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Ten years of life and death are two vast, do not think, unforgettable, thousands of miles of lonely graves, nowhere to say desolate! People who have not experienced life and death will never understand this sadness in the world.
Never lose my love! Never lose my love! How can you bear to leave me? A voice murmured!
In the howling cold wind, a woman had tears on her cheeks, and her hands wiped and wiped the photos on the tombstone, unwilling to leave for a long time.
This crying woman is Ha Wen, the wife of former CCTV famous host Li Yong! He is worshipping his husband in front of a tombstone in a foreign country.
It has been 4 years, Andhaven has not let go of her husband's departure, and she has too many words in her heart that she wants to say to her husband.
Originally, Ha Wen's in-laws also wanted to come abroad to pay tribute to their son, and Ha Wen was worried about the body of the second old man, so he fulfilled his wish for the second old man.
Ha Wen and Li Yong, what have they experienced in their lives? Li Yong died, why did the young wife Ha Wen never remarry?
Originally because of the death of her husband, Ha Wen, who had nothing to do with her in-laws, why did ha wen not abandon her in-laws and be willing to be filial piety to her daughter?
Today, I will take you into Hawen and see how this daughter-in-law of the righteous and thin clouds has supported a piece of heaven for her deceased husband!
01 The love between Li Yong and Ha Wen is very old-fashioned.
In the summer of 1968, Li Yong was born in Urumqi, and his father, who came from Shaanxi Province, smiled happily.
The reason is simple, because Li Yong has two older sisters, the older generation, more or less have a bit of a patriarchal mentality.
Li Yong's birth has brought more joy to this small family, and the two sisters are even more in love with Li Yong.
Later, Li Yong became the host of the program, which can be said to be sharp teeth, but who would have thought that before going to elementary school, Li Yong was a small stutter who could not even speak clearly.
In order not to be ridiculed by her friends, Li Yong practiced her pronunciation at home alone, practicing voicing words until she spoke like a firecracker.
In 1987, Li Yong was admitted to Beijing Radio and Television University with excellent results, and during her studies, she met a girl named Ha Wen.
This girl named Ha Wen is indeed not simple, born in 1969, her ancestral home is Qingtongxia, Ningxia, just one year younger than Li Yong.
His father, Ha Jinjie, was a provincial-level cadre who was in the limelight at that time, but Ha Wen's tutoring was very strict and never disclosed his father's identity to the public.
Like Li Yong, Ha Wen had excellent academic performance, and there were only a few students who could be admitted to Beijing Radio and Television from Ningxia that year.
What is even more valuable is that during his studies, Harvin was very helpful, often helping those classmates whose families were in difficulty.
Li Yong is attracted to the pure and kind Ha Wen, and every day he takes a pen to draw a silhouette of Ha Wen, and is ridiculed by his classmates as unrequited love.
In order to attract Hawen's attention, Li Yong thought for a long time before finding an excuse that was not an excuse:
"Hello Classmate Hawen, are you surnamed Ha?" Why did I check the surnames of hundreds of families, but there was no such surname? ”
Ha Wen was attracted by the handsome boy with long hair in front of him, but he couldn't help but be a little amused by Li Yong's way of talking:
"I am a minority, of course, the hundred family names do not have this Ha surname, but your way of talking is very old..."...
Li Yong blushed at Ha Wen's fall: "I, I, I have no experience. ”
Unexpectedly, Li Yong's shyness caused Ha Wen to laugh, and in this way, during college, Li Yong and Ha Wen, the two young people, got closer and closer.
In order to catch up with Ha Wen, Li Yong also worked hard enough to personally design couple outfits and cook ethnic minority-style meals for Ha Wen.
Every year during the winter and summer vacations, Li Yong would write his thoughts into letters and send them to Ha Wen one by one, and until now, Ha Wen still treasures these letters.
For the love between Ha Wen and Li Yong, Ha Wen's parents are very open-minded, expressing their belief in their daughter's vision and respecting their decision.
They all said that good things are a lot of grinding, but what Ha Wenwan did not expect was that for this relationship, Li Yong's parents showed doubts.
The reason is simple, on the one hand, Li Yong and Ha Wen are separated by 18,000 miles, one in Urumqi and one in Ningxia.
On the other hand, Ha Wen's family conditions are superior, it is estimated that it is miss Qianjin's appearance, such a daughter-in-law, Li Yong's parents are afraid that their son will suffer losses.
When Ha Wen learned of the attitude of his future in-laws, he asked Li Yong if he really loved himself and dared to marry himself?
When Ha Wen got a positive answer from Li Yong's mouth, he said to Li Yong, let's go back to your hometown together, if I can't make sense of the second old, I don't blame you.
When Ha Wen arrived at Li Yong's hometown, not only did he not have any shelf of Miss Qianjin, but instead washed vegetables and cooked with his mother-in-law and cleaned up the housework.
