People say that June day baby face, is talking about the weather is cloudy and unpredictable. The side also reflects the child's emotional changes that make people scratch their heads. I don't know if you have found it, some babies' expressions have changed, just now they are still happy, and in the blink of an eye, they will cry. Many parents can't figure out the situation, can only see the child crying, follow the child's body to find the root cause of the crying, and generally can find the cause. But some special times, the baby suddenly sees someone or something will cry, how to find the reason can not find, coaxing is not good, can only wait until the child is tired of crying and falling asleep to have a rare quiet time.
In response to this situation, many parents are helpless. Although science is now developed, superstitious things have been believed by few people. But this situation will inevitably make people wonder. Tong Tong has such a similar experience, his baby cried when he saw Grandma Chen who led the family, and the closer he got, the more fiercely he cried. The two families were embarrassed for a while, and had no choice but to walk around. But living next door, looking up and not looking down. Seeing more, Tong Tong also wondered, why did his own children react so fiercely when they saw Grandma Chen? Can the baby see something terrible about Grandma Chen? At the thought of this situation, Tong Tong couldn't help but feel cold and straight.
She quickly told her girlfriend about the situation, listened to her girlfriend's opinion, and Tong Tong opened her heart. Why their babies cry when they see Grandma Chen, it turns out that there is a reason, not the so-called superstition. It is possible for a child to cry in the following situations:
First, the baby's recognition period
As soon as the baby comes out of the mother's womb, he feels strange and even full of fear about the unknown. Except for mom and dad, who are more kind, they are unfamiliar to most people. And seeing some people will feel scared, so they will cry incessantly. Generally speaking, the child gradually enters the recognition period two months after birth, and the duration varies.
Second, the characteristics or smell of some people make the baby uncomfortable
Babies are much more sensitive than we think, and some adults have difficulty detecting changes in each other's expressions or not feeling the smell emitted by the other party, but this information is easily captured by the baby. For example, the other party's expression is somewhat serious, in the baby's eyes may seem a little sinister, this facial expression brings information, will make the baby feel uncomfortable or even afraid, so they will cry, and the closer the other party is, the more intense the crying. In addition to expressions, there are also some smells just mentioned, as well as the other party's clothing or decorations. It may seem commonplace in adults, but it may be a different sight in the eyes of your baby. Anyway, feeling uncomfortable will have a violent reaction, prompting parents to change.
As a parent, what is a good way to face the situation of your child?
Provide more security
Parents are the children's most dependent people, and the birth period is the child's most insecure time, at this time as a parent to see the child crying inexplicably, do not think that he is unreasonable, leave them alone or use "threatening" methods to stop them from crying. This will only get worse and worse, and the period of recognition will become longer and longer. Parents who understand should spend more time with their children, hug them, and give more encouragement.
Take your baby for a stroll
The things that the baby sees should be accumulated continuously, so that they slowly adapt to the outside environment, and they will not feel strange, let alone afraid. The so-called more protective, the more timid, the more vulnerable to harm. Therefore, parents should take their children out more, look at the outside world more, slowly weaken sensitivity, and adapt to a variety of environments, their reactions will not be too intense.
Be patient
Children cry when they encounter unfamiliar environments, and parents should be more patient. Although the sound of crying will make people feel irritable, but be sure to restrain their emotions, more patience to soothe them, so as to increase their sense of security, if the parents also yell, the baby will only be more afraid, futile.
Conclusion: The world of children is rich and simple, there is no reason to cry, so parents should look for reasons from their children, themselves and others, so that they can prescribe the right medicine and alleviate their children's "crying disorder" as soon as possible.