In 1987, at the age of 19, Li Yong was admitted to the Communication University of China. He was very "autistic" when he first started college and didn't interact with any of his classmates, except for a girl. She was the love of Li Yong's life, Ha Wen.
Li Yong did not dare to look at Ha Wen squarely, only dared to sneak a glance at her, and with only one glance, he fell into it. He plucked up the courage to confess, and Harvin refused on the grounds that his parents had asked him to concentrate on his studies. Li Yong was decadent for a while, simply broke the jar and broke it, and willfully confessed to Ha Wen again.
He picked a "wildflower on the side of the road" and said to Harvin, "If you agree, take the flower, and if you don't agree, pull it down!" Harvin accepted Li Yong's love, and this love was 30 years. On October 29, 2018, Harvin posted "Never Lose My Love...".
The host Li Yong, who once brought countless joys to the audience. After 17 months of battling cancer, he left forever. Of course, the saddest must be Harvin. But this unswerving love made Harvin determined not to remarry. Even though her husband was gone, Harvin took care of her in-laws. Looking back at Harvin's blog post, "October 25, 2018 at 5:20 a.m." Even when Li Yong left her, he "loved her" so much... 01. Li Yong described the first time he saw Harvin: "I aimed at her with my right eye, the side contour of her face was beautiful, just like this, I was 'in love at first sight' with her. Before li yong, 19, went to college, he was "seriously taught" by his father. "There are a couple of things that are very critical about going to college, the first of which is to have a girlfriend."
Unfortunately, at that time, Li Yong was a "stuffy gourd", and the image of the later host was completely judgmental. He was a student in the broadcasting department of the Communication University of China (then known as Beijing Broadcasting College). But every weekend, Li Yong will always take the bus to the Central Academy of Fine Arts to learn painting.
Boys and girls who are in their youth can't help but pay attention to the opposite sex. Li Yong is actually the object of the girls' attention, and the girls will get together to discuss. This boy is really strange, usually does not speak, and always carries a picture clip wherever he goes. Li Yong, who originally did not intend to deal with people, "met" Ha Wen in a class.
The staircase classroom, separated by an aisle, Li Yong is on this side, and the other end of the aisle is Ha wen. Li Yong quietly glanced at her, and just this glance made him "love at first sight". "Stuffy gourd" Li Yong suddenly had no teacher and learned to make the girl happy. Later, during class, Li Yong began to lean over to Ha Wen.
He did not listen to the lecture, so he quietly aimed at the girl next to him and played his own painting expertise. After some "meticulous carving", Harvin's portrait became, and he also made a three-dimensional sense. While the teacher was writing on the blackboard, Li Yong stabbed her with her elbow. Ha Wen looked over, and Li Yong quickly handed the painting over.
"Nasty!" Hawen gave him a blank look and pulled the painting away at once, for fear of being discovered by the teacher and other students. Li Yong drew another picture and handed it to her after painting. Harvin laughed softly and then pulled his face down.
"Are you not in class?" Harvin pretended to be angry. But in Li Yong's eyes, the angry Ha Wen is so cute! 02. Li Yong, who has a "goal", is no longer lonely, and he begins to participate in various group activities. Of course, the ultimate goal is to find opportunities to contact Harvin.
Soon it's Christmas, and young people are trying to get together. The classmates in Li Yong's class decided to make dumplings together. He knew that Havin was a Hui, and a Muslim, who believed in Islam.
So he went back to the camp to buy lamb to make stuffing. After eating and drinking, everyone danced together, and Li Yong went to Ha Wen's side as usual.
With the rhythm of the music rising and falling, the family is nearby, and Li Yong finally made up her mind - confess! Li Yongxian pretended to be unintentional and casually asked: "Ha Wen, what kind of boyfriend is your heart?" "At least one meter eight." A sentence directly "choked to death" Li Yong, the height problem is his "eternal pain".
He asked again, "What about the lowest line..." When asked, his voice was a little faint. Ha Wen lowered his small face and thought very seriously: "How can I get one meter seventy-five?" Li Yong, who had just been hit, suddenly "resurrected" and said excitedly, "Last week's physical examination, I was one meter seven five five!" Having said that, how could Ha Wen not understand Li Yong's meaning? The criterion for asking a boyfriend is to put it on himself.
