A thirty-year-old father took a three-year-old child to the mall, and the baby was a little tired after walking for a long time, so he wanted his father to carry him on his back.
Dad was reluctant at first, but he couldn't grind the child. Just ask the baby, "You can't walk now, daddy will carry you on his back."
So when Dad is old, what do you do to me? The baby listened to this question, thought about it a little and said, "Daddy is the best for me!" Dad was very happy to hear this, and immediately picked up the child.
As a result, the baby added another sentence, "Daddy still has Mommy when he's old, let Mom take care of you when he's old!" ”
After the child's father listened, his face turned red with anger, but he thought that his son was still young, so he didn't say anything.
Do you have a sense of déjà vu? Yes, in daily life, many parents will ask their babies, after getting old, the baby does not care about himself?
Although there is a slight element of joking in saying this, some parents will still mind their children's answers.
The love of parents for their children is selfless and does not care about returns, the arrival of children is already one of the happiest things in their lives, and the hard work of raising children is completely out of their love for their children.
However, having said that, in reality, there are many parents who still hope that their children can feel their own contributions to him, and also hope that their children can respond to their own efforts, even if it is only verbal, parents do not mind.
However, things are not completely satisfactory, and the child is not as perfect as imagined. The reality is often that the love that parents give to their children is always invisible and unsentimental to the children.
Don't say it's a three-year-old baby, and those who don't understand things may be thirteen years old and still only care about themselves, which makes their parents angry.
In the mainland, everyone has a high degree of recognition of the concept of "raising children and preventing the elderly". Therefore, when you are old, you still hope to live with your children, rather than living in a nursing home or living alone with your wife and children.
Many parents will have such a thought: after they are old, if the child does not support himself, he thinks that the child is not filial piety, and it seems that he will be laughed at by other parents if he does not say that he has suffered.
Now the thinking of young people has long since changed. The three-year-old baby may not understand anything, and told his parents that "in the future, buy a big villa for mom and dad to live", and the parents listened to it very warmly.
But when the child grows up, goes out to see the society, and after a few years of wandering, he may feel that the pension is also a big burden.
In the United States, children rarely live with their parents when they reach adulthood. Parents let them go to society early, and parents have long been prepared for the pension savings, and do not expect their children to support themselves.
We must also have this realization, when children grow up, boys are the pillars of the family, and girls have their own families. Each has its own difficulties, and parents can't bear to burden them, right?
In addition, parents do not have to be too pessimistic, after all, when the child is young, he has paid so much, and the impact of day after day, the child will feel it.
Even if you don't understand things now and say that you don't raise you, you won't really do it in the future! Maybe when I grow up, I regret saying such a thing!
Therefore, the answer of the three-year-old baby is not important now, and parents should not pay too much attention to it!