Will gender and age be an obstacle to love? A Chinese guy from Beijing gave a satisfactory answer sheet. His wife, who is 11 years younger than himself, has lived happily for the 7th year this year, and his wife is a Thai. What is more remarkable than the status of a foreigner is that his wife is a transgender person.
In the face of transgender people in Thailand, we always have many misconceptions, the biggest misunderstanding is that we think that these people who change their gender through acquired surgery will lead to an extremely short lifespan because of hormone problems. In fact, this is also one of the biggest misunderstandings about transgender people in China for many years.
First of all, transgender people already have many forms in Thailand. One is a pretend, one is a shemal, and the other is a complete transgender person like the young man's wife. If it were not special, no one would have thought that such a bumpy and beautiful beauty in front of her was actually a boy before.
In fact, the young man's wife is lucky, he has enough money to support him to complete the transsexual surgery, there are many people in Thailand who want to change their gender, but they do not have enough money, good enough environment to support them to do this operation, so they can only take the boy's body to do what they want to do, there are two categories such as transvestites and shemale.
Transgender people, who are often born with a mental state that is completely opposite to their biological sex. They usually feel very painful because of psychological and physical contradictions, and some people can bravely pursue their own wishes and live according to their own ideas, but most transgender people will struggle painfully under the understanding of their loved ones and the discrimination of society.
And many transgender people, even if they change their biological sex through medical means, it is difficult for them to have love like ordinary people, because the public always looks at them with colored glasses. Especially in China, a more traditional and conservative country, it is not uncommon to fall in love with transgender people.
The transgender wife of the young man who came to interview this reporter today is not only very beautiful, but also very good. He once won the first place in the Thai Beauty Pageant, which was scored not only according to the beauty of his appearance, but also according to other comprehensive strengths.
Whether it is the gentle and generous image of his wife, the tall figure or their long black and shiny hair, or his generous conversation, it is impeccable.
Such a level of wife, the young man can marry this beauty, can be regarded as three lifetimes of luck.
The reporter walked to the home of the boy and his beloved wife, and what came into view was the photos of the wall, all of which were beautiful wives at the competition, including various photos of school and college graduation, and the wives in the photos were wearing exquisite competition dresses, or wearing special uniforms, smiling and dazzling.
The young man proudly showed every highlight moment of his wife to everyone, and explained which photo was taken in what period and who the people in the photo were.
Since becoming a beauty pageant, the young man's wife has participated in many events in Thailand as an ambassador. As a result, I also left valuable photos with many important people in Thailand.
In the display box in the living room was also the crown worn by the young man's wife when she won the championship. Take it out and put it on your head, you can still see the beautiful style of your wife at that time, and the years seem to be particularly tolerant of this transgender beauty.
There was no trace of age on his face at all. Maybe it's because love nourishes people's hearts, and the faces of women who live in love will never have traces of age.
From this simple act, we can see the boy's full love and admiration for his beloved wife. In the words, the young man did not forget to mention that he had been in China during his wife's competition, failed to help his wife, and did not witness the moment when his wife won the championship, and he felt some regrets. But the young man's gentle and understanding wife did not show the slightest expression of reproach.
As the lads slowly told reporters their love story, the wife looked at her husband silently with adoration in her eyes.
Although they have been married for 7 years, their feelings are still as sweet as when they first fell in love, and when asked if there is any secret to keeping love fresh, the guy and his wife look at each other and smile, and having each other in their hearts may be the best answer.
The whole home is decorated according to the preferences of the lad's wife, very dreamy, and romantic, like an English-style manor house, full of flowers. The wallpaper was also dotted with large areas of flowers, and the young man took the reporter to tour all the rooms, and there was a room upstairs dedicated to his wife's sewing work.
Sewing is my wife's hobby, and my wife also studied fashion design when she was in college. In order to let his wife show her talents, the young man specially set up a display cabinet at home, which placed all the dolls that his wife liked, as well as the clothes that his wife sewed for these dolls by hand. The clothes are beautifully made, as if they were bought from outside.
As for why, the young man's wife liked these beautiful dolls so much, the young man explained that it was because his wife's family conditions were not good when she was a child, and she did not have the money to buy these favorite things.