It is said that as soon as the connoisseur makes a move, he knows whether there is any, Li Yong's mother watched Ha Wen clean up the house, and knew that women who did not work for a long time would certainly not be able to do so neatly.
Such a daughter-in-law who had to go up to the hall and the kitchen soon conquered Li Yong's parents and two sisters.
When Ha Wen said to his future in-laws: "Brother Yong and I are truly in love with each other, the real feeling is a long-term bland and inseparable from each other, I can't promise anything to the second elder now, I can only say that Lu Yao knows the horsepower for a long time." ”
Ha Wen's proper conversation and generous demeanor left a very good impression on Li Yong's parents and relatives, and the marriage was thus settled.
Li Yong's parents, since they accepted this daughter-in-law in their hearts, Li Yong's status at home was instantly reduced to the minimum.
Sometimes Ha Wen and Li Yong joked and fought, and the mother-in-law did not know what was happening, and in the past it was a reprimand to her son.
That means: Li Yong, if your boy dares to bully my daughter-in-law, look at the old woman, I won't fight with you!
Urumqi has more dried fruits and more fruits, and the mother-in-law always goes to the market early in the morning to buy a lot of fresh fruits, washes and cuts them for Hawen.
What touched Ha Wen the most was that sometimes while watching TV, the mother-in-law peeled the dried fruit and handed it to her hand, and said vigorously: "The girl is going to eat..."
In this way, Ha Wen felt the long-lost maternal love during this time in Li Yong's hometown, and the original mother-in-law's love for her daughter-in-law can also make people so intoxicated.
Later, Ha Wen and Li Yong flew back to work, and on the way, they received a call from their mother-in-law, saying that in Ha Wen's bag, the old couple quietly put a few thousand yuan.
Ha Wen's nose was sour, saying that he was also worried that the second elder would not have money to spend, so he quietly put a few thousand yuan in his mother-in-law's bag.
02 A thousand miles of marriage.
On September 26, 1992, Harvin and Li Yongxi married each other, and what Li Yongwan did not expect was that Harvin was not only his wife, but also became his boss.
A classmate in the same class who graduated from the same school, his wife Harvin is a director, screenwriter, and producer.
Li Yong laughed and said that I did not expect that my wife's fame was not as great as mine, but her achievements far exceeded mine, and my husband, who was the host, had to work for his wife.
In 1998, Ha Wen served as the general director of "Lucky 52", and her husband Li Yong served as the host, and the famous husband and wife file of CCTV finally became a blockbuster.
In 2003, Ha Wen became the producer of "Very 6+1", and her husband Li Yong continued to serve as the host, and Li Yong's hosting style was optimistic and cheerful, attracting countless fans.
Just when her career was in full swing, Li Yong, who had always wanted to be a "Dink" family, encountered the strong impetus of her parents.
At that time, Li Yong's career was a brilliant time, unwilling to affect the work in order to have children, in-laws and husbands, neither side could convince anyone.
At the critical moment, the in-laws thought of the sympathetic daughter-in-law and prepared to open the gap in another direction.
When Ha Wen saw that his in-laws had arrived at home, he thought that he had come to see if he had done a good job, so he received him warmly and respectfully said to the second elder:
"Mommy and Daddy, after I got married to YongGe, we never had a fight, and the second elder was relieved."
When the mother-in-law saw that the daughter-in-law had misunderstood, she quickly said: "Daughter-in-law, we are all women, and a family without children is incomplete." ”
On that day, the mother-in-law and Ha Wen had a long talk on their knees, and Ha Wen finally understood the in-laws' painstaking efforts and went home to persuade her husband to have children.
Li Yong was very surprised by the transformation of his wife Hawen, because Hawen was also a supporter of the Dink family, and he did not expect to be told by his parents.
But Harvin warned her husband that I was not justified, but it was not easy for my in-laws to raise children and daughters all their lives, and we could not do things that made our parents worry for our own preferences.
Ha Wen also said that his in-laws treated me like a biological daughter, and I was willing to give up my career for their wishes to have grandchildren, and Li Yong was also touched by his loving and righteous wife.
On May 20, 2002, Harvin gave birth to his daughter Fatoumeh. Lee, let the in-laws cry with joy.
When the in-laws heard that their daughter-in-law, Ha wen, in order to give birth to children and take care of children, actually planned to give up their careers, they rushed to stop it.
The mother-in-law said: "Daughter-in-law, you gave birth to a child for the Li family, the in-laws are not old and confused, you go to work, and our old two come to take the granddaughter." ”
Since then, the family of five has lived together for a full 7 years, until the granddaughter began to study, and the old couple returned to their hometown.
In the years when Ha Wen lived with his in-laws and in-laws, he not only had to give the second elder living expenses every month, but also bought clothes and tonics for the second elder separately during the New Year's Festival.
The mother-in-law knows that it is not easy for the daughter-in-law to earn money, and there is always a lot of living expenses left every month to be returned to Hawen, but Hawen never collects it, so that the second elder keeps it as pocket money.
