Families with general family conditions and more children will generally pursue the virtues of thrift and thrift, and children who grow up in such an environment will inevitably learn to understand and save early.
At the beginning of the new semester, a detailed list of kindergarten fees was exposed on the Internet, which unexpectedly resonated with many parents, and now
Having children and raising children is becoming more and more expensive, and the cost of education is a huge expense.
This is also why many parents at present, after giving birth to their first child, dare not or are unwilling to have a second child and three children, to put it bluntly, they are afraid of not being able to raise and raising well, which reduces the quality of life of their children and makes their children happy.
Regardless of family situation, it is not wrong for parents to teach their children to be diligent and thrifty from an early age, which is also one of the traditional virtues, but parents on the Internet are because of it
The scraps of a piece of food have sparked a quarrel over how to raise children.
Parents bought "scraps" for their children to eat, but they did not expect to trigger other parental accusations on the Internet
Here's the thing, on a social platform, a bao mom excitedly posted her shopping "record" of the day, but when she saw the food photos she uploaded, netizens couldn't sit still.
Only to see this mother dry out a large bag of squeezed deformed pastries, it does not look very good, the caption reads
"I heard that the two babies like to eat cakes, but the cake shop in front of the house is too expensive, and they picked up leaks and bought good polygonal scraps!"
This so-called cake scraps, in fact, are the various bakeries on the market in the cake, in order to make the shape of the scraped cake corners, fragments, because these materials can no longer be used, so buyers will hoard up to pack cheap to sell to people who need it.
We generally can't buy these cheap cake scraps directly in the market, and this mother obviously went to the cake shop and asked the owner to buy them.
Although the cake bought in this way is not formed, the price is very low.
However, what people did not expect was that Bao Ma's proud saving and leak-picking behavior was actually criticized by a large number of netizens on the Internet.
"Is it really my own child to buy cake scraps to eat..." "The cheap pastries in the cake shop are not expensive, why only buy scraps for children to eat?"
Some people think that this mother is too picky, knowing that the child likes to eat cake, but only buys scraps for the child to eat, and some people stand on the perspective of their parents and express concerns about the mother's education method.
"I am also a parent, but I never buy scraps for my children that others don't want, and the conditions at home are almost as good as to make my children live a decent life.
Poor parents can only raise babies with inferiority! ”
Poor parents can only raise inferiority babies, and netizens have accused mothers of buying cake scraps
Too many accusations continued to ferment on the Internet, and finally the mother who bought the cake scraps could only come out and explain that she was not a parent who cut the door, nor did she deliberately want to make the child inferior.
It turned out that this mother had given birth at home
After the second child, the original general family situation is even more difficult
In terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation, they are all provinces and provinces, and they want to spend most of the funds on their children's education and tuition fees.
Therefore, buying cake scraps is only a habit in weekdays, after all, the scraps are only a little ugly in shape, no different from cakes, and the children are also very happy to eat, and they do not feel that their mothers are poor.
As soon as this remark came out, some netizens understood the mother's mentality, and some people said that this mother is actually not poor and acidic.
Our family's monthly income is 15,000, my mother still goes to the cake shop to buy scraps, what is this?
Indeed, the act of buying cake scraps proves nothing, and if it is a good and inexpensive commodity, what is the problem? It can save money and eat the same delicious food, and can also transmit the concept of virtue to the child.
Spend money on the blade,
I believe that many people have heard this sentence, and parents sometimes save money, but they transfer the money to the education investment that their children need more, which is also a very wise way of education.
Author's opinion
The author feels that eating cake scraps is beyond reproach, even if it is
Families with very good family conditions also have parents who are willing to walk to the small market to buy a few dollars cheaper dishes
This is all a manifestation of the older generation's concept of saving.
If parents can convey healthy lifestyles and financial concepts to their children through their daily behavior, this is also a good way to educate, and we should not blame them.
Even
Bill Gates, the world's richest man, once parked his car in a more remote place because the parking lot was too expensive.
So we shouldn't laugh at savings, we should look down on people who don't know how to respect others, who only know how to comment.
Today's topic: Do you think this mother's behavior of buying cake scraps is wrong?