Filial piety, filial piety you are obedient

Filial piety. Filial piety is the foundation of virtue! Chinese the first thing that people know is filial piety.

Filial piety is the first thing that every Chinese should be careful to observe, because others will use this as an entry point to understand you.

Those who know filial piety know that everything can be turned into a good thing, and everything can be turned into a good thing.

What is filial piety? If you are filial piety, you will be obedient

Filial piety is the first level that Chinese to test a person. Because parents take pains to take care of their children. Let's go and see, in addition to humans, many animals and plants in nature do not have parental care.

A fruit falls from the tree and falls into the soil, and it will slowly grow buds and gradually grow into a tree. I don't know.

A bird, after it is hatched, can move, can run, and then can fly, it can live independently. After animals are born, they struggle to start living, and people must at least get ten years of care from their parents, otherwise it is difficult to survive.

You see, a child is born, after cutting the umbilical cord, he cries, it is a new life. If, at this point, you throw him away, he will die.

Because at this time, he has no way to survive independently, if he can move like an animal, and then he can wear clothes, then he is not a human being, he will become a god!

The reason why God makes human beings different from other animals and plants and has a great dependence on their parents is to tell us that human beings must rely on each other and cannot take the road of independence, and no one can be independent.

In the human world, independence cannot survive. But foreigners tell us that man should be individual and independent.

Now we have also begun to train children to be independent, so it is simply self-pleading, you try to see it yourself, and when you are old, you will know that as soon as the child is independent, you will be lonely.

When we look at the word "people", we mean that you rely on me, and I rely on you.

Therefore, the relationship between parents and children in China is: when the parents are young, they have the ability to make money, and the parents take care of the children; in the future, the parents will be old and cannot move, and the children will be young and strong, and they will make money to support their parents.

But now people often say: "Raising children is not to prevent old age, children are older and independent, I will not ask children to raise me." "It's singing a high note.

You see, the old man in a foreign country is very hard, he just raises his children to be independent, and in the end he is lonely.

The favorite of the old people in the United States is to bask in the sun in the park, hoping that someone will talk to him, because no one will pay attention to him all day. Would anyone else be willing to live that kind of life?

The reason why we Chinese have children and take care of him is so that we can have a dependence in the future, otherwise when I am old, who can I rely on?

It is our responsibility to raise children and support the elderly. If the child grows up and goes away, what do parents do to raise this child?

Some people say that this is investment, and family affection is regarded as the capital of investment. What is this investment?

This kind of person distorts, confuses, misunderstands the family affection of Chinese, and criticizes Chinese culture for not being right or wrong... What's wrong with raising children and preventing old age? Otherwise, what are you doing to raise your children?

Now parents will leave some assets for their own pension, and now many elderly people are talking, can not all give to the children, otherwise the future will be very tragic, at most can only give part of the children.

Then the child will know that my parents have not devoted themselves to me, and I will not be devoted to them in the future. In this way, between people, the warmth is gone, they are all calculated, what kind of family is it?

Now many people think that they are very foreign, and proudly declare: "At home, when my child does things, I will give him money, encourage him, and let him have the concept of money." ”

But one day, my mother was sick and told her daughter: "Mother is really uncomfortable today, you help your mother sweep the floor and wash the dishes, I will give you ten yuan more today." ”

The daughter said, "Mom, I don't want to make this money today." It can be seen that if relatives talk about money between them, what is the difference between them and outsiders?

Parents and children talk about money, many responsible children can not be exhausted, so that parents are old, who will take care of you?

In Taiwan, many people install cameras in their homes. As soon as I watched the video, I learned that as soon as the family went out, the babysitter would abuse the old man, beat him and kick him.

Some kindergartens will give children chronic sedatives, because in this way, children will not cry, which is more convenient.

But after eating too much of this sedative, the child's entire brain will degenerate. No one wants to take care of the sick except his relatives; no one wants to be with the old man unless he is your father.

However, this set of young people is outdated in the eyes of today's young people, who believe that after internationalization and modernization, this set should be discarded.

The reason why the current child dares to make his hair colorful and dressed in a mess is that he does not have parents in his eyes.

His parents should also be ashamed, because you didn't teach him well, and raising a child is the same as not having a child.

Now people always like to take "the times are different" as an excuse, obviously you are different, but also said that the times are different.

Many people pursue achievements and how much money you make in a year, but you are not even filial piety to your parents and elders, the closest people, what is the use of making more money?