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Feelings love affection, encounter blow hurt confusion, what will you do?

author:Unreasonable Zhang Yuxin

#知识创作人第七季 #

Hello everyone, I am Zhang Yuxin! This is my first article to make headlines.

Have you ever had this experience? Discover that your partner is cheating, falling in love with someone you shouldn't love, suddenly being broken up, and having irreconcilable conflicts with your children. Have you ever experienced such emotions? Anger and resentment, consternation and panic, grief and grief. Pain and helplessness, want to cry without tears, thoughts into rivers, hearts trembling, hands trembling.

Thought is the precursor to action, and I thought:

The only one who can accompany you to the end is yourself. Whether it is passing by, staying for a short time, or accompanying you for a ride, unforgettable, it will eventually be lost. You forced yourself to think through and let go, thinking that you could not pass this hurdle, and slowly walked out of the darkest moment, and the thick chicken soup diluted your anxiety and pain. But that person's thing is playing in your mind like a movie, lingering, not beckoning, like a weed, must be cut off and removed.

Do you try to divert your attention, buy groceries or buy bags? Tea or coffee? Listen to crosstalk to see the talk show? You did have fun for at least 2 hours. The ghost in his heart was still in that corner, refusing to leave.

Paying too much attention to others is the curse of being too idle. When I say diversion, I mean the kind of permanent diversion of diamonds. Find something you enjoy, full-time or amateur, focus on it (I can't bear to use it, but he or she), get to know him, study him, polish him, fill in your sick moaning time. Spend time on intentional things, your mind finds a home, your mind becomes peaceful and quiet, your will is tempered, you will be ecstatic about achieving a little success, and you will feel the difficulty of success in frustration. Your mind is already full and full, slowly squeezing away the haze that is hiding in the corner. You will be physically and mentally happy, and a smile will occupy most of your expression. Your happy limbs and rich expressions infect your friends and family around you, who become more optimistic and positive because of your presence, away from negative energy.

Recently, my heart was overgrown with weeds, and I was afraid in the wasted time, and I couldn't find a way forward. After starting to pay attention to the headlines, I was surprised to find that I had an emotional outlet, and those faintly sad, nowhere to be placed in the soul was put home. This is a rare platform for ordinary people. I have written a lot of diaries, written thick travelogues, many photos, the length of the article, pressed at the bottom of the box only my own questions. In today's era, people need more spiritual food, share the harvest of feelings, and dialogue with themselves, if you can communicate with you who resonate with the same frequency, hug the group for warmth, wouldn't it be beautiful!

If you are still struggling in pain, then let yourself go, divert your attention, cultivate your own field, and prop up your own piece of the sky!

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