In the luxurious banquet hall of a hotel in Beijing in June 2021, we can see Yan Xuejing who is very busy. At this moment, her face was full of happiness and festivity, and she warmly greeted every distinguished guest at the door, and personally led them into the banquet hall and arranged for them to be seated.
Today is the big day of her baby son Lin Aofei and her beautiful daughter-in-law Xu Mengdi! Yan Xuejing did her best to prepare for this grand and warm wedding, which filled the whole scene with joy and warmth.
Afterwards, she affectionately sent her blessings to the newlyweds: "Since we met, you have always been able to understand and tolerate me. From now on, we are a family, and I will love you even more.
These touching words fully reflect Yan Xuejing's deep feelings for her daughter-in-law Xu Mengdi, as if she has been treated as her own daughter.
Every time Xu Mengdi's birthday, Yan Xuejing always carefully plans various celebrations. Not only did the whole family gather together, but she also specially invited the famous actor Feng Gong and other VIPs to attend, this warm and thoughtful hospitality, respect and favor for Xu Mengdi even exceeded that of her own son.
Yan Xuejing's intimacy with her daughter-in-law stems from her married life with her ex-husband Lin Yue. In 1992, Yan Xuejing, who was only in her early 20s, resolutely decided to marry this divorced man, but was resolutely opposed by her parents.
In the face of her parents' bitter words, she firmly said: "I just want to marry him, and I am willing to be the mother of the children." After a heated debate, Yan Xuejing finally succeeded in convincing his parents, and the two held a wedding in Jilin.
Soon after marriage, she became pregnant for ten months and gave birth to her son Lin Aofei, and since then, the original world of two has become a warm family of three.
Since then, Yan Xuejing has shown her filial piety to her in-laws. Whenever her in-laws are old and sick and need to be taken care of, she always does not hesitate to put down the work at hand and take care of her in-laws' daily life.
The health of her in-laws is as important to her as her biological parents.
The neighbors all looked at it, and they all praised Yan Xuejing, saying that she was a good daughter-in-law who was virtuous and virtuous. She treats people sincerely and regards her in-laws as relatives, which has won unanimous praise from everyone.
However, not long after, something happened that made Yan Xuejing feel painful - Lin Yue divorced his ex-wife. In order to protect his son Lin Aofei from harm, Lin Yue and his ex-wife can only barely maintain this marriage relationship that has long existed in name.
At the same time, regarding the major decision between the elderly couple of famous actor Yan Xuejing's father-in-law and mother-in-law, they chose to temporarily live separately to solve complicated relationship problems.
When Yan Xuejing learned about this, she immediately took action to properly arrange her father-in-law's daily necessities.
She carefully selected a spacious and comfortable single living place for her father-in-law, and spared no expense to hire a professional nanny, who was fully responsible for her father-in-law's diet and daily life.
However, even so, Yan Xuejing's deep worries could not be completely eliminated.
Therefore, in addition to her busy work, she always finds time to visit her father-in-law's residence in person, buy daily necessities for him, and sometimes even bring some delicacies that her father-in-law is reluctant to taste.
During each visit, Yan Xuejing would personally cook the dishes of her hometown, which she was good at, and meticulously tidy up her father-in-law's room and bed, and keep everything in order.
Although Yan Xuejing and her father-in-law are not related by blood, she cares for her father-in-law as much as her biological father, treating him as a close relative.
As for her mother-in-law's daily life, Yan Xuejing took another approach, although her husband proposed to hire a professional nanny for her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law politely rejected the proposal.
She said that she was in good physical condition and was able to take care of herself. So, Yan Xuejing respected her mother-in-law's wishes and let her take care of the housework by herself.
Sure enough, whenever she returned from a performance in other places, her home was always clean, spotless, tidy and orderly, all thanks to her mother-in-law's hard work.
Whether facing her father-in-law or mother-in-law, Yan Xuejing always treats everyone equally and is fair and selfless. Whenever they are old and frail and sick, she will take care of them as if they were their own parents.
Such filial piety to her in-laws made Yan Xuejing highly praised by the neighbors around her.
Although Yan Xuejing loves her in-laws very much and treats them as relatives, in the end, she still had to make the difficult choice of divorcing Lin Yue. When the parents-in-law learned the news, they were all shocked and filled with grief.
Seeing this situation, the mother-in-law was indignant in her heart, angrily accused Lin Yue, and sternly asked how he could let such an excellent and virtuous wife leave him? For the Lin family and his wife, Yan Xuejing was not just a daughter-in-law, but an indispensable and important pillar of their old life and an existence like a relative.
Facing her mother-in-law's tearful pleas and retention, Yan Xuejing shook her head resolutely despite the endless reluctance in her heart. She sincerely explained to her mother-in-law that the relationship between her and her son Lin Yue could no longer be rediscovered and repaired, and this marriage had come to an end.
