How do parents react when their child is hurt at school? Should be very distressed, and at the same time hate the "perpetrator", right?
However, after a girl was hurt at school, the mother not only did not hate the person who hurt her daughter, but was also touched by him. What the hell is going on here?
The boy did so after injuring his female classmate,
Thumbs up!
Recently, an ordinary small incident that happened in a primary school in Lu'an City, Anhui Province, has attracted the attention of netizens, and many netizens have given a thumbs up to the little boy in the incident.
This is a second-grade boy who loves to run, and one day, while playing with his classmates, the little boy accidentally pushed down a girl in the same class, and the girl's wrist was sprained.
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After injuring his classmates, the little boy told the teacher for the first time, after which the teacher quickly called the parents of both sides. The girl was taken to hospital in time. The little boy's parents sincerely apologized and bore the girl's medical expenses.
The development of the incident here has been relatively well resolved. However, the boy's next move was touching.
Since he accidentally injured the girl, the boy came to the school gate early every day to wait for the girl, helped the girl carry the school bag to the classroom, and helped the girl sort out the school bag when school was over. Do it every day.
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The friendship between the two children was not only not affected by this incident, but it was better.
The little girl's mother praised the boy's approach, bluntly saying that he was a "responsible little man".
Why do boys have responsibilities? On the one hand, after he injured his classmates, he was able to tell the teacher at the first time, not to avoid being criticized, so that the girl could get timely treatment; on the other hand, he knew that he had brought harm to others and caused inconvenience in life, so he did his best to do something for others and make up for his mistakes.
The boy did not deliberately push the girl down, although it was unintentional, but he did not reduce the demands on himself.
In this regard, the boy's father said: If you do something wrong, you have to bear the consequences, which is the most common thing.
It is not difficult to see that the reason why boys can do this is inseparable from the usual education of their parents.
Responsible child,
It's always heart-warming...
The little boy's behavior has been liked by many netizens, and Xiao Kangjun also felt warm in his heart after watching this news.
The things that responsible children do are always heart-warming.
In August this year, a van owner in Botou City was angry when he found that the taillights of his car parked on the side of the road were damaged, but when he found a note pasted on the front window of the car, his anger disappeared.
The note was written by a 13-year-old junior high school boy. It turned out that the boy was riding home at night and did not pay attention to hitting the van parked on the side of the road. There was no phone in the car, so the boy borrowed a pen and paper from the barbecue shop next door, wrote a note of apology and left a phone to inform the owner that it was his responsibility.
After the owner of the car made a call, the boy kept apologizing. In the end, the owner did not ask the boy for compensation because he felt that the boy's honesty and courage to take responsibility were commendable.
Not only the "big children", but also the responsibility of "small children" is also touching.
A few days ago, a family in Guangxi, younger brothers and sisters were playing in the yard, suddenly a calf appeared in front of the door, probing inside and wanting to come in. The sister was frightened and quickly called her brother.
My brother is just a 6-year-old baby. But when he saw his brother bravely running over with a wooden stick, he waved the wooden stick to drive the calf away, closed the gate, and finally did not forget to hold the two small ones in his arms for comfort.
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He is only 6 years old, but in front of his younger siblings, he is like a little man who can be relied on.
Some people think that it is normal for a child not to take responsibility, because he is too young to take responsibility. However, when you are a child, you do not pay attention to cultivating your child's sense of responsibility, and when you grow up, you may be too late to establish it.
For example, after marriage, men who are not responsible are often not good at handling the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, resulting in family disputes; or after establishing a family, they are still in a state of "giant babies", and they have the habit of finding their parents to solve...
So, how should parents usually cultivate their children's sense of responsibility and responsibility?
Really patterned parents,
Will not neglect the cultivation of children in this regard...
Behind sensible children, most of them have parents who pay attention to education. And parents who really have a pattern will not ignore the sense of responsibility of cultivating their children. For the cultivation of children's sense of responsibility, parents should pay attention to these aspects:
01
Children have no intention of doing wrong things, do not over-reprimand
Children are not as cautious as adults, sometimes accidentally do wrong things, parents can point out the child's mistakes, but do not over-reprimand.
Otherwise, after the child has done something wrong, the first reaction is not to tell the parents, nor to take responsibility, but to avoid and lie.
For example, after the boy knocked down his classmates, he told his parents, and the parents severely reprimanded him: Why are you so careless? They are usually used to it, and let their parents spend money...
Under the education of parents, will the next time the child makes a mistake, will he dare to tell his parents?
The first step in allowing children to take responsibility is the support of their parents. Let your child know that if you accidentally make a mistake, your parents will help you bear it together. Slowly, as the child grows up and becomes more capable, he does not need the help of his parents to bear it.
02
Be a good role model for your child
Many times in life need to take responsibility, if parents usually set a good example in this regard, children will also learn.
Xiao Kangjun knows a father who runs a small restaurant, because of the epidemic, the business of the hotel is sluggish, and he is losing money every month. At this time, the wife accidentally became pregnant with her second child.
The wife felt that now was not the time to have children and wanted to beat the children off, but the father said that he would never want children because of financial problems.
Since then, Dad has quit smoking and drinking, and while running a restaurant, he works odd jobs. The son took care of his mother with his father and gave up snacking because he also wanted to do his part for the family...
The teachings of parents are ten thousand times stronger than empty preaching. If parents usually have no sense of responsibility, how can they ask their children?
03
Let your child do what he can
Exercising children's ability to be independent and autonomous also has a great effect on cultivating children's sense of responsibility. When children try their own things and contribute to the family, they are also cultivating a sense of responsibility for themselves and the most family. Moreover, the child's ability to live has been enhanced, and the ability to take responsibility has also been improved.
It is better to give the child a noble spirit to eat well and dress well. Children who will make great achievements in society in the future must know from an early age that they have a responsibility to bear.
From being responsible for the family to being responsible for the country, children with a sense of responsibility often have ambition. Zhou Enlai knew how to "read for the rise of China" when he was a teenager, which is the embodiment of his deep sense of responsibility for the country.
Only those who have a sense of responsibility can go further. Cultivating children's sense of responsibility lies in the small things in life.
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