Parents always feel that their children are a "weak person" in life, and we as "strong people" need to take care of and educate them.
This idea is true when the child is young; but as the child grows up and begins to need to do something to prove that he can also be a "helper" for his parents, the strong identity of the parents must change!
Parents and children are usually complementary. The weaker the parents, the stronger the children, the stronger the parents, the weaker the children.
Parents also come from their childhood. Understand that children sometimes want to become mature and stable, and do not want to be treated as naïve children by their parents. Although many things cannot be done and many reasons are not understood, they still cannot change their own psychology.
What's more, there are some things they can do well, but the "care" of parents suppresses their enthusiasm, and it is not advisable for parents to be good at advocating!
Then, if the child is in this state, he will naturally be assimilated, do nothing well, and will no longer exercise himself with interest, and there will be no big success in the future. From this point of view, the child is delayed by the parents.
