Recently, I saw a video of a pregnant woman wearing a coat that reads "Pregnant women, please do not push and do not squeeze" on the subway in the morning rush hour. I thought this was just a very ordinary video, but I didn't expect the comment area to be a little "not ordinary":
Some people in the comments asked why pregnant women were still crammed into the subway during rush hour in the morning and didn't buy a car.
Why don't you quit your job and stay at home when you're pregnant, and run around.
I admire those who are pregnant and still insist on going to work, life is so short, why not so desperately!
One of the comments, which was very much liked, said: Anyway, she has a failed husband, does not have that idle life, and does not accept rebuttals. Look at my sister, who became a full-time wife at home after she became pregnant. It all depends on my husband to raise, and I can also raise my sister's family. The bitter sisters who do not have this fate come to spray though. The words were full of contempt and accusations against the pregnant woman— who made your husband incompetent.
This video reminds me of a recent post: A netizen posted and asked: "Is it really humiliating to buy cake scraps after working for many years?" In fact, she often had the habit of going to the cake shop. It happened that the scraps left behind by the cake shop were much cheaper than the finished cake. Therefore, after she bought a bag of cake scraps and took a photo and posted it on the Internet, she did not expect that it would lead to various attacks on the Internet.
Some commentators have said: If I have worked so hard for so many years, I would still be complacent about picking up this kind of cheapness, and I feel a little desolate. Saving is a good thing, but excessive saving is not necessary. The scraps were squashed in the bag and didn't taste good. You should be nice to yourself.
All sorts of information, even some so-called concerns, are filled with the "upper class" look down. Like the video of a pregnant woman on the subway, they find it very cheap and undignified — a life that would undoubtedly be a failure if that was her life in her 30s.
Of course, there are also many netizens with more positive views. To be honest, I can't understand this series of remarks. In the absence of experiencing the suffering of others, why should we evaluate others from our own point of view, not everyone has the same advantages, and sometimes there is no comparison between people.
When one group of people questions why there is such a dilapidated place, another group of people who run every day to survive don't even have time to explain.
Pregnant women squeezed in the subway also know that she should concentrate on raising tires; netizens who bought scrap cakes also know that the whole cake is better; but the reality is that not everyone has easy capital. So don't judge other people's lives like a spectator.
Although different life experiences make it difficult for each other to understand each other. However, when other people drink soup and eat meat themselves, it is also a kind of kindness to not spit on them.