Speed reading classic good books, appreciate the essence of the book, hello everyone, I am a red horse, today to take you to interpret the book is "Children of joe's family".
In the original work of "Children of the Qiao Family", the number of narratives of the second aunt is not much, the length is also very short, basically all of them are passed, but the author has made a special mention of the marriage of the second aunt, thinking that the author has far-reaching intentions and carefully studied, but there are many articles and thought-provoking.
After the sister and Shufang got seriously ill after their sister's marriage, they knelt in front of their sister and begged her: You give Zhiqiang to me. Qiao Zuwang is also very happy with you, he has a shop in his house, and the conditions are good.
This kneeling ruined the second aunt's life and the uncle's life.
Anything can be done, but love can't
The enmity of the previous generation was said by his uncle to Qiqi before he died.
Thirty years ago, there were two families in the depths of the alley, one with a male doll named Qi Zhiqiang, and the other with two female dolls, the big one called Wei Shuying and the small one called Wei Shufang, who grew up together, playing crazy in the alley and working together.
Feelings stir up waves in ordinary days, and both girls like Qi Zhiqiang, but Qi Zhiqiang likes the eldest girl Wei Shuying, Shu English is quiet and shy, and Shufang is plump and lively.
Later, Qi Zhiqiang and his sister got engaged, and the Mother of the Qi family gave the unmarried daughter-in-law a pair of jade bracelets, and the sister fell seriously ill after her sister's engagement, and knelt down to beg her sister to give Qi Zhiqiang to her, otherwise she would die.
Her sister Wei Shufang married Qiao Zuwang before she got married.
Qiao Qiqi was only eight years old at the time, and he didn't understand these words said by his uncle, but the reason his uncle said to him was because he had been wronged for a lifetime, and he had been depressed for a lifetime, and he didn't want to bring these words into the coffin.
In the end, the uncle still knew why Shuying suddenly married Qiao Zuwang before marriage, but he still married his sister Wei Shufang.
He doesn't love Shufang, and his sister remarried because her sister forced her to marry, with these hatreds why did he marry Shufang?
Because he didn't want to stay away from Shuying, even if he couldn't be a husband and wife, he still had to stay by his side. Therefore, he never treated Shufang well in his life.
After the uncle's death, the second aunt was changing her uncle's new clothes, and while changing, she said:
You still thought of her, so why did you promise to marry me? You look at you, you are kind to everyone, but not to me, what do you do with our children and children when you leave? You don't care, you are anxious to go to the reunion with her.
The second aunt was very clear in her heart, but she couldn't help it.
Marriages without love are all grievances
The uncle is a warm man, and he can clearly see the attitude and care of the children of the Joe family, but he has never warmed the second aunt who has spent his life with him.
Qiao Zuwang was selfish, he never cared about his sons, even if they had no mother, except to give them a small monthly living expenses, nothing else.
Even his wife, also because of his poor care, died in childbirth, before giving birth, they were in pain, in order to save a few cars, walked two miles to the hospital.
After the death of her sister Shuying, her uncle took care of the children of the Qiao family, but it was a bit excessive, after all, the Qiao family still had a father. In the second aunt's heart, it must be lonely and painful, at least she will think that even if her sister dies, she still lives in her husband's heart.
After the Tangshan earthquake, it was rumored that the earthquake would come again, everyone was nervous and panicked, and they did not dare to sleep in the house at night, they all set up a simple earthquake shed outside the house, and Qiao Yicheng also slept outside with his younger brothers and sisters, but only moved the bamboo mat outside, and surrounded the bed with some cardboard he had picked up. It was my uncle who came and set them up a simple earthquake shed.
The terrible thing is that on this night, the sky suddenly rained heavily, and the uncle was afraid that the earthquake shed was not strong, so he braved the rainstorm in the middle of the night and rushed to the children's side, repaired the earthquake shed, and accompanied the children for a night.
In order to dream of getting rich, Qiao Zuwang sold the jade bracelet that Qi Zhiqiang's mother gave to Qiao Yicheng's mother at that time, and Qi Zhiqiang ran over and had a big fight with Qiao Zuwang, saying that this was Shuying's thing and could not move.
The uncle also often brought food and use to the children, even more than the second aunt cared about the children.
His love for Shuying is hidden in his heart, but he gives the little details of life's care to Shuying's children.
Shufang must be bitter in her heart, but this kind of bitterness cannot be said, nor can it be said, after all, this man was snatched by her and given to her by her sister.
I got love, but I lost my affection
No one could understand the pain in the second aunt's heart, but she had really suffered for half a lifetime, not physically, but in her heart.
After the death of the uncle, the second aunt took three children alone, and later met a man who often came to her house to buy newspapers, this man was really good to the second aunt, the second aunt wanted to live for herself, but the children did not agree, and even scolded the second aunt and the half-old Xu Niang was still thinking about spring and had no chastity.
The second aunt eventually moved in with the man, but she did not get a marriage license.
The second elder of the Qi family said, I just don't agree, let them spend their whole lives, and kill him with disgust!
In fact, if you don't get a marriage license, how can the second elder of the Qiao family do the Lord, it is nothing more than the mother cares about the son, the son does not care about the mother, who cares more about who is a little more.
Because the second aunt and this man lived together for more than twenty years, the second eldest and daughter of the Qi family did not come to see the second aunt once.
Han Xinru has raised such a big son and daughter, do not understand the mother, but for more than twenty years, can not go through this cut, when they have become a family, do not understand the meaning of love for marriage, why is not willing to forgive the mother, the times are progressing, but the thinking is stagnant.
The second aunt always has a vacant piece in her heart, either love or affection.
If you don't approve of it before you die, then be together after death
The second aunt died, and diabetes was tortured for many years. After the death of the second aunt, the man stood in front of the morgue, and he said that he would accompany the second aunt for a while and then go back. When Qi Weimin came to him after completing the formalities, he found that he had gone with his second aunt.
Whether it is fictional or really coincidental, at least this man has truly loved his second aunt.
Qi Weimin did not close his eyes for two days and two nights, and buried his mother and stepfather together.
Qi Weimin looked at the two names in black on the tombstone, and then looked at the far southeast corner, where his biological father was buried. He felt that his father was looking at them, looking at this snow-white brand-new tombstone, the two women that his father had loved and lived with, all far away from him. The years they experienced were gone and never came back.
What is love, love is mutual, it is mutual achievement, not mutual harm, hard involvement is not called love, it is called torture.
If Qi Zhiqiang and his sister Shuying were married, the sister would not have died prematurely because she did not have the love of a man, Shufang would not have been empty to guard this man but could not get his heart, and Qi Zhiqiang would not have endured the pain before dying to say the words that had been held back all his life to Qiqi, who did not understand things.
Qi Zhiqiang is a warm man, he warms everyone around him, but he does not warm his wife, because he is too good at taking care of people, so the children will never understand why their mother will remarry. The only one who is bitter is the second aunt.
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