Women have a strong personality, which is nothing more than innate factors, living environment, and then the impact of life encounters.
The environment is not friendly to women, and the traditional requirements for women: gentle and kind, industrious and capable, dignified and virtuous, elegant and quiet, and so on. If you evaluate a man as strong, basically no one thinks that this evaluation is pejorative; if you evaluate a woman as strong, no matter how good the woman is, most people even if they are complimented, they are negative in their hearts.
The problem, then, is that people are social animals and inherently need to be recognized by the group to prove their value. If you can be a woman who meets social approval, why should you be a strong woman?
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There is nothing to say about the innate strong personality, the genes are placed there, which is not subject to the will of the person, and the woman cannot do it, in addition to which it is an external factor.
Some people ask women with strong personalities, does it mean that they are in a weak position?
Personally, it is difficult to say whether they are in a vulnerable position, but it is certain that in most cases the surrounding environment is very unfavorable to them, and they have no dependence, only on their own. If you don't show a strong side, you and everything you want to protect are likely to be eaten dry and wiped clean.
There is a saying that a man looking for an object must first understand the object's mother, that is, the future mother-in-law. The mother is strong, and the daughter is generally strong.
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In reality, if a family has a strong mother, the father is either weak in personality, weak in economic ability, or may be weak.
In this family, the mother is the one who stands at the top of the door, and it is likely that she is also a protective force. She can't be strong, she has to support her family, and she has to protect herself and her family. The daughter's personality is more likely to follow the mother, and the son is more likely to follow the father.
If both parents are weak, there is no other protective force in the family. The child's personality may follow the parents, or it may be completely opposite to the parents. The personality of the child born in the top of the list is not to say strong, generally more spicy, fierce, of course, this is not absolute, it is possible that the smallest personality is the most powerful.
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It is also understandable that the parents who are protectors are weak in character, so they are bound to be bullied by outsiders, especially relatives and friends, neighbors and neighbors. Children in protected position are worse off and may not be as good as their parents.
People are bullied to a certain extent, either self-demise, sink, or rise up against it. When parents cannot protect their children, children can only protect their parents and themselves in turn. Parents are weak, children are not necessarily weak.
Girls have a strong personality when they play small, some are born, some imitate their mothers, and some are forced by the environment.
Is a strong personality good? At least you can protect yourself and the people you want to protect, so many school bullying incidents, the character of the bullied children, if not all, most of them are cowardly.
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If the parents have a strong personality, once they encounter problems or conflicts, both parties will not give in to each other, and even if they do not divorce after a long time, the family atmosphere is enough. Children have been in such an environment for a long time, and their personalities are prone to polarization.
Parents are strong, and when the child is controlled and suppressed by one of the parents, there is still a chance to breathe; if it is double oppression, then there is no place to escape when there is no independent survival ability.
Children may be weak, inferior, timid, and unassertive; they may also have a rebellious psychology, and their temperament is violent and unreasonable.
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It is said that a person's personality is relatively stable, but some women, before and after going out of society, will be a few years in a short time, completely unlike the person who once knew, not to say that the appearance and body, but to say the character. There are also women who have a gentle temperament and are courteous before marriage, and after marriage, especially after having children, their temperament will change greatly.
Not surprisingly, they have suffered more or less great setbacks, such as work suppression, hardship in life, long-term bullying by their husbands, meanness, difficulty in raising children, and so on.
Even in today's new society, the world is shouting about equality between men and women, but the requirements of society for men and women are not the same, and many times many things are not equal at all.
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Many women will succumb to the prejudices of society, and many women will either stand up for their own interests on their own initiative or have to stand up for their own interests, because they have no way back, and they must resist if they do not want to be oppressed and exploited to death.
Nothing can be looked at one-sidedly, and a strong female personality may cause marital discord, children's personality problems, interpersonal tension and even affect their own health; but if women have a peaceful or weak personality, the above problems cannot be said to be avoided.
Strong personality has a favorable side, there is also a negative side, everyone is in a different situation, the choice is also in the people.