In the information age, it is impossible not to let children touch mobile phones, as parents, how can we control children's mobile phone addiction? Let the child take the initiative to put down the mobile phone, and today the seventh brother will teach you.
Playing is the nature of children, children like their parents to play with them, like to play with their peers, but in real life most parents are busy, busy working, busy making money, busy socializing, and some are even busy playing mahjong.
In order not to be stuck by the child, some parents throw the mobile phone to the child to play, which is a very wrong behavior and an irresponsible way of tutoring.
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Try to limit the time your child uses the mobile phone, because playing with the mobile phone for a long time will damage the child's vision, cause myopia, and affect the child's visual system.
Playing with mobile phones will also cause many harms to the child's brain and affect the child's brain nerve development.
The child's interaction with the screen is very limited, he is only passively receiving information, then this information is far from enough for the developing brain, and the visual stimulation is not enough, affecting the child's ability to recognize colors, track objects, deep perception and so on.
Playing mobile phones will destroy the child's biological rhythm, this is very easy to understand, the light emitted by the mobile phone screen, he is different from the natural sunlight, it is mainly blue light, then this light, will inhibit the production of melatonin in the body, melatonin this switch, if it does not work, just like our factory commuter ringtone failure, when to go to work, when to rest do not know, affect the growth and development of children, causing irreversible damage to health.
Affects children's interpersonal skills. Because the human brain, the best is face-to-face communication, this interactive learning, including learning to recognize the emotions of others, identify the intentions of others, how to properly communicate with people without conflict, how to regulate their emotions in conflict, etc., these abilities, it is impossible to learn on the mobile phone, if you do not communicate with real people will affect the child's ability to social interaction, then this harm is particularly great, so you must let the child interact with the real person, rather than interact with the machine.
But it is impossible to completely prohibit children from looking at mobile phones, so that children are completely insulated from electronic devices, which is unrealistic, now is the information age, the homework released by the teacher, the children's online classes, punching on the mobile phone, ah, must use the mobile phone, so it is impossible to avoid letting the child touch the mobile phone.
Parents should learn to manage their children's use of mobile phones more humanely.
The first is to limit the time, each time you look at the screen does not exceed the time you and your child agreed, this time limit varies from person to person. Children are limited to 10 minutes per day until the age of five, 20 minutes per day after the age of five, and may be extended to 30 minutes in primary schools depending on the situation. In short, there can be no more, I generally take the timer approach, and collect the phone as soon as the time comes.
There is a situation that parents should pay special attention to, if you take your child out to play, party with friends, go to relatives, the child may feel bored, he will make trouble, will pestering you, at this time you must not take the mobile phone out to the child to pass the time, we have to prepare a small toy for the child before traveling, picture books and other items, you have to let the child have something to do, the child plays with toys to write and draw, it will not stick to you.
The main reason why children like to play with mobile phones is that in life, you do not build him other sources of happiness.
Therefore, parents usually have to play with their children, interact with their children, take their children to participate in outdoor activities, such as climbing, running, playing football, visiting museums, visiting libraries, and cultivating children's interests and hobbies, he does not need to go to electronic devices to find this sense of satisfaction, and children will not worry about this mobile phone.
Therefore, the mobile phone itself is not a problem, but the wrong way of education of our parents.
Let the child live a full life, do not let the child feel that space is boring, otherwise he will always want to play with the mobile phone.
It is easy for parents to play with mobile phones for their children, and it is more difficult for children to take the initiative to turn in mobile phones, especially children who are in a rebellious period in junior high school, and it is difficult for him to take the initiative to turn in mobile phones.
One of the key steps is to tell the child that if you feel that you have any secrets and are afraid that your parents know, you can lock the phone, and the APP can also set a password, but the premise is that the phone must be kept by the parents and returned to him next time.
Tell your child that it is a period of growth, to ensure adequate sleep, and to have the energy to study well the next day.
My son is now in the eighth grade, when he was in the early years of elementary school, we gave him a mobile phone, and on the day of the mobile phone, about the use of the mobile phone and the storage, we had a family meeting with the child, and the child reached an agreement.
We stipulate that from Monday to Friday, in addition to learning to consult materials, you can not brush videos and games, and actively turn in your mobile phone after learning. Saturday and Sunday morning homework and review. Playing mobile phones and sports in the afternoon to do housework is alternate, the time limit is within half an hour, because one time can not let the child play for too long mobile phone, so this method not only respects the child, but also the most practical in the implementation process.
Parents should put down their posture, communicate well with their children, and after reaching an agreement, the children will also abide by the rules. Parents and children should get along like friends, talk about the future today, children will also like this feeling, the dependence on mobile phones will naturally be reduced, will not be addicted to mobile phones and can not extricate themselves.
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Let more parents know how to let their children put down their mobile phones, so that more parents and children can benefit.
I am the seventh brother, focusing on family education for 14 years, deeply solving children's education problems.
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