Text/Wei Chen
I mentioned a point of view before, to see if a person can become a talent, it is not to see whether he will learn, but to see if he will play.
Many people may think that this statement is simply funny, but in fact it is closer to reality.
Similarly, to see if a person's life can get better and better, it is not to see if he will save money, but to see if he will spend money.
Affluent life is never saved, making money requires technology, and spending money requires art.
People who understand technology can make more or less money as long as they work hard, but few people will do in-depth research on spending money.
Bill Gates once said, "Spending a sum of money skillfully is just as difficult as earning it." "Spending money is not an easy task, and where to spend the money represents the level of the person's thoughts and the real needs of the heart."
If you look closely, you'll see that the way a person spends money is closely tied to his level of life. Behind this lies the real psychology.
Some people are always overly optimistic, full of confidence in their ability to make money, and will always be hot in their brains to consume ahead of time.
Such people are likely to be a psychological deficiency, and sometimes their consumption does not mean that they really like something, but that vanity is at work.
People who consume ahead seem to have a dashing life, but in fact, they lack a sense of security, precisely because they need more things in their hearts, so they try to make up for it through other ways, which is called "psychological compensation mechanism" in psychology.
The level of life does not depend on the brand of external materials, those who like to wear famous brands and love to show themselves, may not have very bad economic conditions, but their lives are difficult to have a big improvement.
In fact, money is a spiritual thing, and a person's attitude toward money is often his attitude towards life.
People who can make money and spend money are the ones who are truly happy. And most people in life so-called spend money, not really will spend, but an unplanned consumption behavior.
Rousseau said: "The money in our hands should be a tool to maintain freedom and realize value, not to value money until we become slaves to money." ”
People who spend money cleverly avoid the traps of consumerism around them, and they are able to stay awake at all times and spend their money where they spend it.
People who don't spend money often act impulsively, and regret it after spending.
Everyone in life has their own unique way of life, some people live for face, and some people only live for their own hearts.
Whether a person's life can get better or better depends on their view of life. People who have lost themselves, even if they are bright and beautiful, still have a bad life.
Only those who can find their true selves and respect themselves can make life better and better.
Looking at a person's level depends on whether he spends money on the worldly vision or only pays for his own inner fullness.
Spending money, although it is only a small thing, can truly reflect a person's attitude towards life.
Short-sighted people, who only follow primitive desires to indulge themselves, have no plans. People with long-term vision, self-discipline and moderation, will adhere to the basic principle of "good steel is used on the blade" in the matter of spending money.
Where a man spends his money, his harvest is where he gains. Now that the stage of focusing on food and clothing has passed, the improvement of the inner is the focus.
There are two types of spending money, one is pure consumption and the other is semi-investment. The purely consumed money is gone, and the semi-invested money can be returned.
Planned people generally do not let their consumption show a pure consumption pattern, they spend while keeping accounts, they will not save money in order to save money, but will make every sum of money go clearly.
Our lives never stop at the surface, so we don't have to dwell on the world.
You must spend your money on more meaningful and worthwhile things, and learn to invest in yourself in order to better realize your life ideals.
People who are overly frugal can live a peaceful life, but it is difficult to have a sense of happiness.
Arrange every penny reasonably, not only make your life comfortable, but also keep the funds in your hands stable.
Each of us comes into this world to taste sadness and helplessness while looking for joy and happiness.
The appearance of life has never been too good, only by learning the artistic processing, so that the experience will not be too bad.
There is a saying in la Traviata that reads: "Money is a good servant and a bad master." "Whether we are masters of money or slaves to money does not depend on money itself, but on ourselves who own it.
We must be both calculating and giving ourselves appropriate rewards. Life must have rewards as encouragement, in order to have the motivation to keep moving forward.
Everyone spends money differently, so the life experienced will not be the same. People who can spend money use money as tools, and people who don't spend money are kidnapped by the economy.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip]
About author: Wei Chen, freelance writer. He loves literature and has a certain understanding of poetry and literary works.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.