open-minded, and wrote one book after another.
The University of California once conducted a study that showed:
Reaching out to happy people increases personal happiness, and if you know a person who is happy, your chances of being happy increase by 15 percent.
People's emotions will be contagious to each other, when you encounter lows and bad emotions, you must take the initiative to approach people with positive energy.
Get along with people with positive energy magnetic fields, even if life is difficult, you will find the joy of life from it.
Second, enhance your inner energy: empower yourself more, not negative energy.
TED speaker Lena grew up in poverty and wandering since she was a child, and suffered a lot of life.
As an adult, her relationships with her family deteriorated, she faced unemployment, depression, and brain tumors.
In the midst of anxiety and despair, she spent one difficult night after another.
It wasn't until later that she stumbled upon a "law of attraction":
All your encounters are attracted to you.
She suddenly realized that all kinds of unfortunate experiences were the result of her own choices, and instead of complaining about the environment, it was better to choose to change.
Since then, she has no longer given up on herself, but has spent all her time investing in improving herself.
She replaces depression with optimism, drugs with exercise, reads instead of watching TV, and takes action again and again to seek healing.
Gradually, everything around her began to improve.
Those originally negative energies were all under her efforts, and they underwent an amazing reversal.
When you are in a low point and your mood is not good, you must enhance your inner positive energy.
After the positive energy magnetic field built in your heart becomes stronger, you will transform into a more powerful magnetic pole and slowly attract everything you want.
Best-selling author H.B Dawa, once said in the book Magnetic Field:
"The so-called magnetic field is actually your attraction."
The world you see is drawn from the world within you.
Your heart is dirty and dark, and the people you encounter are likely to be villains; you are irritable and complain, and most of the people you encounter are garbage people.
On the contrary, if you are positive and sunny in your heart, you will encounter warmth; if you are optimistic, cheerful, and helpful, you will also encounter goodness.
What kind of person you want to meet, you must first become what kind of person.
What kind of life you want to live, you have to have what kind of magnetic field.
When you are in the magnetic field of positive energy, all the good will come unexpectedly.
Click [Watching], use your positive energy magnetic field to dispel all the misfortunes in life and attract beautiful people and things.