As post-90s generations, everyone has experienced childhood. Try to recall: Did our parents' education leave us with a profound impact? When we were young, our parents often told us to be a well-behaved child. Not only that, but they also teach us to be polite and to call uncles and aunts or brothers and sisters when we meet people we know well on the road. Under the guidance of such education, we have gradually developed a good personality that understands politeness and does not make a fuss.
When we grow up and become the parents of our children, we also continue the education methods of the older generation, teaching children to be polite and not fooling around, and also adding to teaching children to learn to be grateful and cherish what they have. However, we never seem to think carefully about how to guide children to learn better, and we have never carefully thought about the essence of education.
Until the emergence of the "double reduction policy" this year, many parents have become very flustered. Because in previous years, when the holidays were over, parents would always arrange various tutoring classes for their children early. Teachers who have been teaching for many years always understand the beautiful vision of each parent "looking forward to the son becoming a dragon and the daughter becoming a phoenix". It's just that they all want to pour a basin of cold water on their parents, and that is: not all children are suitable for reading. It's like some children are born very good at singing, while some children are born with incomplete pentatonics.
We often stress to our children that we must study hard, and those who do not study will have no future in the future. Think about it, when we were young, did we often hear this sentence, but did we really understand the good intentions of our parents at that time? Seeing this, it is estimated that most people will shake their heads. The reality is that we recognize the importance of education, but we never think about how to let children recognize education from the bottom of their hearts and learn to learn. The main reason for this embarrassing situation comes from the fact that we, as parents, do not fully understand the essence of education.
What is the essence of education? This question, after careful study and discussion, came to such a good sentence, that is: the essence of education is to light the lamp, parents should lead the child to find their own best field, and then continue to develop the child's strengths, avoid their own shortcomings, meet a better self. Is education only in school? The answer is definitely so as parents, what we have to learn is how to be the guide of our children's growth.
Thank you to all readers for reading "Teacher He's educational notes", so that we can all insist on learning and be a good guide for the growth of children.