Have you ever been on the school's honor roll?
Recently, the honor roll of a middle school in Guangdong 5 years ago was on fire.
We all know that the people who can generally go to the school honor roll are the school bullies.
However, what attracted everyone this time was not the high score on the list, but the above alternative "listing testimonials".
How different is it, you can feel it on your own
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This Yu classmate, who was on the honor roll four times, since the first time he used "long winds and waves will sometimes be" as a testimonial, he directly repeated it four times later.
It's just that what he repeats is funny, and each testimonial seems to be the same, but different.
It's really personal.
There are also students on the list who cooperate to create testimonials.
"Physics is the light that illuminates the path of chemistry"
"Chemistry is the way, the pit to the living"
"Biology is a pit, pit science students"
……
From physics to chemistry and biology, one link after another, interesting and talented.
Of course, the students who are on the honor roll are also very "modest" and bluntly say that "both sides are better than me."
forehead... We don't know if this counts as "Versailles".
The brothers next to them are not willing to show weakness, and directly leave a few big words of "support for the Golden State Warriors"!
The following Lu student is even more interesting.
Some netizens said after reading it, where is the list of testimonials, is a funny paragraph!
I have to say that today's children are becoming more and more individual and more and more interesting.
Compared with the same famous sayings, these interesting passages are more grounded for children.
Children can see it to be motivating, isn't it?
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Although the above paragraph testimonials are interesting, some parents do not like it after reading it.
They believe that such a testimonial is really not serious enough, and it is not in line with the image of "role model".
But what exactly should a "role model" look like?
In fact, the reason why some parents cannot accept such a personalized testimonial is that in the final analysis, they have certain stereotypes about "good students" and "school bullies".
I always feel that people who are role models should be low-key and modest, study well, and jokes seem a bit "improper".
But the writer Jia Pingwa once said this, he said:
"One can be ignorant, but one cannot be boring."
A truly good child is not just someone who only learns.
Emotional intelligence, love quotient, frustration quotient, etc., are all what excellent children must have.
And the cultivation of these abilities is inseparable from one ability, that is, "sense of humor".
Humor is a form of soft power!
The American psychologist Boutru once said:
"Humor can lubricate relationships, clear tensions, reduce stress in life, and make life more fun." It pulls us out of our personal world, allowing us to see each other and find good friends. It helps us to get rid of our embarrassments and difficulties, strengthen our confidence, and forge ahead on the path of life. ”
It can be said that compared to dull and boring people. People with humor and fun tend to have more opportunities in their lives.
In order for their children to have more possibilities in the future, parents should pay attention to the cultivation of children's sense of humor.
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Psychologists say that 30% of the sense of humor comes from innate personality, and 70% is cultivated.
Zhou Guoping, a famous scholar and writer, said: "Children naturally have a tendency to humor, but this tendency needs to be encouraged to fully show it, and this is the responsibility of parents." If a child is gifted normally but not humorous, the responsibility must be on the adult. ”
So how do you cultivate your child's sense of humor? Try a few of the following methods.
First, seize the golden period and cultivate children's sense of humor
Teacher Xiao Lou, a senior psychological counselor and parenting expert, said in "Self-Awakening, Giving Children the Best Native Family" that the best time to cultivate children's sense of humor is childhood.
Children's physical and mental development has a stage, the development of humor is not achieved overnight, we should consciously cultivate children's sense of humor according to the development law of each stage of children.
Second, be friends with your children and accompany your children to grow up in a "sense of humor"
Education expert Yin Jianli does not criticize her daughter when she makes mistakes, but often jokes that she is "like Newton" because they once read a small story about Newton's mistakes. Yin Jianli uses humor to resolve conflicts, make parenting easier, and subtly let children learn a sense of humor.
National anchor Li Jiaqi was once challenged by a primary school student. This child named "Tian tian", imitating the tone, body movements and expression of Li Jiaqi's selling goods, came to a "live broadcast" for his stationery, and suddenly became popular on the whole network.
Behind such a funny child must stand interesting parents. His father is also a "drama master", and co-producing a video with his son about "parents' training after the exam" is also unbearable.
From Yin Jianli and Tiantian's father getting along with their children, it can be seen that they put down the posture of "parents", talked to children with an equal posture, and educated children in a humorous way, and achieved good results.
Parents are the child's first teacher, parents treat life with a humorous attitude, and under the subtlety, children will also laugh at life with an optimistic and humorous attitude.
Third, accumulate knowledge and give children a talent for their "sense of humor"
Wang Han's hosting style is relaxed and humorous, which is quite popular with the audience. In his "Every Day Upwards" program, golden sentences are frequently published:
"My father is from Jiangsu and my mother is from Hunan, and they say I'm a 'Jianghu person', and I 'often kill people' (Changsha people)."
"It is said that marriage is the graveyard of love, but if there is no marriage, is love not dead and buried?" 」
Such handy and humorous words are not something that can be possessed overnight, but are the result of long-term cultural cultivation and educational cultivation.
Shakespeare said, "Humor and humor are flashes of wisdom." ”
Humor is a very important cognitive performance of children, and smart children will know how to apply humor. Therefore, in life, parents can let their children read more books, travel, increase their insights and exercise language expression.
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Humor is an attitude.
Embrace humor and reap happiness; embrace humor and reap a more exciting life.
Life is long, and children need such an optimistic and positive attitude to guide them.
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