As the saying goes, when a person passes 53, the body is like a broken boat under the dangerous beach, and the in-laws are older and sicker.
In order not to affect her husband's hosting of the cause, Harvin always takes time to take the second elder to the hospital for examination, and the hospitalization is also Hawen's careful care.
After a daughter-in-law ran for her in-laws, even the medical staff thought that Ha Wen was the daughter-in-law of the second elder.
The in-laws and mother-in-law for Ha Wen, now everyone praises, and even after the beginning, they are afraid that if they were to oppose it, if they lost this daughter-in-law, what would it be like now?
03 The wife of Yi Bo Yuntian, who holds up a piece of heaven for her deceased husband.
There is a saying that happiness is always short-lived, and pain is long-lasting, and this sentence is probably most appropriate for Harvin.
In 2017, Li Yong felt unwell, originally thought it was just a small inflammation, and did not expect to find out that it was a late stage of laryngeal cancer.
The domestic hospital said that there was no hope, the bad news came too suddenly, too suddenly, and Harvin was frightened.
But Ha Wen did not dare to cry in front of Li Yong and her in-laws, at this time he was the hope of all the family, and anyone could fall, but Ha Wen could not.
When Harvin heard that there was still a little hope for the treatment of laryngeal cancer in the United States, he quickly put down all his work and took her husband to the United States.
In order not to let the in-laws worry, Ha Wen did not dare to tell the second elder the true situation, but also pretended to be no one, and called the second elder every three to five to greet him.
In the face of Li Yong's evil disease, even American doctors are helpless, looking at her husband who is in pain because of the deterioration of his condition, Ha Wenqiang put on a smiley face, shook his husband's hand, and constantly encouraged his husband to persevere.
At this time, Ha Wen is Li Yong's hope, li Yong is also Ha Wen's hope, a weak woman who cries behind her husband's back, and she has to accompany her husband to every minute and every second of her life.
On October 25, 2018, Li Yong, who was only 50 years old, died of illness, until the moment her husband closed his eyes, Harvin could no longer withstand the pressure and fainted in front of her husband's hospital bed.
Harvin woke up, crying and telling her in-laws the bad news, and after a cry, Harvin once again cried and fainted.
The in-laws cried and shouted that they wanted to come to the United States to see their son for the last time, but they were pulled by the two daughters, after all, the second old man's body was no longer good, and he could no longer withstand the toss of the boat and car.
The greatest pain in the world is that the white-haired people send the black-haired people, and Li Yong's departure makes the parents suddenly think of all the ashes and do not think about tea and dinner.
Ha Wen, who was still in grief, learned of the situation of his in-laws and mother-in-law, and after taking care of her husband's affairs, he quickly flew back to Urumqi.
When the mother-in-law saw the daughter-in-law who was pale and very haggard, she knew that during this time, The pain experienced by Harvin was not lighter than her own.
The mother-in-law cried tears, hugged the weak daughter-in-law Ha Wen, called a chant, and called a girl, and the sadness made others all shed tears.
Havan wiped away his tears and said to his in-laws, "Brother Yong is gone, I am now your daughter, and you will always be my father and mother." ”
The in-laws and mother-in-law sighed at the daughter-in-law's righteousness, and they were touched to nod their heads and recognize this daughter who was closer than her daughter-in-law.
Now every New Year's Festival, Harvin has to see his "mom and dad" in person, and he has been sending money to "mom and dad" as living expenses.
Li Yong's parents felt that It was not easy for Ha Wen to be alone, and it was not good for his son to be widowed at a young age, so they persuaded Ha Wen to remarry.
But Harvin said that in this life, I can only have one person in my heart, and no one can enter my heart again.
Li Yong and I are a lifelong husband and wife, my husband's parents are also my parents, with the company of parents and daughters, I am content in this life.
Harvin warned her daughter that you are not only the daughter of your mother and father, but also the only granddaughter of your grandparents, and you should contact your grandparents more and not let your affection become indifferent because of time and distance.
In 2020, the sensible granddaughter was admitted to Columbia University in the United States with excellent results, and immediately told her grandparents, which made the second elder feel a great comfort in her heart.
Conclusion!
Over the years, celebrity couples have cheated and divorced, either making a lot of noise in the city, or they are like enemies meeting each other, not to mention filial piety to each other's parents.
Like Harvin, after the death of her husband, there are really too few daughters-in-law who are still filial to their in-laws like daughters-in-law.
At that time, many people were spreading that Li Yong was afraid of his wife, in fact, where in this world, where are the men who are afraid of their wives?
The wife knows how to take care of the overall situation, knows how to be filial piety, and no matter how strong a man is, he will behave in front of a good wife and a good mother.
This good daughter-in-law Officiation Not only supported her deceased husband with a piece of heaven, but also set a good example for countless people.
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