Teach children to choose friends and respect children's choice of friends

During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, the famous military scholar Sun Bing and Pang Juan learned the art of the same window and became close friends. The two went down the mountain one after another, and the teacher hinted at Sun Zhen, saying that Pang Was slippery and narrow-minded and could not be deeply related, but Sun Zhen did not think so. Pang Juan knew that Sun Zhi's intelligence was superior to his own, and he was jealous, lest Sun Zhen seriously threaten his position, so he began to plot murder and secretly framed Sun Zhi for smuggling with foreign countries and cutting him off. The kind Sun Bing was kept in the dark, and in the case of his knees being cut off, he wholeheartedly wrote "Sun Tzu's Art of War" for Pang Shuimo. It wasn't until one of Pang Shui's family members, Ding Zhiyi, spoke out that Sun Bin learned the truth and woke up like a dream. Later, Sun Zhen escaped from the clutches of the devil and eventually took revenge on Xue Hate. It is precisely because Sun Bin mistakenly made such an evil friend as Pang Juan, although he escaped death, he suffered great physical and mental trauma.

Sun Bing is so highly learned, he will also meet people who are not ladylike, and they do not know people clearly, let alone children. Each child has their own strengths and weaknesses, but also has the ability to independently judge right and wrong, when the child's ability is small, we can appropriately guide and teach the child to choose. But if the child has made a choice, then it is necessary to analyze rationally and cannot interfere, especially in adolescent children, the greater the interference, the more intense their anti-interference emotions will be, and even have counterproductive consequences.

The child's choice of friends is from the heart, parents only teach the child how to choose friends, do not interfere too much. If you are not satisfied with your child's friends, do not accuse others of their shortcomings, and give your child a certain amount of time, they will naturally have a good judgment.

As the child's life orientation, parents must be in the company of the high and walk with the moral, so that the child can form a correct and good view of choosing friends in the observation of life.