Harvin blushed, didn't answer, and ignored him. In the next few days, Li Yong was anxious every day, like a headless fly.
Harvin also had some sympathy, but she really didn't have a good answer. Because before she went to college, she also got repeated instructions from her father: "You are still young, you should focus on learning, don't think about it." So Ha Wen had to ask Li Yong to go to a place where no one was and reject him: "My father does not agree with this." 03. Li Yong, who was rejected, was devastated, but he still wanted to try harder. Li Yong asked Ha Wen how he felt about himself and got a "very good" reply. So he began to "know with affection and move with reason."
For Harvin analysis two people can help each other and learn more efficiently. And they don't do anything other than eat together. Haven didn't know how to answer, and hesitantly said, "I... Think again. As a result, the days passed like this, and Li Yong could not wait for a reply. He began to pretend to be decadent, did not see people, did not shave, and changed from the original "little painter" image to a vicissitudes uncle.
Then he began to gossip about the classmates: Look at Li Yong, what has become of Ha Wen for the sake of Ha Wen. In fact, Li Yong is usually a very honest person, and he did not expect that in order to fall in love, all kinds of hearts and eyes were used. On New Year's Day 1988, Li Yong bought two performance tickets, one of which was sent to Ha Wen by a classmate. He also made an appointment to meet after Harvin's performance.
However, the performance ticket is not consecutive seats, he is afraid that the words have not been said, and when he watched the performance, he was disliked by Harvin. After the performance, Harvin really came to the appointment. Li Yong had originally come prepared and typed the abdominal draft. "Either you sentence me to death now, and I won't have any more thoughts, and there will be no herbs at the end of the world, or..."
Speaking of excitement, Li Yong abandoned the "original draft" and improvised. Bending down to pluck a wild flower, "If you agree, take the flower, disagree, pull it down!" Harvin hadn't spoken for a long time, but finally, she reached out and took the flower. 04. Two people who have confirmed their relationship are eager to be together all day. However, Li Yong is not a person who does not know how to measure, he and Harvin really study together, help each other and promote each other. Of course, for them, the biggest pain is the difference during the winter vacation.
In just one month, Li Yong wrote a letter to Ha Wen every day, and even the envelope was made by himself. All the letters, Harvin carefully put away, collected two large boxes full of them. Years later, they moved several times, but they were not willing to lose it.
In 1991, a senior internship, Li Yong was assigned to CCTV to the outside, and Ha Wen was assigned to the information department of Tianjin Television. In the graduation examination, Li Yong won the first place. As a result, he became the only announcer to join CCTV that year. On the other hand, Ha Wen stayed in the news department of Tianjin Television Station as a reporter after graduation. Although Beijing and Tianjin are separated by each other, they are not too far away.
It was just that Li Yong's workstation at CCTV was not hot, and he suddenly received an aid transfer order to Tibet. The leader promised a high pay, plus only half a year. Li Yong, who was short of money after graduation, discussed with Ha Wen and agreed.
His days in Tibet were long, but Li Yong wrote a letter to Ha Wen of Tianjin Television. As always, he drew his own envelopes, from small planes to small rockets, showing that his return was like an arrow. Later, he slowly became Cupid to express his thoughts about Harvin.
05. Unexpectedly, half a year has passed, and Li Yong has not received any news of a pullback. It wasn't until a year later, when the leader led the team to work in Tibet, that he finally remembered that there was a Li Yong who had been sent to help. The leader felt guilty and hurriedly gave Li Yong a callback order. After the handover work was completed, regardless of whether there was a mistake or not, Li Yong immediately flew back to Beijing.
After settling down, he rushed to Tianjin to see Hawen. Li Yong spent 9 months of salary, bought a sapphire ring, and went straight to Tianjin TV station with 99 roses. When he appeared in front of Harvin, Harvin was stunned, and then burst into tears. Lovers who have been reunited for a long time do not want to suffer from longing, so they decide to get married. In September 1992, Li Yong and Ha Wen went through the marriage procedures and held a wedding ceremony.