Although she ended her husband and wife relationship with Lin Yue, Yan Xuejing did not alienate her in-laws because of this. On the contrary, she took care of the daily life of the two elderly people more carefully.
During each visit, she always told Lin Yue to go to her father-in-law's residence regularly to tidy up her room, clean up, and give them the care she deserved, and at the same time take her mother-in-law to the hospital for regular physical examinations to ensure that her physical condition is always good.
Yan Xuejing is so concerned about the physical and mental health of the old man, as if he were his own biological parents.
In the days after the divorce, Yan Xuejing's figure still frequently appeared in the lives of her ex-in-laws. Even if she is only away for a few days, she will tell her son Lin Yue or daughter-in-law Xu Mengdi to visit and greet her instead.
Sometimes, she even offers some financial assistance so that her in-laws can buy their favorite items so that they can live a more comfortable life in their old age.
Seeing his wife caring so carefully for her ex-in-laws, her current husband Ma Mingdong was deeply admired. Yan Xuejing treats her former and former in-laws equally and treats each other with sincerity, and this filial piety is really admirable.
Between Yan Xuejing and her son Lin Aofei, there was also a period of estrangement. It all started from the moment Lin Aofei was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama.
As soon as he stepped on campus, Lin Aofei was troubled by the label of "Yan Xuejing's son", and he longed to get rid of his mother's aura and soar freely on the road of art.
During his college years, although he only played some insignificant small roles, he deeply experienced the hardships and difficulties of the actor's career.
In this process, time passed, and Lin Aofei had a deeper understanding and understanding of his mother Yan Xuejing's hard work. After this young talent returned to the family, the mother and son finally regained the affectionate old warmth.
Witnessing his son's growth and awakening, the joy and pride in Yan Xuejing's heart were indescribable. Since then, the mother and son have worked hand in hand to embark on the road of art, working together to realize their dreams.
With the booming of his son's career, Yan Xuejing also began to pay attention to his life event - marriage. One day, she asked Lin Aofei if she would like to find a woman as virtuous and excellent as her mother or sister as a lifelong partner.
Lin Aofei replied without hesitation: "That is naturally what I expected! My ideal is to marry a wife as extraordinary as my eldest sister (referring to Yan Xuejing)."
As a daughter-in-law, Yan Xuejing is flawless, and it is not easy to find a daughter-in-law who can surpass her.
In fact, Yan Xuejing's expectations for her daughter-in-law are not strict, she just wants her to be pure and kind in her heart and have the noble qualities of a daughter. She didn't expect her daughter-in-law to completely surpass herself, as long as she had a simple and innocent inner temperament, it was enough to make her feel extremely gratified.
Yan Xuejing was born in Liaoyuan City, Jilin Province, from a poor family, and his parents were hard-working and simple farmers. However, since she was a child, she has shown an extraordinary artistic talent, especially in the field of local art where the duo turned.
In 1985, Yan Xuejing, who was only 13 years old, successfully joined the local Weijin Small Theater Troupe with his excellent two-person transfer skills. Although she was in the period of voice change at that time and her voice was a little hoarse, she always trained hard and unswervingly, and eventually became the "pillar" of the troupe.
People affectionately call her "Pillar", which shows her pivotal position in the troupe. With her outstanding artistic talent, Yan Xuejing was quickly admitted to Jilin Opera School and began to receive more professional and systematic two-person transfer training.
In the years of opera school, Yan Xuejing was undoubtedly a dazzling star. She is confident on stage, and every time she performs on stage, she can easily control various roles and play with ease.
After completing her studies, she naturally devoted herself to the field of Jilin Ping Opera Troupe, which is full of artistic atmosphere and passionate yearning, thus officially opening her own brilliant artistic chapter! A solid foundation and outstanding talent made Yan Xuejing usher in the first major breakthrough in her life in 2001! With the unique appreciation and full support of Mr. Zhao Benshan, she successfully established a solid artistic position in Northeast China and won the supreme honor of "two people turned queens"!
Since then, Yan Xuejing's acting career has gone from ordinary to brilliant like breaking into a butterfly. She closely followed in the footsteps of Zhao Benshan and actively participated in the creation of many acclaimed film and television works, such as "Liu Laogen", "Urban Stranger", "Women's Village" and "Women as Officials" and so on.
Relying on his unpretentious image and temperament, Yan Xuejing is very good at depicting rural and low-level life themes.
Especially in portraying the characters of those hard-working, simple, and filial elders, she can always perform them vividly with her superb acting skills, leaving an indelible deep impression on the audience.
It is precisely because of this that Yan Xuejing was able to firmly establish the lofty status of "two people turned queens" in the northeast region.