After the torment of pregnancy in October and the pain of childbirth, we as parents can see this lovely life as we wish.
And when the child is born, healthy and happy growth is our greatest expectation as parents.
Sometimes, when we see the child's cute face, delicate little arms, calves, it is inevitable to want to hug and kiss, but because many parents lack certain parenting experience, so inappropriate posture, or incorrect way of interacting with the child, for the child, it may cause "disaster".
The 3-year-old baby's spine injury is serious, and it is difficult to raise his head since then, and his father regrets it: I hurt it
Tong Tong is a 3-year-old little boy, from birth, is the "heart meat" of his parents, especially Tong Tong's father, every day as long as he comes home from work, he must interact with Tong Tong.
And the way tong tong dad interacts is the "source" of a disaster!
Every day when he comes home, tong tong dad will pick up the child, tong tong is happy every time, and this day is no exception, as usual, tong tong dad throws the child into the air, and then catches it, the cycle repeats, this is the most common game of "lifting high" between father and son.
But this time, what Tong Tong's father did not expect was that at the moment when he caught the child, there seemed to be a sound like a broken bone, followed by the cry of Tong Tong tearing his heart and lungs...
Realizing that the situation was not right, Tong Tong was urgently sent to the local hospital, after examination, Tong Tong's spine was seriously damaged, and there was also a certain fracture in the head, after timely treatment by the doctor, to avoid the occurrence of serious conditions such as cerebral palsy.
However, for Tong Tong, because of the deformation of his spine, his head can no longer be lifted!
In the face of such a result, Tong Tong's father regretted that he did not expect that the game that father and son liked to play the most, but it brought such a big disaster to the child.
When he saw Tong Tong pushed out of the rescue room, Tong Tong's father hid his face and cried bitterly: "It's all my bad, it's all me who hurt the child..."
In fact, similar to this kind of "lifting high" game, many children have encountered it, but such a game, for infants and young children whose spine is not yet fully developed, the danger is often in an instant.
The baby's spine development process, parents must understand
When the baby is in the mother's belly, because it is curled up, the spine also shows a "C shape", and after the child is born, the spine will become more and more straight, of course, the development is not yet perfect, so the bones are delicate and the spine is relatively fragile.
With age, when the baby is 3 months old, he slowly learns to look up, and at this time, the back muscles and neck muscles are exercised and strengthened, which is the baby's spine, the formation process of the first bend, but again, it is still relatively soft.
After this, the baby learns to sit and learn to walk, and they are increasing the degree of curvature of the spine, until the walking is getting better and better, about 1 year old, the spine enters the process of slowly shaping.
Although at the age of 1, it enters the stereotyping period, but at this time, the baby's spine is still relatively soft and fragile, so in daily life, whether it is hugging, or interacting with children to play, parents must be particularly careful.
These kinds of inappropriate behaviors may hurt the baby's spine, and parents should not be careless
1. Play with the baby and lift high
For many fathers, playing a game of lifting with their children is a way of love, but in fact, this way of loving is a bit rude and cruel.
On the one hand, in the process of playing, children are easy to control the force and throw the child out, on the other hand, the child's spine is soft and fragile, it is easy to collide, and even more serious things appear.
2. Hold the child prematurely
Vertical hugging and horizontal hugging are common postures for holding children, but for children who have not been born for a long time, it is best to hold them horizontally.
Because in the case of vertical hugging, it is difficult for the child's brain to have a support point, and over time, for the soft and delicate spine, it will produce wear and tear, which is not conducive to the development of the child's spine, and will also make the child dizzy.
Therefore, for babies within 1 year old, it is best to use the way of horizontal hugging, which is safer and more conducive to the development and growth of the child's body.
3. Let the child learn to sit too early
The development of things, follow a certain law, the growth and development of children, there are also traces to follow, if as a parent, blindly pulling seedlings to promote, children have not yet learned how to look up, it requires children to learn to sit, learn to walk, then it may cause serious damage to the child's spine, and finally gain more than losses, pay the price.
Something to say to you:
Every child is the heart of parents, we hope that every parent can master the scientific parenting knowledge, so that children can avoid a lot of potential dangers, and eventually grow up healthy and happy.