So now that I'm older and capable, I want to satisfy myself more. In the face of his wife's preferences, the young man gave him sufficient respect, and he hoped that his wife could be comfortable being herself.
This Thai beauty is truly ingenious. The home is also full of exoticism, and there is a bunch of Hindu deities in the corner of the 2nd floor of the boy's house, which is enshrined by his wife.
We can see from the decoration of their home the shadow of two people loving and respecting each other. The young man has made many concessions for his wife, and as an authentic Beijing grandfather, loving his wife and loving his wife should be done. His wife is so much younger than him, and she is alone in a foreign country, so that her wife feels enough love and warmth, which is his unswerving commitment to his wife to death.
There are always people who wonder whether the boy and his wife are harmonious in the life of the husband and wife, in fact, this is completely superfluous consideration, in fact, the young man's wife has long relied on advanced medical technology to completely become a complete woman, not only psychologically, he is also a real woman physiologically.
And the lad said today that he doesn't care very much about these things, he loves his wife's character and her connotations, not just because she is a beautiful woman. As. Chai Jing said in one of her books that love should be the collision of soul and soul, not the attraction of one sexual organ to another.
The two hearts cross the distance between the kingdoms and the barriers between cultures, and how many difficulties have gone through to truly be together, how much effort they have to put into it, how many unknown tribulations they have endured, only they understand each other in their hearts.
They both cherished the time they could have together. They overcome more difficulties than other couples. And the identity of the boy's wife will also be inadvertently slandered by many curious people in China.
Every time someone kindly asked about the couple, the boy did not tire of explaining the identity of the wife to the curious. He believes that misunderstandings can be eliminated through continuous science popularization.
The young man always believes that his union with his wife is not only two people who love each other coming together, but also represents the beautiful friendship of the two countries and the integration of the two groups.
Their love breaks down many of the barriers that lie among ordinary people and transgender people, and makes more transgender people believe that they can also have such a committed love.
The young man had enough patience and love, and although others were curious and misunderstood about his wife, he was willing to go out of his way to explain to them.
When he first treated his wife, it was also this patience and love, so that his wife saw the possibility of living a happy life with him, which made this Thai beauty go to China alone without hesitation to pursue her love.
Sometimes concessions in love do not mean weakness, and people who know how to tolerate often have more powerful powers, they can make their partners always in love, gradually become stretched. A benign relationship can never be separated from the joint management and payment of two people.
But no matter how sweet the love, there will occasionally be some small waves, and every time they have a disagreement with their wives because of something, they often choose to calm each other down first, and then communicate patiently.
Because the wife is relatively young, and she is alone in a foreign country, the boy often chooses to tolerate his wife more, and the young man tells us with actions that love is long-term patience.
Watching the young man and his wife get along in harmony, this can't help but make the reporter feel very envious, there are many couples around us, they do not have too many geographical challenges, there is no contradiction in reality, but they do not know how to cherish the people in front of them, do not know that there are problems to communicate, to understand, to tolerate each other. Sometimes better feelings are the need for more business-minded people to protect together.
Faced with the choice of young men, many people said that they did not understand, but the young men did not care. The choices he makes don't need to take into account other people's eyes, he's not a narrow-minded person, and he never looks at his kind wife with colored glasses.
Because he knows what kind of person his wife is. In the reporter's brief interview, it can also be seen from the aesthetic and demeanor that the young man's wife is still a little girl with a princess dream in her heart.
A lot of people face the lad's choice as a mockery and questioning attitude, they don't believe that taking a transgender person can be happy. There are also some people who will only hide behind the Internet, jealous of the happiness of the boys, because they do not have enough courage, so they will only attack others with vicious remarks in the face of brave people who pursue their loved ones.
Only those who believe in love can finally have love, and the love between the young man and the deformed wife allows us to see that there are still pure feelings in this world. Let us believe in love again, although the two can not have children, but their lives are now very satisfied.
There is no difficulty that cannot be overcome, even if you want to have children in the future, you can also adopt them through legal means, in the vast sea of people, they are willing to believe in each other, choose each other, unswervingly go on, no matter what kind of difficulties they face, they will spend together, which is already a rare and valuable. I hope we can all harvest beautiful love with our sincere hearts.