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Family affection is crucial for everyone. We long for affection, for the warmth that our brothers and sisters bring us, for their care, and for the mutual support with them.
However, reality always gives us a heads-up and sobers us up.
Especially when you reach a certain age, you will suddenly find that once it is about interests, about human nature, even if it is related to blood, the relationship between each other will not be as pure as you think.
Around us, how many brothers and sisters, for thousands of dollars to beat the head of the blood flow, and how many brothers and sisters who have loved each other, after growing up, after they have become a family, they are worried about a few things for their parents.
After reading this, you can probably understand why so many people have a weak relationship with their brothers and sisters, and even choose not to communicate directly.
Because once there is a conflict between brothers and sisters because of interests, even if there is a blood relationship, the relationship is no longer the same, and it is even more meaningless.
At this time, stopping the loss in time and not torturing each other may be the best policy.
Therefore, when your brothers and sisters also have irreconcilable conflicts with you because of one thing or another, and they are in cahoots with you, this often means that you can break off your friendship. Such brothers and sisters should not be left alone.
01 Like a "vampire", squeeze you
One of my friends was like that. As an older sister, she almost became half a mother of her brother. From the time she went to work to earn money, she gave her brother two thousand yuan a month, enough for her brother to graduate from college.
I thought that after my brother graduated, she would be relaxed and liberated, but I did not expect that more pressure was on her.
The dowry money for her brother's marriage, the car money for buying a car, and the house money for buying a house all require her to make a big deal. Someone may have said that she is just a sister, and these should be the responsibility of parents.
Speaking of which, it is very poignant. When she was 18 years old, both of her parents died, leaving her and her brother to live together. As an older sister, she had to take on the responsibilities she should have had as a parent.
She did not ask for anything in return, but she also hoped that her relationship with her brother would be closer. However, even if she gave so much and worked hard for her brother, his brother did not have the slightest gratitude for her.
After she helped her brother buy a house, buy a car, and marry his daughter-in-law, one of the things her brother did made her completely chill.
This matter is related to her marriage, after making several major things about her brother, she began to think about herself, wanted to have a good relationship and marriage, and also began to save dowry money for herself for marriage.
However, it was only 50,000 yuan, but the younger brother, at the instigation of his sister-in-law, hoped that his friend would use the 50,000 yuan to buy insurance for his soon-to-be-born child. This made my friend very sad and sad.
Her efforts did not make her brother and sister-in-law grateful, but let them intensify their efforts to squeeze themselves. In the face of such a brother, the friend was fierce and far away from the younger brother.
In reality, many such people, they take pleasure in squeezing their brothers and sisters, this mentality of taking advantage of them has made them complete "vampires".
Brothers and sisters should have helped each other, especially if their parents died early like friends, the two sisters and brothers should rely on each other for their lives. You care about me, I love you, and the relationship between each other can develop in a good direction.
So there is only the affection of taking, not to mention it.
02 Conspire to fight and treat the family as a place of interest
Wu Yang had only recently broken off contact with his two younger brothers, for no other reason than he was fed up with the intrigue between the two younger brothers.
He is a diligent man, who has been doing small business over the years, and his kindness and character are reliable, and the business is getting bigger and bigger. After developing, he did not forget his two younger brothers who were still in the countryside.
But since his brother mixed with his business, he has no more peaceful days. No matter how many times he said it, the two younger brothers were always dishonest and always criticized by others.
It's not a relief on the outside, and it's the same at home. The two younger brothers were wary of Wu Yang at every turn, fearing that Wu Yang would leave a hand and lose their money.
Later, rumors about Wu Yang having people outside came out, and Wu Yang knew that the two younger brothers were gossiping about themselves outside. The reason is jealousy of Wu Yang and wants to seize Wu Yang's market.
Ben wanted to take his two younger brothers to make money together, but he didn't expect to be so badly hurt by his two younger brothers. Wu Yang was furious and completely distanced himself from his two younger brothers.
Whether it is money or fame, jealousy, and comparison, they are all the reasons for destroying the feelings of brothers and sisters. When you see the faces of these people, stay away as soon as possible, such a relationship has long since deteriorated, such brothers and sisters, there is no such thing.
03 is very cold and impersonal
Even among friends, if there is a need for help, we will lend a helping hand, not to mention between brothers and sisters.
But some people are very indifferent, even if their brothers and sisters are in urgent need of help, they will first consider their own vital interests, regardless of the friendship between brothers and sisters.
Zhou Patrol suddenly fainted when he went to work, and when he went to the hospital for a check-up, he learned that he was seriously ill. His wife borrowed money everywhere and wanted to see as many doctors as possible.
On weekdays, Zhou Patrol has a good temper, is kind, and has good popularity, and when he hears that he is sick, he comes to send him money to express his heart, although it is not much, but it can also solve the urgent need.
But Zhou Tour's two sisters hid far away at this time, and did not come to see Zhou Patrol once. Zhou Patrol asked himself that he was very good to the two sisters on weekdays, and he would also buy things to see them on weekdays.
He didn't know why, his sister, who usually booed and asked him warmly, was now so cold, could it be that under money and interests, family affection would also deteriorate?
In Zhou Zhuan's heart, he had thought that even if the two sisters were not rich and did not have money to lend him, it would be better to come and see him. But now even this is a luxury.
Perhaps it was the early death of his parents that made the affection between the brothers and sisters become weak. In short, after this incident, Zhou Patrol also wanted to open, what sister and brother affection, living their own life is better than anything. Whether he can get better or not, he will not associate with the two sisters in the future, they are not worthy.
Not all siblings deserve respect, and not all feelings will be as warm as we think. Some people, even if they are related by blood, will only bring you harm and make you despair.
In the face of such brothers and sisters, the only way to stay away and break off relations. There are so many important things in our lives, why waste time on them?
We must always remember to leave time for those who deserve it and leave warmth to those who love us.
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