Happy Marriage: Start by understanding each other's needs

Marriage is the smallest unit of the family and society, and a good marriage needs to be carefully maintained.

As the saying goes: home and everything is happy, a good marriage can make the family harmonious, the career smooth, and the physical and mental health.

But in today's society, we hear more words such as "marriage is the graveyard of love", "marriage is a besieged city, people in the city want to go out, people outside the city want to come over" and so on.

In fact, the marriage relationship, like other relationships in society, also needs to be maintained and managed with heart, and it needs each other's wisdom more, rather than getting along with their own feelings.

Marriage is two parties, emotional needs need to be satisfied with each other, want to harvest a happy marriage, first of all, we must understand the core emotional needs of both men and women in marriage.

Three major needs for men

01 is understood

Men's greatest needs in a relationship are to be heard and understood.

Men want women to understand themselves more in life and work, and to come home and hope to have a delicious meal, as well as warm care and understanding.

A woman who can understand men is actually very wise, and her heart must be very strong.

02 Be respected

Every man has a child living in his heart, men's hearts are actually very fragile, and self-esteem is their most sensitive nerve.

For a man, a woman's respect is the most important source of his self-esteem.

Only the respect given by their own women can make men have the confidence to cut through thorns outside.

03 Worshipped

As long as he is a normal man, he has the need to be adored, especially eager to be recognized and worshiped by the women around him.

But the reality is full of contradictions, many women do not understand this, in many occasions her limelight is stronger than her husband.

And the truly wise woman, the more in public, the more to raise her other half, the more to give him face, and to see his advantages from the heart, the good other half is shaped.

Three major needs for women

01 Security

Security comes from the present and the future.

Now men feel that women are very material, but women want those material things, in fact, because they can't find a sense of security in men, they can't see the future, and they will use the material in front of them to fill the inner emptiness and loneliness.

If you want to give a woman a sense of security, you must not only gradually achieve the present, but also let her see the future.

02 Sense of ceremony

The sense of ritual is to make a certain day and a certain time different from others in the monotonous repetition of days day after day, and become special.

The sense of ceremony can make a woman feel romantic, warm and loving.

The sense of ritual does not require a specific material embodiment, but more of an expression of inner emotions, reminding us that life is not only about the present moment, but also about poetry and distance.

03 Satisfaction

Satisfaction is a joy from the heart, and for women, satisfaction is being coaxed and pampered.

Men should remember women's preferences, be good to her parents, and let women feel your concern and report your whereabouts at any time, rather than waiting for women to check the post.

If you can do the above, women will be able to feel your preference, and their hearts will be greatly satisfied.

In marriage, see your own needs, understand each other's requirements, and then use wisdom to operate, such a marriage will be able to cross and become happier.

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