Women always think that if you like someone, you should stick together 24 hours a day, or how can you call it a real like?
But after a long time, the other party will also feel tired, after all, whose time is limited, can not spend all of his time here, he has more important things to do.
Don't feel that he doesn't accompany you or doesn't love you, if you pester him like this again, it will only make him farther and farther away from you, slowly making the feeling no longer fresh, and even the love for you is not as strong as before.
In fact, smart women don't contact men every day, she knows how to give each other space and let him feel free, rather than tying him tightly around and making him feel bound.
Women should remember that no matter how much they love someone, they should not contact each other every day, only in this way can they make their feelings more long-lasting.
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Contact every day, will lose the sense of freshness
Should we be in touch every day when we are in love? Probably this is the case in most cases, after all, people who are in love, where they are willing not to contact each other, where they are willing not to see each other's face.
But after this period of love, it is different, and even if you contact each other every day, it will only make the other party feel bored, and at the same time, the relationship will lose its freshness.
If you really cherish this relationship, then don't contact him frequently, you think this is a manifestation of love for him, but in the eyes of the other party, he is bound and completely free, so how dare he continue to get along with you?
There are many ways to love, not necessarily every day to contact, can ensure that your love lasts forever, but there is a distance of love, in order to make your feelings continue to develop.
The so-called distance produces beauty, occasionally separated for a period of time, but can make each other more aware of each other's existence, but also can make each other more fresh, learn to love skillfully, in order to go better.
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Let him feel your importance, he will not be able to do without you
When a woman falls in love, she always wants to keep the man around, and wastes a lot of brain cells for this, not knowing how to keep his heart.
She thought that as long as he kept in touch with him every day, let him feel his enthusiasm, let him know how much he loved him, he would naturally be moved, and naturally he would stay by his side.
As everyone knows, the more you do this, the farther he escapes, and he will feel that you will not leave him anyway, so why should he be good to you again?
Some women will always ask in a wronged manner: "Why do I love him so much, but he still wants to leave me?" "But have you ever asked yourself what reason do you have for him to stay?"
Instead of pestering him every day and making him feel bored, it is better to change your thinking, do not contact every day, or even disappear for a while, let him feel the importance of you, he will naturally come back to you.
Wanting a man to be inseparable from you is never something you can get by entanglement, but to make him feel that you are important and make him feel inseparable from you.
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Improve yourself well, he will naturally take the initiative to contact you
Instead of struggling with whether to contact him or not, it is better to calm down and improve yourself, which is more important than anything, and when you get better and better, he will naturally come to you.
People are like this, you have been upside down, he may not appreciate it, you stay away from him, he is not used to it, and wants to reconnect with you.
Therefore, love a person again, do not contact every day, which will make the feelings lose freshness, and at the same time let him not feel the importance of you, it is better to improve yourself, let him understand that you are not necessary.
Your attitude is the key to determining this relationship, when you put your attitude there, he naturally knows that you may leave at any time, so how can he not be careful?
Even if he still doesn't contact you, it doesn't matter, you at least find what you want to do, there is no love, there are more important things to do, which can better reflect your value.
And as you become more and more valuable, you will naturally attract more excellent people, and it no longer matters whether he is willing to contact you or not.