In the past, many older generations did not like parents to go out with their children at night, but when asked about the reason, the answers of the older generation would be more vague, making people even more confused, and at the same time, young parents felt that the older generation was traditional, so they would not pay attention to their requirements, and always felt that there was no impact, in fact, the impact was not small.
01 Bao Mom always takes the baby out to play at night, does not listen to the advice of the old man, until there is an "accident"
Fujian Zhangzhou's mother Xiao qiu is married from Fuzhou, Zhangzhou here has a lot of customs, and every once in a while will hold a relatively large-scale activities, most of them are related to the temple, Xiao Qiu married over to feel that the religious beliefs here are very deep, but also respect the local customs.
Before getting married, Xiao Qiu liked to hang out at night, and the same was true after marriage, and it was the same after having children. In order not to bother the in-laws, every time she goes out with her husband at night, she will also take her daughter out to play, and the little one is also very happy. But the in-laws said, "The child is young, don't take it out to play at night, this is not good." ”
Xiao Qiu listened to it but felt that the in-laws were too superstitious, and they did not think so, still with the children to play, and play very late every day, sometimes the couple played until 11 o'clock, the children also played until 11 o'clock.
Until one time, when the couple came home, the husband drove, Xiao Qiu sat in the co-pilot, the daughter sat in the back seat, originally there was no situation along the way, and suddenly the child screamed, frightening Xiao Qiu to quickly ask the daughter what was wrong, and the daughter was crying, saying that she saw something unclean.
Xiao Qiu looked back and saw that it was a scarecrow that the neighbors had inserted two days ago, in order to prevent the birds from pecking at the vegetable leaves, so he explained to his daughter, but the daughter was still frightened. That night, the child was frightened all night and had nightmares, and the in-laws criticized the couple when they learned about it.
And since that day, the daughter's courage has become smaller and smaller, sleeping with them at night, not daring to go out at night, not letting Xiao Qiu and her husband go out, you must accompany yourself, when you sleep, you have to turn on the lights, the nightmare is even more continuous, it is really upsetting xiao Qiu and her husband, but also extremely regretful, the original in-laws said is not unreasonable.
02 Don't take the baby out after this point in the evening, it is not superstition, there are really many "exquisite"
If the children in the family are younger, then after eight o'clock in the evening, try not to take the child out to play, because after eight o'clock the day is completely dark, which is not superstition, there are indeed many places worth paying attention to.
Take the child's psychological quality, the child's courage is generally relatively small, and at night, it is dark, in some dim or dim places, it is easy to have illusions, plus the older children have watched TV, but also contacted some strange statements, so it is easy to think wildly.
If parents often take their children out, in case the child has some illusions at night, it is obviously a normal thing, but it is the wrong eye, it is likely to leave a shadow in their psychology, just like the examples in the above cases, especially some children who are already relatively timid, they should pay more attention. It is said that the shadow of childhood may accompany a lifetime and will have a great impact on children. Therefore, it is better to wait until the children are older and then take the children out to play.
Moreover, no matter which season, after eight o'clock in the evening, the weather will turn cool, and then the child after a day of fatigue and tension, the body will be completely relaxed, the resistance and immune system will be relaxed, then if you often take the child out to play, the child is likely to catch a cold, after all, the child's body is not as perfect as an adult. Coupled with the large temperature difference between day and night, it is more likely to have cold symptoms.
At the same time, it also needs to be considered that not every road in every area has street lights, after eight o'clock in the evening, the sky is completely dark, then if you take the child out to play, the child is more likely to run and make trouble, do not like to be tied by the parents in the hands, the parents' vigilance at this time will also decline, if there is a vehicle suddenly appearing, the child is too late to dodge, the parents are too late to pull the child back, then there may be danger.
In addition, some traffickers may also act at night, specifically targeting some children who have fallen behind, many parents are chatting with themselves, or playing with their mobile phones down, so that children are walking on the side, at this time, if the light is not good, the children may not be known by the traffickers.
Finally, children who always like to go out to play at night, and once the play time exceeds eight o'clock, then after coming back, it will be in a state of excitement for a longer period of time, and it is difficult to fall asleep, at least after 10 o'clock to slowly produce sleepiness, and 10 o'clock is the key stage for the child to begin to secrete growth hormone, if not enter deep sleep at this time, then it will affect the height development of the child.
Therefore, if the child is younger, it is still not recommended that parents take their children out to play at night, after all, the impact of the above aspects is not small.