Pregnancy is a happy thing for every pregnant mother, especially when seeing the baby born smoothly, that feeling is really indescribable, to know the entire hard pregnancy, finally see the baby in front of their eyes, there are many mothers will be excited to cry, but then there is a problem related to the baby feeding, mention the matter of raising a baby, I believe many mothers will have a feeling of playing games to pass the monster, especially for the first two years of the baby, I thought this level was over, But what is coming is another level of new challenges, so how can there be this sentence: "Women are weak, and mothers are strong", if it were not for baoma's strong inner support, otherwise they would have collapsed countless times. In fact, in the process of taking the baby, the mother will experience these three difficult stages, so look at the following three stages, how many have you experienced?
1. The first three months
With the baby smoothly and safely to the side of the mother, in addition to the pleasure, more is the mother will encounter a lot of unexpected problems, especially for the novice mother, in the first three months of the baby, is the special need for the mother's attention to the stage, to know that for the first three months of the baby, the need for the mother of special care, from the care of the umbilical cord to sleep at night, feeding, changing diapers for the mother is a test, I believe many mothers have had this experience, Generally in the first three months with the baby, it is almost difficult to sleep a stable sleep, if at this time to meet a non-contentious bao dad, it is really a mental and physical blow for the baby mom, and I believe that there are many bao moms will also encounter the problem of the baby's illness, such as a cold fever or abnormal stool, etc., will make the baby mother helpless, difficult to resist, so at this time the novice mother may wish to communicate with some parenting experience of the mother, encounter the baby feeding related problems, You can also find a way to cope in time, and you will not be under too much pressure alone.
2. When weaning
To know that weaning the baby is never an easy task, I believe that the mother who has weaned the experience knows that weaning the baby can be said to be the second separation from the mother, the process is really difficult, some mothers say that when they weaned the baby at that time, they really cried with the baby, breastfeeding him, then the back will definitely be more difficult to break, but do not give him to eat, look and pain to no, and when weaning the baby's resistance will be relatively weak, easy to get sick, So this also requires more careful care of the mother, here to remind the mothers, if the way of weaning is wrong, such as forcing a long time to separate from the baby and weaning, then it is easy to make the baby lose the sense of security, and will also feel special anxiety, easy to cause trauma to the baby's heart, thus affecting the parent-child feelings, so to say, choose a suitable time, and step by step to wean the baby will be much easier, the mother can be sure to pay attention.
3. The rebellious period after the age of two
In fact, many mothers will have this feeling, with the baby's age, to the baby's two-year-old or so, will find that the baby began to become particularly rebellious, say nothing, sometimes with the mother to do, especially in the matter of eating, but also let many mothers become helpless, in fact, the baby will usher in the first rebellious period in their lives after the age of two, which is due to the baby's expression ability and self-awareness gradually improved, so it is inevitable that some rebellious behaviors will occur. Although the baby at this stage will indeed make the mother angry, but this is also the only way for the baby to grow up, the baby mother should understand the baby's growth and development laws, especially in the baby's personality, do not overly restrict or yell at the baby, must maintain enough patience to face some of the baby's behavior.
In fact, for the matter of raising a baby, the most difficult time period is nothing more than the above three stages, as long as you survive, maybe it will really be much better, then what about you? What stage are you in with your baby?
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