In fact, the two did not intend to have children when they got married. One is because both of them are busy at work, and the other is that they don't feel the need for children as a bond to maintain their relationship. Because in the eyes of Li Yong and Ha Wen, marriage means "never being separated."
They had been a Dink couple for ten years, but all of a sudden, wife Harvin wanted a child. Li Yong had always listened to his wife, and it wasn't long before Ha Wen became pregnant. Harvin was three months pregnant, and Li Yong heard the sound of fetal heartbeat through the apparatus for the first time. So from that day on, he began to record everything about his wife and children.
He was going to record the child's growth process in the form of a diary. Li Yong wanted to wait until the child got married and give these words to him as a gift. Unfortunately, Li Yong could not wait for that day. 06. In 2002, their daughter was born and named Fatoumai Lee.
This name has led many people to associate Li Yong's later appearance on the streets of the United States, and it is rumored that Li Yong has become an American citizen. In fact, Li Yong has always been a Chinese national, and he only went to the United States to treat his illness. About the daughter's name, because the wife Hawen is a Hui,
They often have a sutra name, such as their daughter's fatumai, which is taken from the Quran. Taking the meaning of "holy people", there is also the meaning of "perfect woman". However, in general, in addition to the name of the scripture, the Hui people also have a real name. Mr. and Mrs. Li Yong took their daughter's name as their real name, and then named it the Han surname "Li".
The daughter grows up day by day, and the life of the family of three is plain and happy. The occasional quarrel is only the spice of life, and every time there is a quarrel, Li Yong is always the one who admits to the mistake. Some people laughed at his humiliation, but Li Yong said: "Mature rice always bends, why do I bend first, because I am mature." "Unfortunately, a sudden illness shattered this long-standing tranquility.
In 2017, Li Yong was suddenly diagnosed with throat cancer. When he learned of his illness, he threw off all his work. At that time, her daughter was studying in the United States, and after learning the news, she insisted on taking a break from school to accompany her father. Of course, the couple did not agree, but they summed up, in order not to delay their daughter, but also for better treatment, simply go to the United States. There is another reason, they do not want the elderly in the family to be sad about this, so they hide from them and go to a foreign country.
In mid-June, the media photographed Li Yong and his wife on the streets of the United States, claiming that they had become American nationals and left after "fishing a handful" in China. Will they care if Li Yong "has a few bowls of powder in his stomach"?
Li Yong was the most seriously ill, and when he fought desperately with the god of death, he also suffered this injustice. After 17 months, Li Yong passed away at the age of 50.
Harvin knew that he could no longer hide it, and could only tell his in-laws the truth. After the old man learned the news that the white-haired man had sent the black-haired man, he was sadly unconscious several times. In order to make her in-laws recover, Harvin had to endure his inner grief and reassure him over and over again on the phone. She also asked Fatoumai to call often to chat with her grandparents.
According to their custom, people must be buried quickly within three days after death, otherwise the soul will not be at peace. Li Yong also made requirements for his posthumous affairs before he died, everything from Jane, do not cause Trouble for Bill. Transporting him back to China must have taken a lot of time and manpower. So Harvin finally endured the grief and buried the lover of his life. After everything was handled, she sent a text announcing the news of Li Yong's death.
After returning to China, Ha Wen also came to the old man's home for the first time to take care of them. Ha Wen assured her in-laws that she would never remarry, and Li Yong was gone, and she was their own daughter. She also regularly gives money to her in-laws so that they don't have to worry about money, and also lets the elderly know that the lives of their daughters-in-law and granddaughters are very good.
With The company of Harvin, the two old men gradually walked out of the pain of losing their son. It's just Harvin himself, but he has never been able to come out. In 2019, the first anniversary of Li Yong's death, Harvin wrote: "I only wish that the years will be safe, even if I am not seen." On the same day in 2020, Harvin wrote: "Give life to time, not time to life." In 2021, a "read" word, accompanied by a bouquet of white roses, the flower language "pure love".
Li Yong is gone, this is just someone else's idea. In fact, Li Yong is still alive, and in The Deep Love and Longing of Ha Wen, he will live forever.