Especially with the advent of mobile phones, it has become easier to meet people. Logically, it will be easier to find a partner.
But in fact, many young people now seem to have a consensus that it is too difficult to find a partner.
Then many people feel that most of them can't find an object because of their own bad conditions, so there is no way to attract the attention of others, but this is not the case.
You will find that there are many people with particularly good body shape, appearance, and so on who are still single. Often the reasons for this situation are not difficult to understand if you think about it carefully.
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There is no mind at all, very Buddhist.
This is also crucial, many people see others in love are envious, always talk about finding a good partner to fall in love, but in fact do not pay any action.
It is even particularly cold, such as staying at home on weekends, the door is not out of the two doors, there is no serious look. Because you haven't given at all, you may not have gained.
No matter what we do, we have to be prepared, and if we want to have it, we must be careful.
2.
Not brave, always thinking a lot in my heart.
Thinking about it ten thousand times in my heart is not as good as acting again, and now many people have such a phenomenon, and they have not yet begun to fall in love, they are thinking about whether the other party's character is good or not, and whether it will be bad for me in the future.
Simply put, there are too many inner dramas. I thought about the ending 800 times before I started, and finally I just backed down. In the end, you will feel that you are not as good as a person, so why torture each other like this!
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One is used to being alone and doesn't want to cater to others.
The longer a person stays, the more difficult it is to cater to others, and often because of the other party's small shortcomings, they feel that it is not suitable. There is one more person around for no reason, and it is estimated that many people are difficult to adapt to.
It is actually not easy to adapt to a person, but if you can really let go, you can still find a person by accepting it from the heart.
Don't resist this from the heart, make yourself braver, happiness is pursued by your own initiative, and there is never the reality of taking the initiative to have.