Today's parents are very attentive to the growth of their children, afraid that their children will be bullied. Especially after going to school, parents are most worried about whether their children will be bullied by other children! If a child is bullied at school, parents tend to take the following 3 wrong actions, especially point 3.
First, let the child fight back, if he can fight back, he will not be bullied, win the battle and learn to solve the problem violently, and the psychological shadow of losing is more serious.
Second, forget it, the other party is also a child. Calming people will only let the children blindly tolerate it, and it will become more and more instigated.
Parents blindly let their children hide and tolerate it, which will make their children more and more cowardly and timid. Others look at the child as a bully, and may bully him next time.
Third, hurry up to find the teacher and find the other parent.
I tell you that children who bully others generally have some problems in their hearts, and family education is a problem. You go to the teacher to find the parents to treat the symptoms, not the root cause, because the things between the children are not resolved.
School is like a small society, and children will inevitably have friction with their classmates at school. If our own children are bullied or even beaten up in school, the attitude of parents has a great impact on the children.
In this regard, the founder of the Chinese dream education idea, Teacher Chen Wumin, believes that children who are bullied in school must be paid attention to, must not be big things into small things, find a teacher to meet each other's parents, you have to be very serious to tell the other parents, you absolutely do not allow such things to happen a second time.
If the other party continues to bully your child, you will directly take the child to the hospital for various examinations, and then submit a copy of the invoice for the examination to the school leader, so that the school leader can find the parents to lose money, as long as it is like this once, to ensure that the child will no longer bully your child.
When the child is bullied, the parent must be a strong backing for the child. Parents should teach their children to think of ways to protect themselves first. When we educate our children, we must have a nurturing that does not hurt people, and at the same time, we must also have the aura that keeps children from being hurt. Let's not take the initiative to bully others, it's a matter of principle.
When children are still young, parents should educate their children about their sense of independence. Let the child know what to do and what not to do, and have confidence in encountering people and things.
Physical exercise should be strengthened. When you encounter danger, you can at least escape when you can't fight. It is even more important to let children focus more on learning and do a good job in school - in general, school violence rarely occurs in children with particularly good academic performance.