Tingting's mother suddenly received a call from her daughter's teacher yesterday, saying: "Tingting's mother, you come to school, there is something to tell you." ”
She felt very strange, her daughter Tingting was a very well-behaved little girl, who had never caused trouble at school, what was wrong? When I got to school, I learned that my daughter had wet her pants.
When Tingting saw her mother, she cried and said, "Mom, I'm sorry, I didn't hold back my urine." I don't want to go to school tomorrow, and my classmates will laugh at me. ”
Tingting, a 10-year-old girl, is now in the fourth grade, introverted and well-behaved, and has good grades, which is a girl who reassures her parents. Why do you wet your pants? The reason was that I didn't want to interrupt the teacher's class, and then I couldn't hold back, and finally I peed my pants. Originally, she thought of warming her pants and waiting until school was over, but she was accidentally discovered by the male classmate at the back table, who laughed and shouted: "Look, Tingting peed her pants, haha!" "So it was known to the teacher and the whole class.
After the mother took Tingting home, she didn't ask a word, first found clean clothes for the child to change into, and then took her into her arms and gently said to her: "You don't have to say sorry to your mother, it's all over, you're at home now, no one laughs at you." If you don't want to go to school tomorrow, your mom can ask your teacher for a leave of absence. Tingting breathed a long sigh of relief, and then nodded.
Mom saw that Tingting was not so nervous, and then said, "When I first gave birth to you before, I also wet my pants (leakage of urine). So your mood Mom completely understands. ”
Tingting, who was comforted by her mother, was in a much better mood. Then the mother called the class teacher again, told the teacher that her daughter did not want to go to school because she was afraid of the jokes of her classmates, and asked how to solve it. The teacher said, "Mother Tingting, you can rest assured that there will be nothing tomorrow, so let her come to school with peace of mind." ”
After the mother put down the phone, she relayed the teacher's words to Tingting, and also said: "Tomorrow you can still choose not to go to school, but the day after tomorrow, the longer you escape, this matter will not be resolved." When things are solved, this is what you tell your mother! Only if you face it, this matter will pass quickly. ”
The next day Tingting went to school with a hard scalp, and after school, she was in a good mood, because her classmates didn't seem to remember yesterday. It can be seen that the teacher handled it well and did not cause great harm to the child's psychology!
From the handling of this matter, I have to admire Tingting's mother's handling method, of course, the teacher is also indispensable, the healthy growth of the child is inseparable from the help of parents and teachers.
Regarding the matter of the child's pants, Xin's mother would like to say:
1, the big thing, not as important as eating and drinking Lasa, even if the teacher is in class, you can boldly raise your hand, tell the teacher that you want to go to the toilet, people have three urgencies, I believe the teacher will understand.
2, no matter how old the child is, as long as the child has a problem at school, as a parent, we should first solve the problem, not to blame the child, nor impulsively to investigate who is responsible, to solve the problem is the first priority.
3, the child is a child after all, never stand in the adult's point of view to think about the problem, she is still small, experience is also very little, adults think that small things, for children may be a big thing.
4. When there is a problem in the school, the first time should be to communicate with the teacher, after all, the school's affairs, the teacher is the most clear. Teachers, like parents, are the custodians of their children, and consult with teachers to find positive solutions to minimize harm to children.
In the child's heart, the teacher's right to speak is always more authoritative than the parent's. It is recommended that parents have problems, directly and concisely tell the teacher, on the one hand, the teacher can clearly understand our concerns, on the other hand, to avoid the misunderstanding caused by untimely communication.
The growth of children is inseparable from the teacher's teaching and encouragement, but also inseparable from the care and participation of parents, the two complement each other, so that children can grow up healthily, may we all be the guides on the road of children's growth!
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