"Chicken baby education" or "Buddhist parenting"?
"Gentle mother" or "strict tiger mother"?
How hard is it for young moms to balance individuals and family?
What is the best education for children's growth?
What are the crash moments a "chicken mother" going through?
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In the face of a series of problems, Tencent Video's "Amazing Mother" was launched a few days ago, which triggered a strong resonance among "mothers".
This is a documentary about how online mothers educate their children at the moment of inner volume, and the thinking and self-growth that accompany the educational process.
On last week's show, we met two moms, one determined to raise her daughter into a future Olympic figure skating champion, and the other as a million-fan parenting blogger, but encountered unexpected problems in educating her children.
In order to train her daughter Jasmine, who has a talent for sports, to learn figure skating, she almost devoted all her energy, quit her job as a teacher, and accompanied her daughter to travel two hundred kilometers to the ice rink every day for devil training.
Spending a lot of money on famous teachers, the sky-high coaching fee of two dollars per minute is ten times more expensive than learning gymnastics. For Jing Han, cultivating her daughter's sportsmanship is to make her realize that only by learning to lose can she learn to win.
In addition to figure skating, Jasmine has also tried more, signing a Hollywood child star agency, shooting commercials, acting in TV series, practicing gymnastics... At the same time, she also studied domestic programming online classes and achieved excellent results in school.
How much time and energy does it take for a mother to cultivate such a well-rounded child?
As a Master of Education, what kind of educational philosophy does she believe in and practice? And in the face of the mistakes of the game and the tears after Jasmine's every fall, before the big dream of the Olympics, how will the family pass the hurdles?
Whether the inner volume or lying flat may be a topic that needs to be considered from an early age.
On the other side of the world in Shanghai, China, Ah Fat, a white-collar worker from a foreign company and an Internet celebrity parenting blogger with millions of fans, is also facing her parenting problems.
At the urging of Ah Fat, his son Oda was already studying the curriculum of the primary school when he was in the middle class of the kindergarten, but unexpectedly, in Shanghai's lottery enrollment policy, he accidentally shook into the ordinary primary school called "Cai Xiao" by Shanghainese.
Ah Fat was not willing to let Oda lie flat, so he began a new round of chicken baby battles...
Ah Fat, who has high requirements for education, how to find a way out in the inner anxiety and children's incomprehension? Between the inner volume and the lying flat, how should the fat mother and son find a balance?
From Los Angeles to Shanghai, mothers from different regions and families have the same worries and love.
Some netizens commented that they especially understand such a mother, because they are also, and some people say that they admire Jasmine's mother, cultivate the child's big heart, and only care about whether the child has done it and worked hard.
Here, there are anxious Internet celebrity parenting blogger chicken baby mothers, there are also Dali Buddhist mothers who let go, there are Los Angeles Chinese mothers who are bent on rushing to the Olympic Games with their babies, and there are Singaporean Chinese tiger mothers who pursue elite education layer by layer...
In the face of children's incomprehension and quarrels, the balance of life and family, their own inner struggles and choices, they have been exploring different possibilities.
From the north to Kunming, Henan, from the United States to Singapore, Finland... Traveled to many countries around the world, Chinese and foreign teams jointly filmed, covering more diverse educational samples and moving stories.
The main creative team goes deep into the family to eat and sleep together, and uses a real anthropological fieldwork to restore the real life of the characters in a panoramic way.
Not only education, but also life. Not only be a mother, but also be yourself.
No one is born to be a mom, different moms have their own wonderful, love and education never have a single template.
Each episode of monologue tells the most sincere family affection and emotion:
If you were on camera, what would you like to say to your mom and kids? The love and concern that we usually can't say is hidden in life, and it is released at this link.
Whether it is "chicken baby education" or "Buddhist parenting", "gentle and loving mother" or "strict tiger mother", in each mother, there are amazing education methods and shining female wisdom.
Their understanding of the world, their persistence in growing up, their love of life, their tenacity and independence in the face of challenges, and their love for their children all constitute a great education and a great self!
As children, we may have all felt the "pain" of being "dominated" by our mothers to study and attend cram schools, and we may have not understood or even argued with our mothers, but have we ever understood the true inner thoughts and expectations of mothers?
As women, we may have common entanglements, should we have children? How to balance family and personal work growth? Is it to be a "tiger mother" or a "Buddhist" stocking?
"Many mothers say that they sacrificed their happiness and time for their children, but that is actually a lie, because the children really want you to be comfortable."
Faced with the choice of education methods, perhaps young children can also bring us new inspiration.
There are many ways to educate, and love has never had a standard answer.
Amazing mothers always use their sparkling wisdom and tenacity to support the growth of their children, and give us love and warmth while living their own.
There is no perfect education, only the mother who loves you the most.
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