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A boy talks to his mom on the phone
Video of out-of-control shouting "I love you"
Touched many netizens
The teacher said
The boys in the video are usually very restrained
But lately parents don't often stay at home
As soon as he heard his mother's voice, he began to choke
Then the emotions ran out of control and shouted
"Mom, you've worked hard, I love you!"
Coincidentally
There is also a teacher in class
Let the students bravely confess to their parents
A boy hadn't spoken yet
I can't cry anymore
"Mom, I love you!"
"It's nice to have you!"
And the mother's reaction is also very heartwarming
"I love you too!"
"I love you more than you love me!"
Children sitting in the audience
Originally, he was still slightly shy and laughing
But after listening to the conversation between mother and son
They were all moved to tears
Finished watching the video
Are you also red-eyed?
You remember yourself last time
Say "I love you" to parents/children
When?
"Love should be spoken out loud"
It is a phrase often quoted in advertising slogans
There are many ways to express love
But language is the most direct way
However, for most people
A way to express love
Usually implicit and restrained
Parents don't like to talk
Children are not embarrassed to say
A lot of times it's missed
The best time to express feelings
Tell your child "I love you"
How important is it?
The expression of parents' love for their children is an important spiritual nourishment in the process of children's growth.
Liang Qichao, a modern thinker and politician, has nine children, all of whom have become great talents, and his family has the reputation of "three academicians in one discipline, and all nine sons are talented". When the world explores Liang Qichao's parenting methods, it is found that he is an "alternative father".
Unlike most Chinese fathers, Liang often tells his children how much he loves them. In his lifetime, Liang Qichao wrote more than 400 family letters to his children, totaling more than one million words. He once confessed in a letter to the children:
You must know that your father is the most emotional person, and for your love, twelve points of enthusiasm...
Liang Qichao gives children not only traditional education, but also full of love and generosity. How many parents can express their love to their children as bluntly as he does?
Some people say that "love" is not a simple three words or a few words, but is embodied by action, but in fact, love needs action and also needs to be expressed.
"I love you" is the most magical phrase in the world, the source of a family centripetal force.
When parents take the initiative to say this to their children, the children will have a full sense of security for their parents and families, have a greater sense of dependence emotionally, and understand the meaning brought by their families. In this way, children will also know more how to love others and love the world.
Love is an ability
Break through the choked resistance in the throat to make a sound
It's more of a force
So, how do parents get on the good
"The Education and Expression of Love" this lesson
How do you get your child to learn to say "I love you"?
Learn to put love on your lips
Love should be said out loud, parents often only do not say, in the long run, children not only do not understand, some will also have "parents are too strict with me, do not love me" such ideas. The phrase "I love you" is an effective way to convey love to children, which will make children feel the love and dependence of their parents. As long as you have a feeling in your heart, you must say it to let him know, and at the same time, parents should also teach their children to express their feelings in a timely manner.
Express your love for your child with hugs
Hugging a child, through the physical contact between parents and children, is a good way to convey love and affection. Parents can express their love through such intimacy. This expression of love allows children to grow up in the infiltration of love, creates a sound psychology and good moral character of children, and lays the necessary foundation for children's development.
A gift of love for a child
Giving gifts is a powerful way to express love. When it comes to giving gifts, the effects often last years later. The most meaningful gifts become symbols of love, and those that truly convey love are part of the word of love. Gifts given to children will eventually become things that show the love of parents.
unconsciously
2022 has arrived
Remember to the people closest to you
Say "I love you"!
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