It is estimated that recently everyone has seen such a video, a mother opened her son's school bag, found that the fifth grade son's school bag can really be described as sloppy, not only dirty and messy, even the books are worn out of shape.
Especially when the mother opened her son's language book and saw that the cover was written "The goal is Tsinghua and Peking University", when the mother's tone was even more mocking, saying that if the child could be admitted to Tsinghua and Peking University, she was willing to run around the town naked.
Running naked, can you say such a thing casually? It's their own children who listen to this! For whatever reason, no matter how harmonious the relationship between mother and child is, it is problematic to be able to say such a thing!
, you can say things like that at will, it's really not frivolous. It may be that you can say things at will with your friends, mention them in front of your own children and juniors, and the impact is too great. It is not impossible for children to have a bad potential direction from now on!
The child is already in the fifth grade, don't say what to remember, this age group, for people who are now nutritious and know a lot through the Internet, they have already entered adolescence early.
So now it's not just about the cold wind rush for children, but about children's physical and mental health. Of course, different people may have different concepts of children's education. As you can see from the video, when the mother taunts the child, the child looks like she has nothing to do with herself.
Frankly speaking, the child's performance can be regarded as calm. Whether it is adapted to his mother's style or other reasons, this child's calmness is much more mature than his peers. Therefore, in the end, whether the child can be admitted to Tsinghua and Peking University, really do not judge from whether the school bag is neat and clean, and whether the textbook is clean and beautiful.
If the child in the future college entrance examination, the test can be Tsinghua, Peking University score, if the child really cares about his mother, and this mother is also a person who keeps his promise, then the final result? Will this make children feel guilty at Tsinghua and Peking University for a lifetime?
Educating children is not overnight, not to say that children cannot be friends with each other, but the premise of becoming friends, it is necessary to distinguish between the responsibilities of education and the cheerful atmosphere of the family!
Finally, I hope that my child can be admitted to Tsinghua or Peking University, of course, the final choice is Tsinghua is the best. And for the mother of the child, I also hope to be a person who keeps her promise.