Children's emotional intelligence refers to children's emotional quotient, which mainly includes: self-confidence, responsibility, empathy, interpersonal communication, frustration resistance, emotional management, problem solving, independence, concentration, creativity, leadership, gratitude and other 12 aspects.
If you want to raise a baby with high emotional intelligence, the most important thing parents should do is: positive emotional feedback.
It sounds a little difficult to understand, but in fact, it is a big vernacular, more care for children.
For babies aged 0-1, they can't talk.
So every time they shouted and cried, it was a time when they needed it.
Parents should always pay attention to the baby, meet his needs, and give him enough security.
In addition, touch your baby more, teach him simple words, and satisfy his desire to explore the world.
Only when they are cared for in their lives can they build trust in the world and thus lay a solid foundation for their personality development.
Babies aged 2-3 years old will have great fluctuations in their emotions.
There will be a clear distinction between "self" and "others", there will be a situation of "food protection", unwilling to share, and even start shouting.
Parents should strengthen and consolidate good emotions, promote their good emotional development, and guide the baby's bad emotions.
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Children over the age of 4 have greatly increased their behavioral power.
Beginning to make his initial move towards group life, his imitation and curiosity were greatly enhanced, but his concept of right and wrong had not yet been fully formed.
Maybe he'll learn to swear and fight like Ultraman.
At this time, parents must not feel that the source is in animation, the source lies in the guidance of parents, and children at this time need more parental care and patience.
In terms of interpersonal relationships, if parents do not care enough, it will lead to emotional hunger in children;
If the child is afraid of the teacher, it will affect his future studies;
If you don't get along well with other children, it will cause his personality to become withdrawn.
Any kind of relationship that is not handled well will affect the child's personality to a certain extent.
Therefore, parents should not only pay attention to the relationship with their children, but also pay attention to their behavior in kindergarten and classmates.
In a sense, emotional intelligence is even more important than IQ, and as future societies become more diverse and integrated, higher emotional intelligence will help a person succeed.
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[Author of this article]: Director Li of Orangutan Village
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